Suggested positions?

[GreenCU24]

Hi guys, Im new here.

I've got this fairly new girlfriend, she and I want to have sex for the first time together (We have both had sex with other poeple) sometime soon, and its made me a little nervous about it. The problem is, Im a pretty big guy, Im 6'2 and big, like, half fat, half muscle, and she's 5'2 and cant weigh more than 110 pounds... I feel liek Im going to crush this girl if she and I were to do certain things. The last girl I had sex with wasn't as small, so I didn't feel weird about it, but looking at my current girlfriend, again, Im nervous. I dont honestly think that I will "crush" her, but it's a subconscious thing I guess. She is so much smaller than me. I guess what I wanted to ask was if you guys thought that she and I would be fine doign the standard Missionary position, and if there are any other good ones you may think of that would get this feelign out of my head, even if its only temporarily, like during the time that we are having sex?

 

[intelligencenazi]

It's never been much of an issue with me...

Don't be too nervous about it. Everything will probably just fine. I'm 5'2" myself and was recently with a guy who was 6'4", broad shoulders - just plain massive. Missionary worked wonderfully for us and I didn't get crushed. Well, at one point my face was sort of mashed against his chest, but he was being extremely inconsiderate at the time and it's certainly not a problem that's in any way unavoidable. We actually had problems with me being on top of him b/c his hips were as huge as the rest of him and my knees absolutely would not reach the bed. We probably could have made that work with pillows, but we just moved on. Actually, with a bit of work you could probably make any position work just fine for the two of you that you can make worth with anyone else. Just pay attention to her and have her let you know if she starts to feel squashed or overwhelmed or anything and you can switch things up. So just relax. Good luck.

 

[ethicalslut]

The human body is good like that... where there's a will, there's a way. We're designed to do this, neither of you are outside what would be considered 'normal' for a male and female human being... there might be some logistical issues but I have a distinct premonition that you'll do just fine.

 

[Lynxie]

If you've read the posts above mine and still feel nervous, try a position other than missionary for your first time. Doggy or having her on top are two ideas that come to mind that keep her our from under you. Then, when you're more comfortable with her, you can experiment and work past the "size issues."

 

[phoenix1224]

I agree whole-heartedly with everything that's been sais so far...

As for positions... If you're THAT conserned with crushing her, you could always try doing it with her sitting on the edge of a table or dresser and you standing between her legs.

Just a thought.

 

[AssTart]

Our favorite position

My Husband and I have the same issue. Try this: She is on her back, you lay perpendicular on your side. (Think "T") One of her legs goes over your waist the other between your legs - her ankle on your ass (good for pulling you to her.) OR both of her legs can be draped over your side - good for her to play with her clit while you're inside her.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Spooning would be fine.
Or put her on your lap - facing you or facing away from you.
Hell - if you're that much bigger you could just hold her up against a wall and........

 

[GreenCU24]

Thanks guys. I had thought of some of these positions, but I just wanted to see what you guys thought. Doggy style wouldn't be very easy unless she was like, up on a bed or something. I tried it with my last girlfriend and she was 5'7, even kneeling I was too tall for my penis to be able to reach down to her. haha Alot of the other ones seem liek good ideas though...