Suggestions for strap-ons...finding and using

[Luvalei]

I need some suggestions on finding the right strap-on. I will be using it on my husband and we don't want it to be TOO large and I would like something there to pleasure me as well. Anyone have favorites, or suggestions? Can they vibrate...if so that would be great too. We never been down this road before and any information on the subject would be very helpful.
Thanks.

 

[rcuhljr]

I've only heard rave reviews about the feel doe, seems like a good fit (pun intended) pass my heartfelt jealousy onto your husband

 

[queen_of_cups]

Haven't used one yet, but some of the advice I got when I was starting to shop around had to do with making sure the fit of the harness is comfortable - there's two styles of where the straps go, so you might want to visit a sex shop and see if you can try some on just to compare the comfort of where the straps sit.

The different styles also keep the front portion anchored slightly differently so again, something to try out to see how that fits with your particular physique.

As concerns dildoes, make sure you get a harness that accomodates the size dildo that you want - not all harnesses come with clip in rings for variable sizes.

Check out the Shopping Advice section at Toys in Babeland for a starter discussion on the ins and outs of harness and dildo selection. Even if you don't buy there, the article is interesting as a starting point.

 

[Luvalei]

Thank you both! Anymore advice out there. I'm anxious to buy one and try it out.

 

[CuriousRed]

My wife has gone through several. She had one that was a softer dildo attached to it, and her GF ended up "breaking" it. (Not with us).
We also bought another one, that was a better set up. I can't remember the name, but it had the little orange nub you attached different attachments to it. She primarily did me with a 7" or so. Myself being closer to 6", she doesn't really want anything bigger than me if she uses it on herself. Mostly we use whatever one she happens to have around .

Just don't go too big and LOTS of lube. I'd get some rubber gloves and use your fingers first too. That will ease up to it. After 5-10 minutes, he should be loving it and want to be pounded!!!