Success sucking straight cock?

[uniqueusername]

I'm an infrequent cocksucker (the only guy I play around with lives in another state), but the opportunity may present itself in a few weeks to go on a trip with an old college buddy - just the two of us. Nothing has ever happened between us, but since I don't get to indulge in oral action very often, I thought I might try and create a situation that would open the door to the possibility of giving him a blowjob.

He's an old friend that I value very much, and I will tread lightly and back off if it doesn't look like it could work. I figure a few drinks, some bitching about not getting any at home anymore (both married with kids and in our mid-50s), "ever thought about...?"

Anyway, I'm looking for any examples of successful attempts to convince a straight buddy to let you blow him. How did you approach it? Was it too awkward afterwards? Any regrets?

Or. conversely, if you were a a straight guy and had a buddy offer to blow you, how did that turn out? What did the other guy do/say that convinced you to let him do it?

Any help would be appreciated!

 

[YukonJack907]

Great question

I’m sure a lot of guys have asked themselves the same (or a similar) question. I’d like to come out to a neighbor, but have similar doubts, etc. If the timing/situation was ever right, I’ve thought about asking him if he has ever had a gay dream. If the conversation continued and he asked for more info, I would tell him about a gay dream I had recently and see if that leads to anything. In that way, I wouldn’t have to out myself directly, but leave the door open for further discussion (and action?).

 

[J1biboi]

I've only sucked one cock and he was straight but it was a long time ago. It's a long story but to make it short. He was a friend, we worked together, hung out and drank together. One night we were alone in this guy's house and we were both pretty drunk and horney and I had always wanted to suck a cock. So I just said, I've always wondered what it would be like to suck a cock, could I suck yours? It really kind of surprised me when he said, I'll try anything once. So I sucked his cock and I liked it.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Did he cum in your mouth?

 

[J1biboi]

Did he cum in your mouth?

No. I never got to finish him.

 

[dodgeboy2]

I only one time sucked a straight cock, it was a friend, Jim, I was vacationing with when the two of us went to Florida. We were drinking and I don't know why but I asked him if he ever had his cock sucked by another guy. When he said no, and with me being pretty drunk, I asked him if he would want to. HIs answer was are you fucking gay and I said no I'm bi. After another shot he dropped his pants and sat on the bed, without a word I dropped to my knees gave his big fat cock it's 1st MTM blowjob.

He let me suck his cock a few more times, but when we got home he became cold & distant. I found out he told another friend about it, this guy was also a good friend of mine and unknow to Jim he already knew about me since he was gay and we hooked up a couple of times.

Needless to say Jim & I were no longer friends, which is too bad at least for him since if he was cool about it I would have sucked him whenever he wanted.

 

[cubbyfire04]

I've only been picked up by one guy that didn't know I was into men. I was at a bar and he was next to me... Very openly gay talking to the female bartender he was friends with. He knew I overheard them (probably on purpose) and by the time he mentioned he was gay, he'd disarmed me with enough pleasantries that I told him I was bisexual. Moments later, I found he'd snuck up behind me in the bathroom stall I left open, and before I knew it his hands were around my waist holding my cock while I pissed. When I finished, he locked the stall and dropped to his knees sucking my cock right then. I didn't finish because someone came in, but within the hour we were at my hotel. He walked into the bathroom, and came out stark naked. I followed suit and before I knew it I was buried in his ass. After I finished, I flipped him over and sucked him dry before driving him home. I should call him lol

 

[jamesdillinger]

I've only been picked up by one guy that didn't know I was into men. I was at a bar and he was next to me... Very openly gay talking to the female bartender he was friends with. He knew I overheard them (probably on purpose) and by the time he mentioned he was gay, he'd disarmed me with enough pleasantries that I told him I was bisexual. Moments later, I found he'd snuck up behind me in the bathroom stall I left open, and before I knew it his hands were around my waist holding my cock while I pissed. When I finished, he locked the stall and dropped to his knees sucking my cock right then. I didn't finish because someone came in, but within the hour we were at my hotel. He walked into the bathroom, and came out stark naked. I followed suit and before I knew it I was buried in his ass. After I finished, I flipped him over and sucked him dry before driving him home. I should call him lol

I need to go to the bars you go to

 

[sundown1]

So far, it seems alcohol is a main ingredient...wink wink.

 

[dodgeboy2]

So far, it seems alcohol is a main ingredient...wink wink.

I think alcohol is a requirement in most of these situations, sometimes it is what lowers the straight guy's inhibitions.

 

[sundown1]

I think alcohol is a requirement in most of these situations, sometimes it is what lowers the straight guy's inhibitions.

I'm sure it would help mine.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Or a Curved one

Sounds so hot

 

[RipRespon]

As a bi guy I've been sucked and have sucked many cocks, mostly when young or anomalously. But, when gay men have tried to hookup with me I've mostly turned them down. I'm only attracted to cocks, not to men, so either they weren't right or the situation wasn't right.

However, as already mentioned, this night alcohol was involved, my wife and I were at a house party we'd been invited to while out clubbing in another town. Over a hundred people, the place was packed, rocking with lots of booze, weed, and coke. My wife disappeared (found out she was fucking a guy in the bathroom I was hanging outside of wondering where she was) I end up talking with a young twink (I was 32) who had lots of daddy issues and wanted to hear about my young gay experiences, especially about a HS teacher I had an affair with one year. It was the first time I'd told a stranger that story and it made me hard. Of course he notices and the next thing I know he's pushed me past a curtain into a closet right beside the bathroom. He gets on his knees and sucks me off. I was impressed with my wife's deep throat abilities, but she wasn't even close to this guys capabilities, cock balls and all! WOW! I held out for as long as I could, 5 minutes, maybe 10? hard to tell, but I could hear people talking about us and see the light fill the room every time someone pulled back the curtain to peek in. I didn't care, withing minutes I ended up pulling off all my clothes I was so turned on and drunk.

I came deep in his throat and we ended up laughing so hard I fell out of the closet naked into the hallway. Just a few people were there to make fun and ridicule us while I got dressed and complimented my pleaser to let everyone else know how talented he was (he seemed to like that). I didn't find my wife for another hour, but wasn't really looking after that. Nope, I found a couch, some weed and almost fell alseep, lol.

 

[tristantrotsky]

The Situational Blowjob

Surely the line between straight and gay is entirely arbitrary?
In my experience, when a man has the strong overwhelming urge to cum he will simply fuck whatever fuckable orifice is available to him. If that happens to be another guy's mouth... well, so be it.
Three of my long-term 'friends' were living within unsatisfactory marriages, but came around to see me because they knew with absolute certainty that no matter whenever or how frequently we met they were always going to get a good full and rich cock-sucking experience, no quibbles, no game-playing, no cum-dodging, either as a quickie when there was no time available, or as a long indulgent blowjob when time permitted. And if their mood happened to run to hard face-fucking or the kind of deep-throating they'd never dream of subjecting their wives to, well... that was fine too. I was simply grateful.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Surely the line between straight and gay is entirely arbitrary?
In my experience, when a man has the strong overwhelming urge to cum he will simply fuck whatever fuckable orifice is available to him. If that happens to be another guy's mouth... well, so be it.
Three of my long-term 'friends' were living within unsatisfactory marriages, but came around to see me because they knew with absolute certainty that no matter whenever or how frequently we met they were always going to get a good full and rich cock-sucking experience, no quibbles, no game-playing, no cum-dodging, either as a quickie when there was no time available, or as a long indulgent blowjob when time permitted. And if their mood happened to run to hard face-fucking or the kind of deep-throating they'd never dream of subjecting their wives to, well... that was fine too. I was simply grateful.

I don't think they're so much arbitrary as they are rare to be exclusively one or the other. Not all men will simply put their dick in anything. That may be your experience, but it's certainly not true for EVERY man. Some straight men would rather die than let their dick anywhere near another man's holes. Same is true for gay men when it comes to women.

However.... Most men are definitely somewhere in between. But still, horniness isn't always the determining factor. There are LOTS of men I would fuck, but even more I wouldn't... Even if I needed to cum so bad my life depended on it.

I say all this because men are coming here for advice on picking up men that generally wouldn't be out cruising for men. And overgeneralization like that is gonna leave some men in difficult situations... Perhaps even physical altercations if they don't respect boundaries.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Sucking 'Straight' Cock

I don't think they're so much arbitrary as they are rare to be exclusively one or the other. Not all men will simply put their dick in anything. That may be your experience, but it's certainly not true for EVERY man. Some straight men would rather die than let their dick anywhere near another man's holes. Same is true for gay men when it comes to women.
However.... Most men are definitely somewhere in between. But still, horniness isn't always the determining factor. There are LOTS of men I would fuck, but even more I wouldn't... Even if I needed to cum so bad my life depended on it.
I say all this because men are coming here for advice on picking up men that generally wouldn't be out cruising for men. And overgeneralization like that is gonna leave some men in difficult situations... Perhaps even physical altercations if they don't respect boundaries.

I speak as I find, Dear. Maybe my reputation precedes me? I not sure. But you'd be surprised how many supposedly 'straight' respectable happily-married heterosexual pillars-of-the-local-community gentlemen have finagled their way into my company and whispered to me 'is it true that you like guys?' And when I bashfully admit that yes - I do, they take it upon themselves to be so pleasant and charming in a seductive kind of way, in the hope of getting their cocks sucked. Needless to say, I ensure that their attentions are usually appropriately rewarded...

 

[cubbyfire04]

I speak as I find, Dear. Maybe my reputation precedes me? I not sure. But you'd be surprised how many supposedly 'straight' respectable happily-married heterosexual pillars-of-the-local-community gentlemen have finagled their way into my company and whispered to me 'is it true that you like guys?' And when I bashfully admit that yes - I do, they take it upon themselves to be so pleasant and charming in a seductive kind of way, in the hope of getting their cocks sucked. Needless to say, I ensure that their attentions are usually appropriately rewarded...

I admit my tone came off as judgemental. Didn't mean for it to... Apologies Tristan. Also, looking back, I realized my comment more or less just solidified what you initially said. Can be summed up one way... Yeah... Most guys would probably fool around with another man if the opportunity to do so (especially discretely) presented itself.

My train of thought was simply to protect the reputation of us bi/pansexual men and not encourage everyone to go out there and offer their holes all willy-nilly.

 

[uniqueusername]

Appreciate the feedback

Thanks for the responses.

The overnight opportunity is next week, so I'll have to figure out my approach pretty soon. For sure there will need to be alcohol (doubt I'll muster up enough courage to bring it up sober), but I'm still not sure how to introduce the subject.

I figure one of two approaches... start with complaining about getting older and wife not as interested (no interest), and then go into a conversation about this is why men our age start giving bro jobs just to have someone to get off with, or...

say one thing I've tried to keep things interesting is letting the wife use a strap on on me. Confess I sucked the strap on for my wife's benefit (riiiight... because she wanted it), but now I'm curious what it would be like to go down on a real cock, and tell him I need someone I can really trust.

If you were a straight guy hanging with an old college friend, what do you think would most likely convince you to whip it out and offer your cock to a buddy in need?

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Surely the line between straight and gay is entirely arbitrary?
In my experience, when a man has the strong overwhelming urge to cum he will simply fuck whatever fuckable orifice is available to him. If that happens to be another guy's mouth... well, so be it.
Three of my long-term 'friends' were living within unsatisfactory marriages, but came around to see me because they knew with absolute certainty that no matter whenever or how frequently we met they were always going to get a good full and rich cock-sucking experience, no quibbles, no game-playing, no cum-dodging, either as a quickie when there was no time available, or as a long indulgent blowjob when time permitted. And if their mood happened to run to hard face-fucking or the kind of deep-throating they'd never dream of subjecting their wives to, well... that was fine too. I was simply grateful.

Same here, I hate Tags! Lets just have fun between two (or more) consenting adults!!

 

[YukonJack907]

@uniqueusername … Either approach could work. I think it would just be a matter of which one you’re more comfortable with. Please let us know what approach you use and how it went. Good luck!

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Not sure on any titles

Curious to try hesitant to ask a guy shemales are interesting a gal with a bonus the idea of feeling a guy get hard and helping him cum is so interesting to me given the opportunity maybe with a gal too

 

[BBCfan]

I think alcohol is a requirement in most of these situations, sometimes it is what lowers the straight guy's inhibitions.

A couple shots and a rail was usually a prerequisite for me to get on my knees for BBC back in the day.

 

[ForgottenSpouse]

I'm an infrequent cocksucker (the only guy I play around with lives in another state), but the opportunity may present itself in a few weeks to go on a trip with an old college buddy - just the two of us. Nothing has ever happened between us, but since I don't get to indulge in oral action very often, I thought I might try and create a situation that would open the door to the possibility of giving him a blowjob.

He's an old friend that I value very much, and I will tread lightly and back off if it doesn't look like it could work. I figure a few drinks, some bitching about not getting any at home anymore (both married with kids and in our mid-50s), "ever thought about...?"

Anyway, I'm looking for any examples of successful attempts to convince a straight buddy to let you blow him. How did you approach it? Was it too awkward afterwards? Any regrets?

Or. conversely, if you were a a straight guy and had a buddy offer to blow you, how did that turn out? What did the other guy do/say that convinced you to let him do it?

Any help would be appreciated!

i think your on the right path, just a few drinks in and say that your curious and be honest who knows. I gay friends back in the day ask i declined in my twentys wasnt interested but still friends but now id be all over it

 

[ForgottenSpouse]

I only one time sucked a straight cock, it was a friend, Jim, I was vacationing with when the two of us went to Florida. We were drinking and I don't know why but I asked him if he ever had his cock sucked by another guy. When he said no, and with me being pretty drunk, I asked him if he would want to. HIs answer was are you fucking gay and I said no I'm bi. After another shot he dropped his pants and sat on the bed, without a word I dropped to my knees gave his big fat cock it's 1st MTM blowjob.

He let me suck his cock a few more times, but when we got home he became cold & distant. I found out he told another friend about it, this guy was also a good friend of mine and unknow to Jim he already knew about me since he was gay and we hooked up a couple of times.

Needless to say Jim & I were no longer friends, which is too bad at least for him since if he was cool about it I would have sucked him whenever he wanted.

what a idiot i need a friend like you

 

[dodgeboy2]

what a idiot i need a friend like you

Yes it was for both of us, he did have one great cock.