Submissive Mature Female

[captain123]

I would like to write a story about a mature lady who after divorcing after 25 years of marriage enters into a Dom/sub relationship with a younger man. While I have a solid plot for the story and the activities I am stuck on a realistic way of the two meeting and starting their relationship. Any suggestions especially from submissive females would be appreciated.

 

[Arianne6947]

Would love to chat

 

[Deckrect]

Perhaps a good start would be if the very nature of the relationship was forbidden or at least questionable. What about if the guy is much younger? Or if he is her daughter's fiancé?

I also suppose a good path for making her surrender into submission is if,because any reason, she thinks she would not be able on finding a new relationship after diverce or if she feels she is in some debt or need.

In the past i used the argument of a social entanglement prohibiting the woman of having a new relationship. So in the secret one, she fallen in submission.

 

[MeekMe]

I would like to write a story about a mature lady who after divorcing after 25 years of marriage enters into a Dom/sub relationship with a younger man. While I have a solid plot for the story and the activities I am stuck on a realistic way of the two meeting and starting their relationship. Any suggestions especially from submissive females would be appreciated.

Online seems to be fairly common. Maybe she joins a dating site or site specifically for d/s and they meet there. A book store. She's buying a book that gives away her interest in d/s so he strikes up conversation. They could be introduced through a friend. Have a mutual interest in something and meet through a group. Anything that leads to dating works.

 

[Hypoxia]

Perhaps a good start would be if the very nature of the relationship was forbidden or at least questionable. What about if the guy is much younger? Or if he is her daughter's fiancé?

I also suppose a good path for making her surrender into submission is if,because any reason, she thinks she would not be able on finding a new relationship after diverce or if she feels she is in some debt or need.

In the past i used the argument of a social entanglement prohibiting the woman of having a new relationship. So in the secret one, she fallen in submission.

I like the dramatic tension of the forbidden relationship. Skipping incest, the most forbidden are racial-ethnic and then other social taboos like the severely disturbed or deformed, or a priest (or nun), or the daughter's fiance, or a great discrepancy in ages. Were the relationship known, great social disapproval would result. Does their love stay in the shadows or is she revealed for what she is?

Online seems to be fairly common. Maybe she joins a dating site or site specifically for d/s and they meet there. A book store. She's buying a book that gives away her interest in d/s so he strikes up conversation. They could be introduced through a friend. Have a mutual interest in something and meet through a group. Anything that leads to dating works.

That seems less likely to bring on a dramatic 'forbidden' relationship; and she has chosen submission, not "fallen into" it. It's almost a BDSM romance. For drama, their meeting isn't quite on honest terms. Chancing upon the same book or introduced by friends, they start with an innocent common interest (maybe Go or Cacti or PoMo design) that leads down dark paths towards the D/S roles.