Submissive, Needy BBW for Man Who Won't Abandon Me.

SweetNeedyBBW

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You know that saying once bitten, twice shy? Well it's become about for or five times bitten and I have nothing left to give it seems. I used to trust very easily but after a string of men who decided that abandoning me without a word, blocking numbers etc. was easier than telling me what was going on and just leaving me a broken, wounded person I've become very timid and, frankly, emotionally needy. I'm looking for someone who will help build me back up. I'd love for this to be a long-term, monogamous relationship, but even just friends who will help prove to me that everyone I love doesn't leave me would be so much more than welcome. I know this is a weird place to look for this kind of thing, but I've tried my fair share of places and this is a community that, from the outside at least, seems friendly and supportive and like the kind of place I could find someone who might be able to help me even in just a platonic way. Thanks for reading, hope to hear from some of you!
 
Good luck

If nothing else, you might meet a few nice friends and have a bit of fun :rose:
 
Good luck to you -- I can relate very much to your pain -- but don't give up. You have to kiss a lot of frogs sometimes before you find a Prince.
 
It sounds like you're pretty self reflective and it's good that you recognize that you are needy. Problem is that people like the feeling of being needed but they don't particularly care for the responsibility of trying to deal with someone who is needy.

It probably would be helpful to work on becoming a little more self reliant and confident. Being submissive is not synonymous with being needy. I wish you luck with your growth and development.
 
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Good luck! Hope you meet someone who's never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you.
 
You know that saying once bitten, twice shy? Well it's become about for or five times bitten and I have nothing left to give it seems. I used to trust very easily but after a string of men who decided that abandoning me without a word, blocking numbers etc. was easier than telling me what was going on and just leaving me a broken, wounded person I've become very timid and, frankly, emotionally needy. I'm looking for someone who will help build me back up. I'd love for this to be a long-term, monogamous relationship, but even just friends who will help prove to me that everyone I love doesn't leave me would be so much more than welcome. I know this is a weird place to look for this kind of thing, but I've tried my fair share of places and this is a community that, from the outside at least, seems friendly and supportive and like the kind of place I could find someone who might be able to help me even in just a platonic way. Thanks for reading, hope to hear from some of you!

Well... I am not sure I am what you're looking for. ( In a way I am in the same boat ) Good luck to you. :rose:
 
I don't know if I'm what you're looking for, but I too desire a long term, monogamous relationship.
If you check out my profile and want to chat, feel free to PM me.
Bonus, I'm also an east coast person. :D
 
It sounds like you're pretty self reflective and it's good that you recognize that you are needy. Problem is people Like the feeling of being needed but they don't particularly care for the responsibility of trying to deal with someone who is needy.

It probably wold Be helpful to work on becoming a little more self reliant and confident. Being submissive is not synonymous with being needy. I wish you luck with your growth and development.

Succinctly and wonderfully expressed. Kudos.
 
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