stretching anus

[MysteriousStrangerI]

Well, as the possessor of four toys, only two of which I can fit inside my ass, any suggestions on stretching the ol' brown ring?

I almost got the monster in (girthy, 'realistic', 9 inches), it was just past the head and an inch or two of shaft but a muscle spasm from maintaining the position for leverage and, plop, out it went (followed by my grabbing for it, losing it due to lube, juggling the damn thing and almost pitching forward onto my face)*

And it hurts

And not a "ooh yes, give me more" hurt, more like the, "crap, crap, crap, I think something is about to tear"

* My first story posted was a fantasy. Maybe I should intersperse my fantasy stories with the damn near comedic efforts in anal play

 

[emme8]

Lots of patience and lube.

I personally like coconut oil or silicone lube

I start with an enema.
Then by pushing a few solid chunks of the coconut oil into me. Using my fingers to make sure everything is oil up. Then add more.
Then tease the toy. Slowly work it in and out. Let lube spread everywhere. Slowly push each in stroke a little further as you attempt to shit. Then remove it. Keep going.
Once you are at the widest bit slowly push. Let your body relax. Once it slides in allow your body a chance to acclimate.


I usually wash my hands and clean up a bit whole looking in the mirror and telling myself.

That I'm a dirty pain slut. And I'm so naughty but Dom will appreciate my efforts. And how much he will enjoy sliding into my ass.

I need to video my monolog for him. He would like to watch me with arousal and pain on my face. As I tell him what I did. And why.

 

[twister947]

Can the anus be stretched (semi) permanently? Or is it more a matter of training the sphincter to relax?

 

[Bi4Older84]

Well, as the possessor of four toys, only two of which I can fit inside my ass, any suggestions on stretching the ol' brown ring?

I almost got the monster in (girthy, 'realistic', 9 inches), it was just past the head and an inch or two of shaft but a muscle spasm from maintaining the position for leverage and, plop, out it went (followed by my grabbing for it, losing it due to lube, juggling the damn thing and almost pitching forward onto my face)*

And it hurts

And not a "ooh yes, give me more" hurt, more like the, "crap, crap, crap, I think something is about to tear"

* My first story posted was a fantasy. Maybe I should intersperse my fantasy stories with the damn near comedic efforts in anal play

I think starting with the girthy nine-incher may not be the move here...personally, I like to start with a finger, move on up to a plug, then maybe two fingers before I move to something larger. The thrusting prostate toy that I enjoy is probably about 7in insertable and not super thick and even that takes a little bit of time and patience-and LOTS of lube. Once I'm relaxed though, I can full enjoy it.

Angles of insertion probably play a significant role as well, especially with a larger toy. Just got to take it slow and keep practicing. You can work through discomfort, just don't try to work through pain!

 

[Escierto]

I think starting with the girthy nine-incher may not be the move here...personally, I like to start with a finger, move on up to a plug, then maybe two fingers before I move to something larger. The thrusting prostate toy that I enjoy is probably about 7in insertable and not super thick and even that takes a little bit of time and patience-and LOTS of lube. Once I'm relaxed though, I can full enjoy it.

Angles of insertion probably play a significant role as well, especially with a larger toy. Just got to take it slow and keep practicing. You can work through discomfort, just don't try to work through pain!

Very good advice.

 

[Britva415]

Can the anus be stretched (semi) permanently? Or is it more a matter of training the sphincter to relax?

The latter.

"crap, crap, crap, I think something is about to tear"

I know it’s an intense, sharp feeling, but nothing’s going to tear unless you really do something violent.

You just need to breathe, go slow, stop and try again later, and not be afraid. Use your mind to make it (allow it to) soften up.

 

[Fistboy]

The latter.

Definitely the latter, that’s how I get my 3” thick dildo in me within about 15 seconds, relax, breath and lube.

 

[Cardinal]

Can the anus be stretched (semi) permanently? Or is it more a matter of training the sphincter to relax?

Absolutely, start with smaller dildos and work your way up, soon you’ll be able to take the larger ones easier, just keep working on

 

[andthighbootsforall]

I see kits that have plugs that come in various sizes. How about starting off small and get use to wearing them for extended periods of time? Then when you can handle it move up one size and repeat the process till you get to where you want to be.

I second the enema suggestion, but I have a feeling a number of people may be hesitant to purchase the traditional red rubber bag with hose. A couple years ago I purchased a box of douches. I emptied the contents and fill them with water. Clean up is easy and they can be easily hidden.

 

[PintlerMan]

I wanted this too, really like the feeling of being opened up, Get ya an inflatable plug to start with, insert and enjoy, now I want more, so I'm looking for an inflatable dildo. Lube and go slow, relax.