subs - does your Dom tell you when it's over?

[scarlettmoon]

i am a sub to my Dom hubby
obviously we are not restricted to time frames and he likes to play games with me in between, but when we finish, to end our session in progress, he always says 'relax' and we carry on with our normal married lives (until he deems fit)

how do your Dom's end sessions?

 

[CutieMouse]

Umm... I've never organized my relationships around "sessions". Things have always been pretty fluid & informal.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Umm... I've never organized my relationships around "sessions". Things have always been pretty fluid & informal.

+1....

 

[Netzach]

Usually swigging an apertif from the same bottle a little and talking about bad TV.

 

[MellowTone]

Sometimes after a particularly intense encounter, he'll look at me with a gentle expression and say "Hey, baby," and I know his domination energy is temporarily spent.

 

[ownedsubgal]

being a slave is my normal life. there is no stop/start, there are no "sessions," we just live. we're just boring that way i suppose.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Sometimes after a particularly intense encounter, he'll look at me with a gentle expression and say "Hey, baby," and I know his domination energy is temporarily spent.

That's so lovely!

And in fact-- as a dominant, that's probably the way I do it too.

 

[eastern sun]

being a slave is my normal life. there is no stop/start, there are no "sessions," we just live. we're just boring that way i suppose.

This is our way too.

 

[Beck31]

Usually she will bring me out of sub-space and I can tell we are then done with that particular
scene.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

We don't scene. We just live it as much as we can.

Sometimes it's at the forefront with a spotlight on it and sometimes it's not. But it's always playing in the background. It's just a matter of how closely we want to take a listen.

 

[Stella_Omega]

OP is asking about BDSM forms of afterglow and aftercare-- hugs and snuggles stuff.

Whether we are casual or 24/7, the question is perfectly applicable.

 

[SimplySZQ]

We don't scene. We just live it as much as we can.

Sometimes it's at the forefront with a spotlight on it and sometimes it's not. But it's always playing in the background. It's just a matter of how closely we want to take a listen.

"always playing in the background...matters how closely we want to listen."

what a lovely statement-

and such a beautiful way to live it.


Suzy

 

[eastern sun]

OP is asking about BDSM forms of afterglow and aftercare-- hugs and snuggles stuff.

Whether we are casual or 24/7, the question is perfectly applicable.

I didn't read the opening post that way. I read her question as ways of marking boundaries, not providing aftercare.

 

[desertslave]

We don't scene. We just live it as much as we can.

Sometimes it's at the forefront with a spotlight on it and sometimes it's not. But it's always playing in the background. It's just a matter of how closely we want to take a listen.

Same here. There's always an undercurrent. At times we're more absorbed in other things, but I'm always his (even if I'm obtuse at times--he WILL remind me. LOL)

 

[scarlettmoon]

haha thanks for the replies!
we're married with an 8 week old baby so we have to have stops and starts physically, but never mentally