Subconscious Adultery

[Levin]

A dream is a dream... Share it with him and with some luck it will excite you both so much you will make reality replace the dream...

The problmes start when you prefer the dreams to the real thing...

 

[bg23]

Ha! Too late! I already do.

*tongue*.

 

[Levin]

Well, then you should tell your guy so he doesn´t hope in vain.
Assumed you feel something for him... Else go and have all the fun you can get.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

If it wasn't for wet dreams, I'd NEVER get laid!

 

[bg23]

How do you know I'm not...?

 

[Belegon]

If it wasn't for wet dreams, I'd NEVER get laid!

Only because:

A) I'm married
B) You're married (or at least refer to a "hubby" sometimes)
c) California to Sweden is one long fucking commute! ( Especially at these gas prices!)

smile kid, at least you got an active imagination!

 

[gauchecritic]

I'm not entirely sure what a one month anniversary actually is.

Is it the same month in the year after? Is it the year after the first time you had sex for a month? Is it so you can celebrate all year round during each month a year later?

What is it?

Gauche

 

[vargas111]

Happens all time.

Who cares? It's fun.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Only because:

A) I'm married
B) You're married (or at least refer to a "hubby" sometimes)
c) California to Sweden is one long fucking commute! ( Especially at these gas prices!)

smile kid, at least you got an active imagination!

Thanx, Belegon!

 

[bg23]

Happens all time.

Who cares? It's fun.

I know you didn't mean that in reply to Liar's post, Vargas (or did you?) but it sounds ridiculously appropriate. Anyhoo, I'm going to steal it...Liar, there's your answer.

Although I see what you mean. "Anni" means year and all that...so a "one month anniversary" is an incredibly uninformed and incorrect use of the word.

But just call me an ignoramous.

(I certainly don't expect the next post to be something from someone saying, "You're an ignoramous". No, not at all.)

Love ya!
xxx
badgirl

 

[oggbashan]

You just have an active imagination.

That is normal.

Now use it to write more stories.

That will exercise your imagination.

You will have more dreams.

They will fuel your imagination.

Then use your imagination on your partner for some mindblowing sex.

That will exercise both of you.

Og

 

[bg23]

Noted!

 

[AStranger2004]

I think it means you should avoid eating cheese late at night

 

[boxofrocks]

I dream of Chilled Vodka.

What could it mean?

 

[Levin]

I dream of Chilled Vodka.

What could it mean?

You all have so simple dreams..

Some days ago I had one featuring talking (!) peguines and a naked girl... And NO, it was not obvius sexual. I hope.
Afraid to ask. Maybe I am sick...

 

[impressive]

Does it mean your relationship is doomed? HARDLY!

Fantasies (waking or sleeping) can be shared or can remain private. Your call. I have several of each type.

A lot depends on your partner's understanding. Some would be jealous -- others paranoid -- others downright afraid

A rich fantasy life is healthy, IMO. When it interferes with your *real* life, then it can be problematic.

Feeling "guilt" over fantasies is a complete waste of time. The subconscious cannot be muted. Might as well relax and enjoy it.

The boundaries of infidelity are different for everybody -- and make for very interesting discussion. (In fact, I have a story in development entitled "Discourse on Fidelity.") To me, fidelity is NOT sexual. I doubt my hubby would agree, though.

 

[impressive]

Mincing words ...

The thread prompted me to pull a few dictionary definitions. It's no wonder we have so many interpretations of what is and isn't considered cheating!

Apply attorneys to any of these definitions, and you've got a recipe for some serious semantical debate:

INTERCOURSE

• the act of sexual procreation between a man and a woman; the man's penis is inserted into the woman's vagina and excited until orgasm and ejaculation occur. {Gee, this uses the logical "AND" -- so what if neither, or only one, climaxes?}
• physical sexual contact between individuals that involves the genitalia of at least one person. {Hmmmm ... neither climax nor penetration mentioned here. Obviously NOT the Clinton definition.}

ADULTERY

• Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse. {Seems to imply that un"married" partners cannot commit adultery.}
• Extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations. {So, if there is not a willful intention to interfere with marriage relations, it's not adultery? Gee, that means I can fuck around, since I've no willful intent to interfere with my home life. Oh, goody!}
• Conjugal infidelity. An adulterer was a man who had illicit intercourse with a married or a betrothed woman, and such a woman was an adulteress. {Makes no mention of the man's marital state. Feh!}

CONJUGAL
Of or relating to marriage or the relationship of spouses. {Doesn't mention sexual relations at all.}

INFIDELITY

• Unfaithfulness to the marriage vow or contract; violation of the marriage covenant by adultery. {Ya gotta be "married" to do it.}
• Breach of trust; unfaithfulness to a charge, or to moral obligation; treachery; deceit. {My preferred definition.}

And so on ...

 

[Belegon]

To me, fidelity is NOT sexual. I doubt my hubby would agree, though.

someone else in the same class as myself...it is much more about non-physical issues to me.

 

[bg23]

Re: Mincing words ...

The thread prompted me to pull a few dictionary definitions. It's no wonder we have so many interpretations of what is and isn't considered cheating!

Apply attorneys to any of these definitions, and you've got a recipe for some serious semantical debate:

INTERCOURSE

• the act of sexual procreation between a man and a woman; the man's penis is inserted into the woman's vagina and excited until orgasm and ejaculation occur. {Gee, this uses the logical "AND" -- so what if neither, or only one, climaxes?}
• physical sexual contact between individuals that involves the genitalia of at least one person. {Hmmmm ... neither climax nor penetration mentioned here. Obviously NOT the Clinton definition.}

ADULTERY

• Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse. {Seems to imply that un"married" partners cannot commit adultery.}
• Extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations. {So, if there is not a willful intention to interfere with marriage relations, it's not adultery? Gee, that means I can fuck around, since I've no willful intent to interfere with my home life. Oh, goody!}
• Conjugal infidelity. An adulterer was a man who had illicit intercourse with a married or a betrothed woman, and such a woman was an adulteress. {Makes no mention of the man's marital state. Feh!}

CONJUGAL
Of or relating to marriage or the relationship of spouses. {Doesn't mention sexual relations at all.}

INFIDELITY

• Unfaithfulness to the marriage vow or contract; violation of the marriage covenant by adultery. {Ya gotta be "married" to do it.}
• Breach of trust; unfaithfulness to a charge, or to moral obligation; treachery; deceit. {My preferred definition.}

And so on ...

IMPRESSIVE!!!

I take my hat off to you, sir.

This would certainly work better if I had a hat, but oh well!

 

[impressive]

Re: Re: Mincing words ...

IMPRESSIVE!!!

I take my hat off to you, sir.

That would be "ma'am" ... but I'll pretend if'n ya want me to.

 

[Levin]

Re: Re: Mincing words ...

IMPRESSIVE!!!

I take my hat off to you, sir.

This would certainly work better if I had a hat, but oh well!

Darling!

Can we work our way through at least parts of this list?
Tchnically we did all already though, didnt we?
No new frontiers anymore..