Suggestions for Online D/S

[Newsub122]

I'm looking for ideas and suggestions for how you can serve your dom online.
I've done my own searches and tried to come up with my own ideas but most of what I've come up with is best carried out in person.

Thanks!

 

[Miles Long]

I'm looking for ideas and suggestions for how you can serve your dom online.
I've done my own searches and tried to come up with my own ideas but most of what I've come up with is best carried out in person.

Thanks!

This is really particular to the dom in question as every dom will have different things they desire of their subs. Have they told you how they want you to serve them? I'm guessing bare minimum they probably want you to send them youtube links of Nickelback concert videos every day first thing when you wake up, but beyond that you'll have to ask them. Good luck!

 

[Iamsubmissive]

This is really particular to the dom in question as every dom will have different things they desire of their subs. Have they told you how they want you to serve them? I'm guessing bare minimum they probably want you to send them youtube links of Nickelback concert videos every day first thing when you wake up, but beyond that you'll have to ask them. Good luck!

Miles, I think you're secretly obsessed with Nickelback...but don't worry, I won't tell anyone.

As for ways to serve online...that is sort of 'Dom-specific'. Once you get to know your Dom well enough, you'll find it easier to come up with things to do for him that he likes. Sorry, I know that wasn't much help!

 

[cookiecat]

OP - are you serving a dominant now? Are you looking for creative ideas to surprise him with? Searching just because you're curious? Are you interested in what an online dominant might ask you to do or are you looking to be the instigator in offering your service?

When I monkeyed around online, I never had anyone cruel enough to ask me to send Nickelback links.

I googled online bdsm and a bunch of links came up. Here's one:

http://dominantguide.com/3338/ask-anything-how-do-i-create-perfect-online-bdsm-scenes/

 

[FixJets]

I have done some of this on both sides, dom and sub.
a lot depends on what both of you like, what limits you want to push or be pushed too. AND your surroundings. Live alone? house or apartment? city or country? things to do at home, things to do at work or when you are out in public.

message me if you are interested want to know more, ill tell you what we did.

 

[DomPeter5]

I agree with previous comments that each Dom/Domme will have his/her own preferences about what they have their online sub do.

I like to give assignments to my online subs. Examples are:

- Go without wearing panties today. Send me an email tonight about how you felt.
- On your lunch break, go to the bathroom and masturbate until you are on the edge. Send me a IM asking for permission to cum.
- Tie yourself in a way you know will please me. Email me a description of your bondage.

 

[Blase]

I'm looking for ideas and suggestions for how you can serve your dom online.

As others have said, every pairing and every relationship is unique. If you spend some time thinking about your the things your Dom (if you currently have one) likes, it shouldn't be too difficult to find ways to incorporate that into an online relationship, even if the result doesn't look the same as it might in person.

For example, I once had a sub who, without any prompting, promised that any time she messaged me, she would be undressed. That might seem sort of silly because she didn't have a webcam (they weren't as ubiquitous at that time), so I couldn't actually see her, but it was just a bit of intimate fun between the two of us.