Strap One On

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Hello, everyone. I've been lurking around this place for far too long, and since I've finally decided to register and begin posting here, I thought I'd introduce myself with a bit of sharing.

I am a bisexual woman, and I absolutely love to fuck my willing partners with a strap-on. I own a Terra Firma harness from Toys in Babeland and a few others, but that one is definitely my favorite. I like to use dildoes of unnatural colors and am particularly fond of the way that jet black, realistic cocks look against my pale skin. While I generally let my partner choose which dong they'd like to be penetrated with, it's also quite fun to surprise them with one that we've never used together before. I believe that lube is very important in such endeavors, and I encourage it's use as much as possible.

With male partners, I love it when he lies on his back and spreads for me, so that I can stroke him off and play with his balls as I gently drill his tight ass. With women, I'm not usually more fond of one position over another, just so long as I can watch her wet pussy envelope my temporary cock over and over again. I also find that I like the way a freshly fucked pussy feels in my mouth, and am oh, so greatful to those women who allow me to indulge.

There's such an element of erotic power to wearing a beautifully made cock and fucking someone's brains out with it, one which I am glad to have become acquainted with. I can't recommend it enough.

:heart:
 
spread said:
There's such an element of erotic power to wearing a beautifully made cock and fucking someone's brains out with it, one which I am glad to have become acquainted with. I can't recommend it enough.

Word. Having a cock is awesome.
 
I just love to be fucked with a strapon . It feels so good to be fucked while I'm jacked off . I also love the taste of a fresh fucked pussy . Seems we have a bit of the same tastes . :rose:
 
Weevil said:
Word. Having a cock is awesome.

I've noticed. If I weren't so fond of my pussy, I might consider having one permanently attached.
 
spread said:
I've noticed. If I weren't so fond of my pussy, I might consider having one permanently attached.

Yeah. Real ones are pretty cool. You can write your name in the snow. But, just because I'm the eternally curious straight guy, does it actually get your rocks off when you're fucking someone with one or is it more about the visual fun and sensory fun of getting your partner off?
 
Weevil said:
Yeah. Real ones are pretty cool. You can write your name in the snow. But, just because I'm the eternally curious straight guy, does it actually get your rocks off when you're fucking someone with one or is it more about the visual fun and sensory fun of getting your partner off?

It can. Some harnesses have little pockets for those tiny vibrators, which can be quite fun to grind against with each thrust. Mostly, for me, it is about the sensory fun and the control in which I have to get someone else off. And, usually, if I've done a good job, the favor is returned rightly.
 
spread said:
It can. Some harnesses have little pockets for those tiny vibrators, which can be quite fun to grind against with each thrust. Mostly, for me, it is about the sensory fun and the control in which I have to get someone else off. And, usually, if I've done a good job, the favor is returned rightly.

No, that makes sense. So much of the fun of having sex with girls is getting girls off, after all. Now, in your experience, are most of the girls you pick up into the idea of the strap-on or is it more of an acquired taste?
 
Weevil said:
No, that makes sense. So much of the fun of having sex with girls is getting girls off, after all. Now, in your experience, are most of the girls you pick up into the idea of the strap-on or is it more of an acquired taste?

Some are, some aren't. There are some women who don't even enjoy penetration, so obviously, they're not going to go for it; but they may or may not enjoy being the penetrator. Most of the girls I've been with really enjoy it, but there have been some who think that it's unnecessary and that they might as well just fuck a man. I can understand where they're coming from, I suppose, but I'm of the mind that they should see what it's like before deciding they don't like it. I enjoy introducing girls to the strap-on, though, and hopefully I can help some acquire a taste for it.
 
spread said:
I enjoy introducing girls to the strap-on, though, and hopefully I can help some acquire a taste for it.

Huh. You learn something new everyday I suppose. I salute you and your trailblazing spirit.
 
Weevil said:
Huh. You learn something new everyday I suppose. I salute you and your trailblazing spirit.

Why, thank you. I do what I can. For humanity's sake, of course.
 
spread said:
Why, thank you. I do what I can. For humanity's sake, of course.

You're making the world a friendlier place, one person at a time.
 
tymeblind said:
This is the non-av thread,

oops I just ruined it....
Guess that it a good av to ruin the trend with. I must find one or produce one that I like ;)
 
spread said:
Or, at least messing up a lot of cute girls' hair.

Well, if you're doing a good job with the girls, odds are they're leaving you with a smile on their face and the line you quoted stands.
 
bibphi said:
My boyfriend is MAD to try this, and I'm mad to accomodate him (actually, vice versa I guess).

Gotta love a man who wants to try the strap-on.

I've heard of women making their own harnesses, though I've never actually tried to do so myself. I believe that there is at least one o-ring involved and some belt-like fabric for stabilization. I'd love to be able to help you more with that particular inquiry, but as I've never done it myself, I wouldn't be much assistance. Have you googled or asked jeeves? Perhaps they can help more than I can.
 
Weevil said:
Well, if you're doing a good job with the girls, odds are they're leaving you with a smile on their face and the line you quoted stands.

You're so very right. I only hope that they spread that hapiness to others, or all my hard work is for naught.
 
spread said:
You're so very right. I only hope that they spread that hapiness to others, or all my hard work is for naught.

You know the old saying, Give a girl a fish and you feed her for a day, teach her the joy of using strap-ons and you feed her for a....

Well, I guess that isn't an old saying. It should be though.
 
Weevil said:
You know the old saying, Give a girl a fish and you feed her for a day, teach her the joy of using strap-ons and you feed her for a....

Well, I guess that isn't an old saying. It should be though.

That is certainly a t-shirt worthy saying. I'll get right on it.
 
I want my wife to fuck me so bad I can't stand it. She has a strap-on in her nightstand. Hopefully she will use it one day!!!
 
Baskin Robbins said:
I want my wife to fuck me so bad I can't stand it. She has a strap-on in her nightstand. Hopefully she will use it one day!!!

Hand her some lube and the strap-on and let her know that you want it.
 
spread said:
I've heard of women making their own harnesses, though I've never actually tried to do so myself.

I had a girlfriend when i was younger who made her own. She basically just took a piece of soft rope, tied it to the balls on the strapon, then wrapped it around her legs and waist.

She said she preferred doing it that way over the traditional harness that you can purchase, because she said she could get a nice custom fit that was nice and snug to her body. Which was true, she had as much control with it as any man ever had with his penis... well, except hers stayed hard a lot longer.
 
Ummmm, just finished playing with my vibrator and boy is my ass feeling good! A shower and my wife's toy is just what I needed after a crappy day at work.
 
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