sub seeking...

coollgirll

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About me: I'm a female in my early 20's and live on the west coast in the US. I've been around Lit for about a year and have taken part in many BDSM discussions, learned and discovered a lot as well as forming my own opinions. I decided to create this new account and start fresh because I'm looking for something much different than what I was looking for with my old account.

I've never tried to put these desires into words before in a personal like this, so please bear with me. :eek: I'm highly submissive and want to be dominated. At the moment, I'm only seeking something online but would gladly move it to offline/in-person if we both decided we could and wanted to. Please be compatible with night hours in pacific standard time--I've had too many experiences getting attached to someone in a different time zone and we couldn't connect often because of the time difference. Please be single and available. Please be seeking something long-term and possibly serious. Please be interested in pursuing friendship and "just talking" somtimes instead of getting off as soon as possible.

I enjoy IM, phoning, texting, emails, photos, and voice chat. If you're not willing to show me what you look like or communicate with me in these different ways even after we get to know each other, don't bother contacting me.

Here are a few of my interests, though this list is far from exhaustive. Orgasm control and/or denial. Directed play. Lingerie and stripping. Toys. Both sexual and nonsexual tasks. Being called various demeaning names. Kneeling. Not interested in TPE or being someone's slave.

I'm looking for a male dominant partner that is interested in being friends foremost. I want someone that will be a mentor to me and teach me, along with pushing my boundaries and providing a safe space in which I can surrender. And I want to get to know my partner. Some people are afraid of giving out too much information online, but if you can't learn to trust me completely, we shouldn't be talking anyway.

I'm sure there's more to this than I have been able to write so far, and I'll update and add more as needed. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from some folks fairly soon. :D
 
I think me and you are a good match....hit me back with a private message....

And, I'm 35/m/nj
 
Just a quick update: I've been behind on answering people, and I'm sorry about that. I recently had a family emergency. Please be patient. Many thanks. :)
 
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