Surprise!

[luluxnoir]

every once in a while when my boyfriend and i need a little shake up in our sex life, we call surprise! and the other person has to come up with some way to spice up the night and make it amazing. tonight, its my turn and im at a dead end. hes not really that open about what he enjoys so from i do know i want to try and use it. i know he likes stockings and corsets, blowjobs (who doesnt lol) and to watch me use toys......but i want to really really surprise him. any ideas? i would really appreciate them!!!! thanks guys!!!!

 

[DrHappy]

What's exciting for one person is boring to another. We don't know what you have and haven't done. Ever tied him to the bed and blind folded him? Ever videoed yourselves in bed? Ever give him a BJ whlie he sips champagne? Ever watched erotic movies together? Ever go to an adult novelty or adult movie store together? Ever make a video yourself mastrubating and using toys? These activities may be too wild for wild, yet may be too tame for other.

 

[culloden]

Could you take him out to dinner, wearing stockings and a corset under more respectable clothing? Let him know how you're dressed beforehand? And suck his cock on the ride back home?

That would qualify as a good night in my book.

 

[silverwhisper]

if you're going out for dinner, i suggest going commando and letting him know only once you're there. if the temperature permits, maybe you show him instead of tell him. :>

ed

 

[BenDover4]

every once in a while when my boyfriend and i need a little shake up in our sex life, we call surprise! and the other person has to come up with some way to spice up the night and make it amazing. tonight, its my turn and im at a dead end. hes not really that open about what he enjoys so from i do know i want to try and use it. i know he likes stockings and corsets, blowjobs (who doesnt lol) and to watch me use toys......but i want to really really surprise him. any ideas? i would really appreciate them!!!! thanks guys!!!!

So, what did you do and how did it turn out ??

 

[Eilan]

Fill out your profile.

That could surprise all of us !!

You need a new schtick.

 

[sunandshadow]

Ever played with licking whipped cream and chocolate sauce off each other?

 

[shiny5437]

every once in a while when my boyfriend and i need a little shake up in our sex life, we call surprise! and the other person has to come up with some way to spice up the night and make it amazing. ....kiss:

What a fabulous idea

 

[peachydreams]

One interesting idea, especially since he likes toys, is to purchase a wireless remote controlled "butterfly" (clit stimulator). Head out to dinner with it in place and surprise him with the remote control!

 

[DogStarMan69]

One interesting idea, especially since he likes toys, is to purchase a wireless remote controlled "butterfly" (clit stimulator). Head out to dinner with it in place and surprise him with the remote control!

Very good idea, indeed. Makes me think of that Jim Carrey movie where he has omnipotent powers a la 'god,' and at one point is telepathically/psychically willing his girlfriend to experience orgasmic waves while she's in the can getting ready. Big fun

 

[Gr8eyz]

Very Good....

One interesting idea, especially since he likes toys, is to purchase a wireless remote controlled "butterfly" (clit stimulator). Head out to dinner with it in place and surprise him with the remote control!

Best suggestion I've seen!

I bought one of these while in the French Quarter and then gave it to my girl at the next bar we went to. She hesitantly went to the ladies room and put it on. When she came back out my boss stopped her to chat for a minute and I'll never forget the look on her face when I hit the switch. Priceless!

They went to the dance floor and I totally enjoyed tormenting her with turning it on and off as she danced with him. A couple of strangers were next to me at the bar and we had been chatting and they kept inquiring about the grin on my face. I finally told them about our new toy and they loved watching her expressions change.

Within a few minutes, they were headed down to the place I told them where we got it to get one of their own!

Me and my girl ended up in the ladies room at Pat O'Brien's not long after that, but that's another story.....

 

[texasace]

every once in a while when my boyfriend and i need a little shake up in our sex life, we call surprise! and the other person has to come up with some way to spice up the night and make it amazing. tonight, its my turn and im at a dead end. hes not really that open about what he enjoys so from i do know i want to try and use it. i know he likes stockings and corsets, blowjobs (who doesnt lol) and to watch me use toys......but i want to really really surprise him. any ideas? i would really appreciate them!!!! thanks guys!!!!

See my post on The Perfect Blow Job... In this section just a few days ago. I discuss the Prostate Milking technique, and the anal vib for your boy friend... It just may be the SUSRPRISE that he doesn't expect. Happy surprising!!!

 

[amy711]

One interesting idea, especially since he likes toys, is to purchase a wireless remote controlled "butterfly" (clit stimulator). Head out to dinner with it in place and surprise him with the remote control!

Where can you find one of those? I've done some searching and come up with nothing.

 

[infinity706]

http://www.mybodyvibes.com/store/vibrators/butterfly_vibrators/

 

[flowerpetals]

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