strap-on thoughts?

[trb2216]

how normal is it for a straight man to want his wife to fuck him with a strap-on? do you think the average women gets turned on, or is grossed out by such an idea?

 

[Felix_Jones]

Normal

Loads of threads on thsi topic. Seems like it's more common than you might think.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

100% normal. Not necessarily common, but completely normal.

 

[elphie69]

dont know where i rate on the average scale
But the idea drives me wild with lust

 

[kodos9000]

dont know where i rate on the average scale
But the idea drives me wild with lust

I agree 100%........

 

[joehmpsd]

First we need to drop the word "normal", because what I think is normal you may find outright perverse.

So that aside, I think it is common but the key is that everyone involved is comfortable with that kind of sexual interaction. That is the great thing about being in a comfortable sexual relationship is the ability to explore and experiment.

It is more common than you probably think, for us we're in!

 

[SweetErika]

how normal is it for a straight man to want his wife to fuck him with a strap-on? do you think the average women gets turned on, or is grossed out by such an idea?

It's relatively common.

And it doesn't matter what I think or how the average woman feels about strap-on sex. If you're asking because it interests you, it only matters what YOUR partner thinks.

If you don't know how your partner feels, I'd suggest asking her, rather than guessing or asking us what she might be thinking.

 

[synthetika]

If you don't know how your partner feels, I'd suggest asking her, rather than guessing or asking us what she might be thinking.

Fingers crossed that she has had similar thoughts cross her mind also. You never know... you may be fortunate enough to find that she shares the fantasy.

I for one am pleased my husband confessed this same idea to me; we purchased our own strapon and the rest as they say is history...

 

[silverwhisper]

trb, on lit specifically, it crops up quite often. but as erika noted, the only people to whom its "normalcy" is relevant are you and your wife.

joehmpsd quoth:
first we need to drop the word "normal", because what i think is normal you may find outright perverse.

as someone around here is fond of saying: "normal" is just a setting on the dishwasher.

ed

 

[MissMDS]

If my husband would only let me near there... *sniffle*

 

[flasubm]

If my husband would only let me near there... *sniffle*

My wife hasn't used our strap on for nearly 5 years, That is the mission for next weekend.

 

[mwcntx4fun]

strap-on

It was a fantasy for a lonnnnng time before it became a reality....I brought it up and the wife admitted to thinking of it for a while before that.

Regardless of how you view the 'role' each person is playing or any other implications, it is a source of serious physical pleasure....however it's tough to imagine at least one involved party *not* turned on by one or more facets of the control involved.

 

[cf23430]

If my husband would only let me near there... *sniffle*

you can have mine

 

[pokeyride]

Oh my !

mwcntx4fun that is one hot photo of your strap-on !!!! Would love to see more of them.


pokeyride

 

[albertaboy]

WE do it regularly and it's pretty cool...I mean hot

 

[SumLightCat]

Perfectly normal ... not common, but it doesn't change your sexual orientation or anything.

 

[texasm31]

Perfectly normal ... not common, but it doesn't change your sexual orientation or anything.

Please tell my wife that. She'll barely play with my ass. Her sticking anything there is out of the question. And I would love it.

 

[Granprincipe]

NORMAL. VERY NORMAL. However, some women like doing it and others do not. Talk about it and see what happens.

 

[miaction69]

i'd do that
i haven't yet
but i would like to

 

[ShortMaggie]

I get turned on by the idea of fucking a guy with a strap on!

But I'm also not your average girl

 

[escriterra]

The delicious naughtiness of the thought is so-o-o-o rewarding. Planning the seduction, making the man so hot to be taken and then drawing out the inevitability as a tease to ramp up the eroticism of what is to come only adds to the allure. Ladies, when this intimate act is done slowly, lovingly -- and then faster and harder -- the trip, and the orgasm, are incredible. Don't deny yourselves or your man the pleasure -- it only takes careful preparation to lead him to the idea. Letting him know how incredibly hot it makes you to even think about it is a marvelous convincer strategy after you've worked up through loving finger caresses of his opening that lead to insertion and internal massage while his stiff cock is in your mouth at the time. The first time he comes while you're inside him and you feel the sexy contractions that pulse around your finger in time with the spurts of his cum will say everything necessary about why the eventual fucking you'll give him will be exquisitely erotic and satisfying for both of you.

 

[joehmpsd]

Escriterra could not have said it better, follow her advice.

 

[cryforme1v]

i think its completely normal and really sexy.
I tried to talk my boyfriend into letting me but he's not interested.
He said he's had the whole prostrate massage thing and it just didnt do anything for him<not buyin it> but i respect his wishes and dont push the subject.
But if he did it with me, it would be such a turn on. I'd love it.

 

[DiscreetKnox]

Just keep aiming for this. Take note if he had a bigger orgasm or not while you are doing it. Use plenty of lube, and talk dirty, let him know how much it turns you on.

That's how I got hooked...

 

[oldkinky]

how normal is it for a straight man to want his wife to fuck him with a strap-on? do you think the average women gets turned on, or is grossed out by such an idea?

Normal. Once you try it you will be hooked. DW fucks me with a strap on about once a week.

PM me for details of our strap on fucking.