Surrender ...

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I tried to hide us from the windows of the dorm that stood adjacent to the public playground we had wandered to. An old unused drainpipe provided cover.

Passionately, we kissed. I held her tightly as our bodies pressed against one another as we stood there in the dim light of the street light. Our bodies, hot with lust, served as both stimulated and stimuli. Our hands felt, explored one another, palms pressed, fingers danced till both were afire with desire.

From her face, my hands followed the contours of her neck, her shoulders and down her arms, a ripple of her biceps, the curve of her elbow, hair, soft as whispers blanketed her forearms, her fingers entwined with my very own and embraced each one.

Slowly I moved her hands from our sides, up till I brought them together between her covered breast. I paused briefly. Then with fingers interlocked, I softly lifted her hands and brushed her face with my fingers, like a painter applying accent strokes.

Her hands followed mine, brushing her face, then feeling the silkiness of her hair. I pressed on, higher, lifting her hands gently above her head, pressing them together and against the drainpipe.

Then it came, her surrender, like a fugitive from justice, her hands raised, surrendered…


Sorry gang, I had to do that just to get my point across -

How many of you ladies feel like this? How many of you melt when you stand/lay there, arms raised, vulnerable, surrendered…

Please ladies; give me insight on this.
 
to just yield totally... give yourself to them.. let yourself be taken in whatever fashion strike their fancy at the time
mmmmmm ;)
 
That vulnerable, subdued, dominated, manhandled feeling keeps me going back! I've actually adjusted my work out so that I won't develop much more upper body strength.

Judging by the tremendous amount of wetness, perhaps I do "melt" ;)
 
carini said:
to just yield totally... give yourself to them.. let yourself be taken in whatever fashion strike their fancy at the time
mmmmmm ;)


I second that emotion. :p
 
I'm submissive too so when he draws my hands and arms above my head. I melt also. That is him taking my control and I let him.

What else do you want to know?
 
lilfrk said:

I'm submissive too so when he draws my hands and arms above my head. I melt also. That is him taking my control and I let him.

What else do you want to know?

What other actions, by you or your lover, conjure up feelings of surrender/submission?
 
The time my lover whispered in my ear "Are you mine?" oh sweet Jesus H. Chris did that do it to me. :)
 
Other actions: When he comes up behind me and touches my neck or shoulder and gently pushes. That makes me sink to my knees and just wait for whatever else he has in mind.

When he is looking me in the eye, face to face and his arms are around me and he slowly reaches up and pulls my hair. Forcing my head back so he can bite me. For some reason the more he pulls my hair the more tender his kiss is. Like offsetting the pleasure/pain.

Sometimes he pushes my arms behind me so I have no use of them. And he holds me by my hair.

The ultimate submission/surrender to me is arms above me or under me and him dripping wax on me. That is me trusting him completely.

All of those actions of submission/surrender are about the same thing to me. It's about me trusting him and knowing that he wants to bring me pleasure. He is taking control of it all and all I have to do is enjoy.

Is that what you wanted to know? Did I leave anything out?

Hope it all makes sense. This is my longest post ever.
 
I love that feeling of being vulnerable and dominated, too. Yes, having my hands pinned over my head will tame me in a heartbeat. Also, in a heated argument, being pulled and held tightly will take the fight right out of me.

A lot of us seem to love to be dominated and feel vulnerable. Insight? I think it's that it makes us feel so feminine, possessed by someone strong and masculine. Also, there's the good girl/bad girl factor. We get to be good girls, "forced" to do what we wanted to do in the first place. If we're the initiators, we risk being labeled as sluts, but if we're dominated, taken, we get to maintain our virtuous status.

Just a thought. Or maybe it's just a conditioned response from reading those bodice-ripper romances as teenagers. LOL
 
lilfrk said:

Other actions: When he comes up behind me and touches my neck or shoulder and gently pushes. That makes me sink to my knees and just wait for whatever else he has in mind.

When he is looking me in the eye, face to face and his arms are around me and he slowly reaches up and pulls my hair. Forcing my head back so he can bite me. For some reason the more he pulls my hair the more tender his kiss is. Like offsetting the pleasure/pain.

Sometimes he pushes my arms behind me so I have no use of them. And he holds me by my hair.

The ultimate submission/surrender to me is arms above me or under me and him dripping wax on me. That is me trusting him completely.

All of those actions of submission/surrender are about the same thing to me. It's about me trusting him and knowing that he wants to bring me pleasure. He is taking control of it all and all I have to do is enjoy.

Is that what you wanted to know? Did I leave anything out?

Hope it all makes sense. This is my longest post ever.


Longest ever eh? Well I think that me quoting it is only fitting.

Leave anything out? I just love to feel it when that feeling of surrender comes over a woman, to feel her surrender, feel her knees give and to know what she's giving ...

Hot times, hot times...
 
~squirming reading the thread~

ummm.. well two times in particular that should give you a pretty good idea of my viewpoint.

*on my back with my arms out to my side, him kneeling on my upper arms, pinning them to the bed as he pushes himself into my mouth holding my hair

*doggie style with his powerful legs kneeling on my calves securing my legs open so I can't move as he thrusts inside.

so... can you guess if I like it or not? hehe
 
Yep longest ever. And I think this is the most posts I've ever made in a thread. Thank you for quoting it. Makes me feel like somone actually paid attention to something I said.

Can you tell me what it is about a woman surrendering to you that is so hot to you? Is it an ego power thing for you or something else?
 
willfulbrat said:
A lot of us seem to love to be dominated and feel vulnerable. Insight? I think it's that it makes us feel so feminine, possessed by someone strong and masculine. Also, there's the good girl/bad girl factor. We get to be good girls, "forced" to do what we wanted to do in the first place.

Ooooh, yes, indeed!

"Forced"...seduced...

I love wearing my hair up, leaving my neck exposed, vulnerable...

I love having my hands tied above my head, leaving both of my seducer's hands free to roam over my body.

And while resistance may be futile, it certainly serves to turn the heat up--no rough stuff, mind you, but to have strong hands grab fistfulls of my hair, then to be forcibly kissed on eyes, mouth, neck...

Mmmmm-hmmmmm....
 
I haven't had the chance to do it in RL yet, but some element of surrender is always present in my fantasies and in my cyber play. Just the other day, I was cybering with a guy, and right in the middle of the scene he said, "Look at me." Three little words, but they had me squirming in my chair. I refused, of course, and he eventually "persuaded" me to obey him. He knew I was going to refuse, just as I knew I would eventually obey.

I don't know why surrender means so much to me, but I think willfulbrat had a good point about the good girl/bad girl factor. I was raised to be a good girl, but I always wanted to be bad, lol. Surrendering allows me to be very, very bad.
 
*looking around at all the beautiful submissives here at Lit."

*taking out pen and paper*

Ladies...I am now taking applications.
 
Suddenly I have the urgent need to be stripped, tied to a bed and completely ravaged


::sighs::
 
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