submissives/slaves...your proudest accomplishment?

[ownedsubgal]

what is the one physical thing that you have worked the hardest to acheive, and finally suceeded, relating to the lifestyle? how long did it take for you tmy to accomplish it? and why is that the thing you're most proud of?

for me, as of now, it would have to be becoming Daddy's piss toilet. His training started with having me just take a few drops of his piss while cleaning him after he used the toilet, then that graduated to me taking a mouthful or two of his urine (He'd piss as normally in the toilet or wherever, then save the last bits for me). and then finally i was able to take an entire load, without him having to slow his stream down any or do anything unnatural for him at all. all in all i would say it took 10 or 12 training sessions. the most difficult part of it for me was really mental...for some reason, i had a hard time swallowing his piss as it would come, and instead i would hold it all in my mouth at once, which as any piss drinker knows, is not the way to do it! hehe...well, once i overcame that block and just swallowed every bit as it would go down my throat, like drinking from a fountain, it became almost easy. i am so proud of this acheivement for many reasons....one, it's so important to Daddy that i have this skill, and i kind of think he didn't quite expect me to be able to handle it...second, it serves a true purpose and is not merely some kink thing. the reality is that Daddy is going to have to piss sometimes, and he's not going to always be near a toilet...well because of me, there will be no more pulling over at gas stations or having to get up in the middle of a good basketball/football game. another reason i'm so proud of it is because it was so difficult for me...not just being able to swallow it, but getting past the taste took quite a bit as well (sorry Daddy, i love you anyway hehe )

so, other subbies/slaves out there...what is your proudest physical accomplishment?

 

[Marquis]

Wow, thats hot.

 

[Krinaia]

<clip> the most difficult part of it for me was really mental... <clip>...what is your proudest physical accomplishment?

Seems to me... that it really wasn't a physical accomplishment so much as a mental one. There will always be physical limits which are unaccomplishable (with SSC in mind) - humans CANNOT lick their own elbows for example, no matter how much your Dom wants to watch you try.

I'm not belitting your accomplishment - I don't think I will let anyone piss in my mouth - maybe on me, but not in me. It's a mental hurdle I currently do not see myself overcoming. I could probably do it, I could probably even do it without throwing it up .. not really a question physically - but mentally - whoa.

For me the best accomplishment to date (with my limited experience) - was - getting completely naked. Now not a problem - but that first time. It was - I grew up hating my body. I thought I was hideous, I thought that it was the right thing for me to do to supress my sexuality then to ever allow myself to think I had a right to think anyone would be attracted to me. I ignored that side of myself as best I could. I thought anyone who showed interest in me, must have something seriously wrong with him... but I overcame that attitude. But that didn't make it easy for me to let someone take my clothes all the way off and let him look at me.

In getting my pants off - he was gentle, took it as slowly as needed... but when I wsa finally naked. He made me stand there, hands at my side and head down while he walked around, just looking at me. I took a lot of control for me to not flinch and to not cover myself or run screaming from the room. Then he made me keep my fingers laced behind his neck while he touched me - all over. I was so scared, I was shaking like a leaf. I did shy away from his touch a few times but he remained gentle but insistent - and I managed to make it through that scene.

I'm a better, more sensual person for it. And I was better able to pleasure him after that. But it took an incredible amount of trust to allow him to finish wiping all those years of self inflicted hurt away. It took an incredible leap of submission on my part. Maybe it wasn't pissing in my mouth exactly but to each, their own personal demons.

 

[Desdemona]

I don't have any physical accomplishments other than resisting the urge to masturbate without permission. My stuff is all mental.

 

[Quint]

Re: Re: submissives/slaves...your proudest accomplishment?

There will always be physical limits which are unaccomplishable (with SSC in mind) - humans CANNOT lick their own elbows for example, no matter how much your Dom wants to watch you try.

I have to say---I read that and immediately struggled to reach my elbow with my tongue. Alas, alack. I'm an idiot.

My greatest challenge is one that I meet more often that I really like: the reality of submitting when I feel like doing anything but. I'm so used to getting what I want, from 19 years of reinforcement. I also still have some passive aggression when I feel uncomfortable but don't really know how to express it. Combination of bad events leads to bad submission, or disinclination to submit at all. It's very frustrating to us both. But he doesn't back down or let me cop out; ultimately, I yield. And inevitably feel much better for it.

Purely physical growth...I'm getting much better at taking enormously unwanted amounts of pain without using my safeword. I feel quite proud of that.

 

[Krinaia]

I think the feeling of satisifcation in accomplishments is much greater in regards to mental than physical triumphs...


and don't worry, i read that bit about the elbow on a halloween snickers bar and my roommate spent the next minute trying to lick her elbow - i was able to watch her for half a minute before breaking down in tears.

 

[Quint]

Well, I can imagine how absolutely thrilled I would be if ever I managed to come from penetration/G-spot stimulation. Come consistently, anyway. I've only gotten to the point once and backed away because I wasn't allowed to come (dreadfully inconvenient, yes?), and beyond that, nothing even close.

But that's the only thing I want to do that I feel simply physically incapable of. Other than that, I'd agree with you on mental barriers and satisfaction.

 

[Krinaia]

Well, I can imagine how absolutely thrilled I would be if ever I managed to come from penetration/G-spot stimulation. Come consistently, anyway. I've only gotten to the point once and backed away because I wasn't allowed to come (dreadfully inconvenient, yes?), and beyond that, nothing even close.

But that's the only thing I want to do that I feel simply physically incapable of. Other than that, I'd agree with you on mental barriers and satisfaction.

That makes me think... I have not really been asked to do anything that I wasn't capable of doing. I can come easily and often. To be made to do so is not hard... until it becomes so sensitive it becomes painful but even then as I scream, I want it to stop and also, to continue.

...but, I have a bad knee. I think I will be incapable of being tied in some positions for long periods of time. I wish I could but it's not likely. That is a hurdle which will make me frustrated that I cannot physically over come it. If I could though, I imagine the satisifaction would be over not only the mental aspect of endurance but also over the physical aspect.

I still think the mental triumphs are more satisfying though But this is good food for thought..

 

[AvaAdore]

what is the one physical thing that you have worked the hardest to acheive, and finally suceeded, relating to the lifestyle? how long did it take for you tmy to accomplish it? and why is that the thing you're most proud of?

for me, as of now, it would have to be becoming Daddy's piss toilet. His training started with having me just take a few drops of his piss while cleaning him after he used the toilet, then that graduated to me taking a mouthful or two of his urine (He'd piss as normally in the toilet or wherever, then save the last bits for me). and then finally i was able to take an entire load, without him having to slow his stream down any or do anything unnatural for him at all. all in all i would say it took 10 or 12 training sessions. the most difficult part of it for me was really mental...for some reason, i had a hard time swallowing his piss as it would come, and instead i would hold it all in my mouth at once, which as any piss drinker knows, is not the way to do it! hehe...well, once i overcame that block and just swallowed every bit as it would go down my throat, like drinking from a fountain, it became almost easy. i am so proud of this acheivement for many reasons....one, it's so important to Daddy that i have this skill, and i kind of think he didn't quite expect me to be able to handle it...second, it serves a true purpose and is not merely some kink thing. the reality is that Daddy is going to have to piss sometimes, and he's not going to always be near a toilet...well because of me, there will be no more pulling over at gas stations or having to get up in the middle of a good basketball/football game. another reason i'm so proud of it is because it was so difficult for me...not just being able to swallow it, but getting past the taste took quite a bit as well (sorry Daddy, i love you anyway hehe )

so, other subbies/slaves out there...what is your proudest physical accomplishment?

this is really more mental, but it's a similar thing. a few months ago, we were in bed and he said he had to pee and wanted me to swallow it. he said he'll only do a little, not the whole lot. i was open to trying it, but i just couldnt get myself to put his penis in my mouth. for half an hour or more, i would nearly do it, but back away at the last moment. then, finally, i closed my eyes and did it. and that was it. he didnt pee in my mouth at all. he just wanted me to try to overcome the mental block. then a while later, he was going to the loo and i was watching (nothing really sexual, i just like to watch!). he asked if i would taste it. i only briefly hestitated and then i stuck my tongue in mid-stream. it feels like such a relief now...i can just do it

we really need to play more...

 

[catalina_francisco]

For me, like many it was difficult to separate the mental from physical with mental easily coming to mind. I think the most physically difficult though would have to be first being asked to drive in a foreign country in a vastly unfamiliar car within 24 hours of arriving....though that was partially mental. Purely in physical terms driving is again the subject. I found it so difficult and draining to drive him every day with his work, no time off for illness or injury even when I fell down the stairs 10 minutes before leaving to drive 6 hours straight....sitting hours in a car in heat and cold, trying to ignore the approaches made by horny men who thought I must be wanting their attention, no toilet facilities, no privacy. My driving included a couple of countries, extreme conditions I had never experienced such as heavy, heavy fog, rain, and snow, and hours upon hours of driving each and every day without a day off.

I think my record was 14 hours in one day. I have always loved driving and even used it as a relaxation method but I think now that has changed and the mere thought I did it for so many months can give me a fit of the horrors. He did not have it always all that easy sitting in the passenger seat (sometimes sleeping ..grrr), trying to calm me down when I was totally stressed out in traffic conditions that don't even make sense to the locals, the times we got lost and were trying to make an appointment and I was in tears of frustration, and the nasty looks and comments he got from his friends who felt he was being unreasonable and mean to expect me to do this....little do they know. LOL.

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[Mr Blonde]

BUMP

This is an interesting thread and I am simply bumping it for more comments.

Off topic: Regarding elbow licking, next time just lick the inside of your elbow! Most people should be able to manage that much.

 

[Netzach]

*just gives Quint the secret button baby handshake*

 

[emeraldman]

I never thought of the peeing thing, but as I read it, that is SO hot!
We all have our limits and limitations. and going beyond for love and service is wonderful.

 

[esclave_PP]

Like the others mindset of course years ago but in terms of physical would have to be my tolerance for shibari rope bondage and suspension. Both I love immensely.

 

[Megafurvert]

well i'd have to say that my greatest accoplishment to date is Mistress taking my ass...... it took alot of faith and trust for me to relax enough for it but once i did i enjoyed it very much!!! Mistress was very patient w/ me and took wonderful care to make sure that i was comfrotable and feeling very good!!! needless to say it was an awesome experience and one which i'm sure i will have revisited!! (i love you Mistress!!! )