I'm sure many in here have a ton of advice and info for you, but you might also have better luck asking this in the BDSM area. Good luck, and welcome to Lit!
I my self have posted multiple things asking for help.
I have only been trying for about a week...
now there are two doms willing to help me lol
just keep trying and posting in other places
also what exactly are you looking for i might be able to help
Try a search on any search engine on the internet, you will be surprised what you can find and learn, also what works for some people will not always work for you
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