strip clubs?

[hornycouple]

I thought about surprising my husband by taking him to a strip club. He has only been about 5 times, all before we were married (which has been almost 2 years). I have never been to one (male or female). Has anyone tried this? Was it fun or uncomfortable? I don't think I would feel threatened, we have great sex and I am a 36DD, so I'm not worried about me lacking in that way. I just wanted to see if anyone else had done this and if it was fun...Thanks!

 

[Semler]

I've noticed that when women go into the strip clubs, the strippers pay alot of attention to them. Be prepared to have them come over and be friendly with you and you might even get a lap dance. I'm sure your husband would love to see you and a stripper, what guy wouldn't.

 

[HeadPimp]

The last time my wife and I went to a strip club, she found a stripper that really turned her on, and wound up in a quiet corner getting a very hot lap dance (doing a few things that aren't allowed). Made for a fun evening when we got home.

 

[MasterTheMind]

As long as there's trust, it can only make things better!

As long as you have the trust between the two of you, it can only better your sexual relationship together. It could spur you on to fantasies that both of you would enjoy exploring together.

Variety can be the spice of life!

 

[SexyChele]

Go for it! And have fun!

I just visited a strip club for the first time a couple of months ago, and I really enjoyed it. If you sit at the stage do be aware that the girls will probably come over to you, talk to you, even ask you what you would like to see them do.

I'm not sure what it is, exactly. But the girls will usually focus in on you - smile at you more, dance for you, etc. Just be ready for that. I think it has more to do with the idea that if they are seen "coming onto" another female, it gives the guys in the club a rush. In one club, one of the girls came over while on stage and buried her face in my breasts. A total rush! But also something done, I'm sure, to get the guys in the club hot.

Go and have a great time! No need to feel threatened at all. Trust me, most of the guys in there will probably be envying your husband!

Just bring lots of cash, though. Strip clubs are notorious for being money pits!

 

[fanzee1]

what semler said.

I've noticed that when women go into the strip clubs, the strippers pay alot of attention to them. Be prepared to have them come over and be friendly with you and you might even get a lap dance. I'm sure your husband would love to see you and a stripper, what guy wouldn't.

yep. that's the way it is at those places. I think many of the women dancers feel a greater degree of control and a higher level of comfort w/ female patrons. As a result, the couples at those places get lavished with attention. They LOVE to do lapdances for the ladies. I'll never forget the time i saw one stripper do a really hot lap dance for a woman who had to be at least 6 months pregnant. The woman receiving the dance was really showing huge and it was obvious by the time the dance was half way done that she was also extremely turned on. That was some sight.

 

[DevilBoy79]

Ok i been to strip clubs a few times, usually not all that often execpt when my brother comes into town to visit, and its brotherly bonding, catching up on old times and new things, its really nothing special at the places, we play pool have few drinks, and talk, there have been couples there at times, we went the strippers paid attention to the women which they seemed to like after they gotten over the embarrassed part of it, the guys seemed to be off in another world watching the happenings on stage more then what was in front of them.
I think its no big thing really, i may go to those places from time to time, but i know where and with whom i belong, and i am more then happy and taken care of by my woman

 

[ExtacyCouple]

Me and my wife have been several times and it has always been alot of fun. Just as everyone else has mentioned as a women you will get alot of attention. I think they do it just because they know it drives the men nuts and well........ my wifes hot.

One night my wife got a lap dance from one of the girls that was so hot that it drew the attention of just about everybody in the club. This girl was really injoying what she was doing.

 

[Rooster]

My wife and I have talked about this alot and excited about it ... and we plan to go soon.

 

[Guest]

I say go

I can give you the stripper point of view on this: we love having females come in! As some people have said, it turns the other guys on watching us with other girls more than other guys.. but we dance for like hundreds of guys and not very many girls, so it's exciting for us.

If you do go, be prepared to be the center of attention for the strippers.. definitely.

 

[Guest]

I thought about surprising my husband by taking him to a strip club... I have never been to one (male or female). Has anyone tried this? Was it fun or uncomfortable?

IMHO...

I think, in general, a woman may have more fun at a female strip club if she is bisexual. BUT, if a group of friends go to a strip club together (not "just" a hetero woman and her hubby), a hetero woman may feel more comfortable.

I have been to them several times. ("Bikini" bars, topless, and full nudity...) I've been to them with various men I have dated over the years, one woman I dated, and at various times groups of friends of mixed genders and sexual orientations. (With the exception of the "bikini" bars being boring to me...lol...) I have had great experiences and a lot of fun each time!

And, in my personal opinion, it can help kick start a couple's sex drive! It's a great deal of fun and a great tease!

 

[bearlee]

Fascinating stuff! My fiancee and I have gone to several and she's had some lap dances. We'll be going again next month and she's looking forward to it. They do definitely pay more attention to the women. We've talked to some of the women and one said she felt more comfortable approaching the female half of the couple because some women might get a little jealous if they approach the man. I don't know. From the ones we've talked to it seems most are bi, but the sample isn't all that big so who knows. One did say it was just refreshing having a female to dance for because generally it's just men and some are assholes about it all. Go, have fun!

 

[Guest]

They do definitely pay more attention to the women. From the ones we've talked to it seems most are bi... One did say it was just refreshing having a female to dance for because generally it's just men and some are assholes about it all. Go, have fun!

All of these seem very true. During the times I have gone to strip clubs, I have been told by the women that for one very simple reason they prefer women since we are softer creatures. No beards or facial stubble for them to get scratched by... But, I have also been told that most often it can be the women customers who are the most rowdy and wild. And, I believe that if a couple goes to a strip club together and the dancer pays more attention to the woman, in a sense the couple will be happier. The man will most likely get horny as hell (even if his wife is straight), and he'll shell out more money in the club.

 

[bearlee]

Yikes! After several months, Tiggs, I am touched-you actually kind of agreed with me and didn't blast me!(I suppose it's coming now

 

[Guest]

I am not the bitch others try to make me be.


I do not like this pedestal others placed me on. It's lonely up here.

 

[bearlee]

Tiggs, I agree-do I win points now

 

[Guest]

I'm not looking for "points" or for people to score them off of me.

 

[Rooster]

OK .. I'm not up on all the terms .... but I heard of Full Nude Clubs sometimes refered as "juice bars" ... what does this mean ....

 

[Guest]

A juice bar is a club that does NOT serve alcohol. Also, if you are 18 or older you can get in. (Unlike "topless" or "bikini" bars where you must be 21 to get in due to alcohol.)

 

[leovc]

In China,the strip bars are illegal.But there are still some ones underground.I and my fiancee want to visit one but dare not.
How lucky u Americans are!

 

[dancinvixen]

This is coming from an exotic dancer. <g> We dancers love it when women come into the clubs with men. Just so long as they don't start being a B***h. We have been trying to get rid of the dirty, sleazy strip club image that comes to most women's minds. Our clubs aren't like that at all <some are, but most are wonderful>.

 

[fanzee1]

juice bars

OK .. I'm not up on all the terms .... but I heard of Full Nude Clubs sometimes refered as "juice bars" ... what does this mean ....

in some states, like the one i'm in now, ohio, full nudity is illegal in any club that has a full liquor license. So if a strip club wants their dancers to go all the way, they'll just sell non-alcoholic brews and juice, thus the name.

 

[Rooster]

Man ...

I hate all the damn laws against them in NE ...sux .. gotta drive forever for a good one I hear

 

[Guest]

I hate all the damn laws against them in NE ...sux .. gotta drive forever for a good one I hear

Well, it's not too far of a drive, really. They don't allow nudity within Omaha's city limits, that's all.

 

[juicygirl]

I second what dancevixen just said though I only danced for a really short time.