Submissively Curious

[smartchick]

Greetings all,

I wouldn't consider myself submissive, however, I am 'submissively curious' - fascinated by the premise of power exchange and control. I am interested in exploring this curiosity with erotic, intellectual, dominant men (on-line only).

If you're interested, please say hello.

Cheers,
Maria

 

[Yakkul]

"HELLO !" (sorry, couldn't resist...)

would love to chat with you sometime...

 

[smartchick]

LOL - I set myself up for that!

"HELLO !" (sorry, couldn't resist...)

would love to chat with you sometime...

 

[Moxon4]

Greetings all,

I wouldn't consider myself submissive, however, I am 'submissively curious' - fascinated by the premise of power exchange and control. I am interested in exploring this curiosity with erotic, intellectual, dominant men (on-line only).

If you're interested, please say hello.

Cheers,
Maria

Hello, nice ad, would like to help you explore your curiosities.

Send me a PM with your screen names so we can chat some

 

[brosefstalin987]

Salutations,
Would love to chat with you sometime. Am dommish type, but not hardcore into the lifestyle. My AIM handle is in my profile, as is my email. See ya.

-Brosef

 

[smartchick]

Second thoughts

Thank you for the many responses to my 'ad'. It seems, however, the more I learn about the BDSM lifestlye the more certain I am that it isn't for me. Again, my sincere appreciation to those of you who took the time to write and share your thoughts.

Cheers,
Maria

 

[casino5222]

tease

Wow talk about tease "smart Chick" need to change the name to "I don't know what I want Chick"

 

[JasonP]

Wow talk about tease "smart Chick" need to change the name to "I don't know what I want Chick"

Oh give me a break. She said "curious". And she was upfront about it. I give her kudos for being so honest.

 

[davro]

Wow talk about tease "smart Chick" need to change the name to "I don't know what I want Chick"

She does know what she wants........and what she dosnt want,seems clear enough to me.

 

[smartchick]

Hugs

Thanks Jason and Dave.......appreciate your comments.

xoxoxo
Maria

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Hang in there, SmartChick. BDSM isn't for everyone. The problem that many of these people don't either know or understand is that the basis of BDSM is trust and care, not abuse and ego.

You're pretty smart and can come to my house anytime.

 

[RawHumor]

Hang in there, SmartChick. BDSM isn't for everyone. The problem that many of these people don't either know or understand is that the basis of BDSM is trust and care, not abuse and ego.

I was thinking that, too.

Please don't let one bad experience with BDSM (or worse, with one person) deter you from exploring your submissive side. Everyone is different. Everyone's experiences and reactions to a stimulus will be different.

You may have certain cravings that few people understand, or you may just want your buttons pushed in a particular way. Your desires may not fall under your current definition of BDSM, but they may be BDSM-ish, if you will.

Don't try to limit yourself - find a way to explore your desires without worrying about where they fall or how to label them.

 

[smartchick]

Support

Thanks Raw and Jenny (extra hugs for Jenny - appreciated your PM the other day, too).

Not to worry - I'm not letting a negative comment, or a couple of sophomoric PMers deter me. I love this forum and my exchanges to date have for the most part been quite positive. I fully intend to continue my explorations and with so many delectable options, the possibilities are endless.

Thank you for taking the time to post - your support is genuinely appreciated.

Maria
xoxoxox

 

[DirtyKitten]

*Applaudes smartchick*

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

I'll add to that, DirtyKitten

 

[strict_but_fair]

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[smartchick]

Checkin' in...

Thanks Strict - I appreciate the offer. I've made contact with someone who is interested in the psychological aspects of d/s and we have initiated a dialogue. I like where it's going so for now I'll focus my energies there. Thanks for the post.

Again, Jenny xoxo and thanks for the post Kitten (nice bum!).

xoxo
Maria

 

[nmdave]

Curious too

My main interest in this area is bondage, not pain, except to the extent that pain enhances sexual stimulation, like pinching nipples or spanking. I am a 50 yo married guy from NM, USA please contact me if you are interested.

Greetings all,

I wouldn't consider myself submissive, however, I am 'submissively curious' - fascinated by the premise of power exchange and control. I am interested in exploring this curiosity with erotic, intellectual, dominant men (on-line only).

If you're interested, please say hello.

Cheers,
Maria

 

[smartchick]

NMDave........thanks..........but

As I noted in a recent post I've met someone who has captivated me and I'm focusing on our friendship.

Cheers,
Maria
xo

Thanks Strict - I appreciate the offer. I've made contact with someone who is interested in the psychological aspects of d/s and we have initiated a dialogue. I like where it's going so for now I'll focus my energies there. Thanks for the post.