Swapping Partners for a night, anyone?

[Devilish1]

Ive done a search about swapping but all i came up with was swingers.

Has anyone ever gone out with another couple, finding out that you was attracted to the other couple and go back to your place and just swapped partners for the night? No 4some. just sex with someone else in a different room?
If so. how was it and would you ever do it again?


Just curious.... hehe

 

[Ladybird]

I'll speak up... I've done it.

When hubby and I were still together we had some friends we saw often. All four of us got on together really well, and we'd usually have too much to drink and flirt and tease with one another.

One night it just went a little further. And before I knew it, my friend and I were petting very heavily, and his wife and my hubby had disappeared.

We all got together for a short time, just to say... 'do we want to do this?' Of course we did, so we just went to different bedrooms. Fortunately we were at our friends house at the time.

Most surprising was how we all interacted the next morning. There was no embarrassement or jealosy. Our friendship was stronger than the lust we'd all felt the previous evening.

For the next 3 months or so, we'd swap whenever we could. It was very exciting. Jealousy wasn't a problem.. it was more a case of some gentle affection and good sex to be shared, nothing else.

If I had a partner, yes I would do it again. But I'd be very careful about who I swapped with.

 

[koalabear]

Why bother having a partner,

if you are just going to swap them away.

 

[marksgirl]

I just might tomorrow night!

 

[Tammygurl]

Swapping wouldn't interest me.

 

[madelaine angel]

had an interesting (and very vodka fuelled) evening with my fiancee and a workmate and his girlfriend, we all sat in his 1 roomed flat drinking loads and talking, i think (but guess i'll never know) that if the opportunity and space had come up something may have happened.

however, im not sure which way we would have swopped. my workmate has expressed an interest in being with my boyfriend, and i certainly wasnt averse to his girlfriend, i dont know if we would have all been in the same room (ok, i know technically that that's a foursome not swapping!) or if we'd have stayed boy / girl.

guess it's something to think about when filing gets a bit too much...

 

[Devilish1]

Re: Why bother having a partner,

if you are just going to swap them away.

Well, we are dating ... i guess you can call us "partners."

Its just the subject has come up and the idea of it interest me and apparently it does my "partner". We have talked about laying out some ground rules between us "Incase" we go that far.
My only rule is to not throw it up to the others face or talk about it unlss we both agree we had a great time.

He asked me why i would be interested in doing the swap thing, i told him to say it was a experience. I asked him the same thing,he said he was just curious.
This is coming from a man who wouldnt have a 3-some with his first wife who was bi. Is this strange or what? lol

When swapping, do any of you have any "ground rules" to follow?

 

[Photographer_wu]

Been there, done that!

My first wife and I used to do this occasionally many years ago. I prefered same room or same house swapping but occasionally we'd seperate for the night. I enjoyed other women but not as much as watching my wife and standing in line occasionally!

 

[TimeCrisis]

Im all for swaping partners.

I'll take the guys wife/girlfriend and he can have my hand and....wait a minute that would mean i would have too....