Strap-On

[EroticGent]

I need some advice. My girlfriend and I have experienced with strap ons, but they all seem ackward for her to wear. Any links or suggestions to a quality one?

 

[overthebow]

There is a lot of stuff about strap-ons and anal play in the How To -> Blank Book section

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=243894

 

[Liquid Cruelty]

Yeah, from what I've seen, strap-ons are never securely attached enough that the girl can actually fuck the person like a guy would. x_x

 

[emap]

I disagree, just by doing a quick search I found a couple of online stores selling strap ons, and I saw a couple that would work, this is the Babeland Terra Firma, looks to be pretty darn sturdy, it's not just a strap around the waist.
http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/harnesses-top-picks/RW490180

Then there is the Black Cat Harness, looks like a pair of panties really, but you can tighten it down, so I would assume you can get it to stay.
http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/harnesses-top-picks/RW450145

There are more of course, but they are all pretty much variations on those two, if you really want to find a set that won't go anywhere, go to a porn shop and ask, and you can always buy a bunch of superglue and the releaser

 

[Liquid Cruelty]

Well, y'know... I meant... in practice. o_o I don't know.

 

[uptoplay2]

Harness? Old school!

http://www.ilovexor.com/myProducts....entcategoryid=2|Dildos&productIDtoDisplay=462

Nexus, Nexus Jr, Feeldoe, Slim Feeldoe....
all have the same idea and claim that a harness might not even be necessary.

I'd be interested to know what you find out.

 

[Mrs.H]

Do you by chance have a Lover's Lane or an adult book store nearby?

You can always try them on over clothes.

The staff is so professional at Lover's Lane. They spent about 30 minutes with me. Making sure, I had THE perfect strap-on.

 

[Meat Whistler]

I have several and I'd suggest one that has an adjustable harness for starters. I'm quite interested in the Feeldoe, but if I were you, I'd first have her try an adjustable harness that you can purchase at any cock shop.

Good luck and enjoy.



Edited: I do know how to spell; I promise. It was late.

 

[uptoplay2]

the perfect strap-on?

Ladies... with the harnesses... do you have to keep your hand on the dildo the whole time? Does it line up to really give you the feeling of fucking? Knowing that my lady is getting as much enjoyment is key for me.

No one has tried these new toys: feeldoe, Nexus? Even if they don't quite work without the harness, with the harness they seem to be the answer for me. I like the harness look so, that's not a bad thing.

Pictures or vids of them in use would answer a lot of questions. I haven't found pics and vids (or experiences) that give me confidence in the older ideas.

Can't find a pic showing what I mean about the failing of harnesses right now.

 

[Mrs.H]

The harness is adjustable so, it's fairly snug.

I had one that I ordered from an Adam & Eve catalog, I was VERY disappointed.

I had to hold it about 80% of the time.

The one I have now is from Lovers Lane, and rarely do I have to hold it.

Best of luck to you!!

 

[uptoplay2]

No holding... but does it please you equally.

Mrs. H,
Does your current model give you pleasure for the pleasure you are providing? When you thrust do you get the rush transmitted to where you need it? I know there is a emotional and mental sensation.... but is there more?
I'm not sure I want my lady to lose control with her thrusting. Hopefully she will build gradually and then allow me to release with her. But to do that is a harnessed dildo enough. Does having a dildo attached to the harness elsewhere for her do? Do you really have control..... at about the same point a guy would if it were real? That would make positions easier...
Still wondering.

 

[Mrs.H]

Re: No holding... but does it please you equally.

Mrs. H,
Does your current model give you pleasure for the pleasure you are providing? When you thrust do you get the rush transmitted to where you need it? I know there is a emotional and mental sensation.... but is there more?
I'm not sure I want my lady to lose control with her thrusting. Hopefully she will build gradually and then allow me to release with her. But to do that is a harnessed dildo enough. Does having a dildo attached to the harness elsewhere for her do? Do you really have control..... at about the same point a guy would if it were real? That would make positions easier...
Still wondering.

It's not the same as if were a real penis. It does move side to side a tad bit.

Short of putting crazy glue on, it's going to ""give"" some.

It's still a wonderful sensation.

To be able to release together? That will take some practice, I still haven't been able to........

But remember.... practice makes perfect!!

 

[mr happy]

Hi gang< just my 2 cents worth.

We have the Vacu Lock system. Fits real well, nice and secure.

The wife loves it and even when she is really going to town on my ass it never cums loose.

Also has the ability to change dong size easily, so start out small and work your way up.
have found the 6" is a really good size, anything bigger for me might be too much of a stretch

 

[overthebow]

I got a Feeldoe and my GF is waiting for an opportunity to use it on me. (finding time is hard) I have used it on myself and the feeling of stimulating my prostate from the inside while playing with my penis was mindblowing. I can't wait for her do me.

 

[mystic_maiden32]

Hi gang< just my 2 cents worth.

We have the Vacu Lock system. Fits real well, nice and secure.

The wife loves it and even when she is really going to town on my ass it never cums loose.

Also has the ability to change dong size easily, so start out small and work your way up.
have found the 6" is a really good size, anything bigger for me might be too much of a stretch

where do you find one of those that will ship FPO?

 

[Etoile]

We've got a Nexus and a Nexus Jr. and we're happy with both of them. We also have at least eight other harness ready dildos (that is, with bases) and they stay in place reasonably well. We prefer the type of harness that goes around each leg, rather than between the legs. I'm not sure why but it does seem to provide better control. We're interested in getting a Feeldoe but haven't yet.

 

[melancholygirl]

Yeah, from what I've seen, strap-ons are never securely attached enough that the girl can actually fuck the person like a guy would. x_x

If she's wearing the strap-on, she needs to make sure it's tight against her. Also, correct positioning for entry helps.

 

[mr happy]

where do you find one of those that will ship FPO?

We had been playing around with a cheap crappy toy for a while.
I was on a business trip up north, dropped in to an adult store for some lite reading material to pass the night hours away, found the Vacu lock on the shelf, one look in the box had my cock swelling in my pants. Knew that this was the toy I had dreamed of

It is an American company, so you should be able to find it on the mail order web sites.

Good luck

 

[Etoile]

It is an American company, so you should be able to find it on the mail order web sites.

FPO is a military address, though, and may not be in the United States. From what I've seen, few American companies list APO/FPO in their state listings, and even those that will ship abroad may not be able to handle it.

Blowfish (there it is again!) happens to handle APO/FPO shipping quite well from what I can tell:
http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/ordering/#intlshipping

Toys In Babeland can do it, but only on Tuesdays and Fridays:
http://www.babeland.com/order-info#shipping

Looks like Good Vibrations is no help at all:
http://snipurl.com/8388

Adam and Eve doesn't mention APO/FPO but does ship internationally:
http://www.adameve.com//compinfo/faq.asp#custserv

 

[mystic_maiden32]

FPO is a military address, though, and may not be in the United States. From what I've seen, few American companies list APO/FPO in their state listings, and even those that will ship abroad may not be able to handle it.

Blowfish (there it is again!) happens to handle APO/FPO shipping quite well from what I can tell:
http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/ordering/#intlshipping

Toys In Babeland can do it, but only on Tuesdays and Fridays:
http://www.babeland.com/order-info#shipping

Looks like Good Vibrations is no help at all:
http://snipurl.com/8388

Adam and Eve doesn't mention APO/FPO but does ship internationally:
http://www.adameve.com//compinfo/faq.asp#custserv

Thanks gorgeous!

 

[uptoplay2]

What do these new strap-ons look like in use?

Has anyone found a picture of one of these strapless strap-ons being modeled? Harness needed or only in some positions? (Not that just a picture will satisfy this.... interest... but it would help)

 

[Etoile]

Re: What do these new strap-ons look like in use?

Has anyone found a picture of one of these strapless strap-ons being modeled? Harness needed or only in some positions? (Not that just a picture will satisfy this.... interest... but it would help)

Are you referring to the Feeldoe? That's the only "strapless" strap on that I know of. I haven't ever seen any pictures, but you could always Google.

 

[uptoplay2]

Nexus... someone mentioned one other type other than Feeldoe

http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/double_dildos.html

Believe I've googled for pictures of more than just the toy!

 

[Etoile]

Re: Nexus... someone mentioned one other type other than Feeldoe

http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/double_dildos.html

Believe I've googled for pictures of more than just the toy!

Okay, so you're referring to the Feeldoe mostly, and perhaps also the Nexus. (By the way, from my own experience, the Nexus really works better with a harness.) Unfortunately I haven't come across porn featuring either, but perhaps you could write to the makers and ask if they know of any.

 

[uptoplay2]

GREAT idea!

Stay here and play or go do research for everyone?
I hope this is appreciated!