Sub without humiliation

[HospitableMe]

Are there any dommes or mistresses (is there a difference?) that like to dominate without the humiliation aspect. That get their kicks from just making a guy do what they want or watching him follow specific instructions or doing to him exactly what they want without the sissification side.
Just asking for a friend...lol

 

[gonewrong]

I don't much care for labels so wouldn't call myself a Domme, but I am partial to submissive types, and I'm not into sissification. For me, with a guy who is somewhere around the average amount of masculine, there's more room to dance between the real-life dignified and playtime filthy. I find it more appealing to be pealing away shirt and tie from a guy than a dress.

Anyways, I'm not applying but I thought I'd give you a friendly bump. It's an interesting point, that sissification appears to be a part of the standard package now. Pretty sure it didn't use to be.

Wishing...your friend good luck in his search

 

[thegentleman4619]

As a masculine guy who likes to be submissive with the right person, I agree that I don’t need to be wearing a dress while I do it.

Mark

 

[Girlytank]

Domme without humiliation

Are there any dommes or mistresses (is there a difference?) that like to dominate without the humiliation aspect. That get their kicks from just making a guy do what they want or watching him follow specific instructions or doing to him exactly what they want without the sissification side.
Just asking for a friend...lol

Absolutely! I do not get my kicks from humiliation. I much prefer male chastity, I hold the key, make you do things you wouldn’t normally, all for an extra day off your sentence or whatever the case may be. My BF and I play lots of games, cuckolding, and much more. I get turned on when he does what I ask and he gets turned on doing them.

 

[NorCalWriter]

Absolutely, and probably in all reality you will find many many more that agree. For me it is not about the acts but about the exploration. Sex doesn't even have to be involved on my end. There is something even more erotic and sensual of pushing a submissive past her boundary and a little spark ignites in her eye as she learns something about herself that is deeper than anything she would have imagined, let alone touch on her own.