strap on help

[slutpuppy]

My wife and I have been using toys on each other for awhile.
She even started using a strap on dildo on me and I loved it.
I love the feel of that big soft dildo sliding in and out of my ass.
I would like to try a real live throbbing cock in my ass.
The trouble is I am afraid to tell my wife about my desires.
Any Ideas how I could tell her how I feel?
I would like to hear from guys wo have been thru this and women who's husbands have told them the same thing.
Thanks for any help you can provide.
slut puppy

 

[Topher]

Don't tell. Even women who seem openminded will quite often change their minds when it's their husband or bf in the equation.

Now, I am sure there are some women here on Lit who would either not mind or who would even be turned on by such desires on the part of their man, but I think that they are in the minority.

Just consider it a good long time before you decide to reveal it to her.

 

[Stiffy Says...]

good luck....

I have not had that level of curiosity, to have a strap on used on me...told my ex about the time she met another guy from the net and left me. I do not want to discourage you in your curiosity, I think it is healthy, but have to agree wit hthe other poster from my experience.

 

[alberotomba]

Thought of same or other

My gf and I love toys and al sorts of things. Its amazing that before not too long ago and just looking through porn that after finding some mmf scenes I thought the idea was wonderful. I do however have the same question as the original poster. Something I have noticed but I would even love to find a transexual as that is about the closest that I can come on a regular basis of finding that would be acceptable to me. I also have been trying to figure out how to get my gf to agree to a threesome with another man as that could lead into more in the future. any thoughts?

 

[DuckLover]

Communication

Clear, honest communication is the key to success in any relationship. It's even more important in a sexual relationship.

A good way to start might be to have a conversation about sexual fantasies. Find out what she finds interesting and then you can reveal some of what you like.

Another option would be to read some Lit stories or watch porn together that includes MMF scenes. See how she reacts. You could then ask her what she thought of the scenes.