Essentially, you prefer women, but you are interested in one aspect that is not traditionally considered part of female nature.
There are two places on lit where you can find people to talk to. transwomen and tgirls and shemales that hang out in the GLBT forum tend to be more concerned with their identity and the voyage-- the folk that are about the humpy and yummy more likely to hang out in the fetish forum, which you can access from the main forums link at the top.
Stella I am guessing that if anyone comes to you with a description of their fetish/kinks/urges you can reach into your haversack and find the appropriate catagory that it fits into. I often wondered how I have lived this long and not been exposed to a fraction of what you know. I have lived in moderately large cities -Nashville and Charlotte- but sadly haven't been exposed to much I guess. Boring life prolly. Good thing there are folks around that can shed light on things some of us wonder about in the recesses of our minds.