Strap-on harness advice?

[pinkstarfish]

Looking for a good leather harness for intensive use.

Any suggestions?

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=13718590&postcount=829

 

[catalina_francisco]

Try to avoid those things with narrow, flimsy straps....the more substance and support, the better for creating the action you want. If possible, one that allows for a variety of different size dildoes is also good....and attractive can be a plus......I'm thinking on getting a lace up style one which compliments the curves of the female form,(another variation of it) is similar to a suspender belt design with width to offer support, and is size adjustable with 3 size dildo use available....also comes with suspenders to add to the look if you want to use them.

Catalina

 

[rosco rathbone]

You probably have to go custom.

 

[Kierae]

Would suggest going with the 4 strap one (like this http://www.stockroom.com/j239.htm ) - having owned several over the many years, I can attest its nice to have the extra straps which keep everything in place and secure. Nothing more frustrating than having your strap on slipping and losing momentum.

 

[pinkstarfish]

Thanks for your replies everyone.

Someone recommended this one. Anyone tried it?

http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/harnesses-2-strap/RW490181

 

[FurryFury]

No, but I like the little "up hook" on the shaft for a woman.

I just ordered a new one from the Doc Johnson Vac u Lock group. I went to a local sex toy store and felt the shafts first. They need to be soft but not floppy for what I want. They need to be firm enough to get them where I want them to go.

I'll report in once it arrives and I have a chance to use it. I am going to try to save these toys for my vacations. If I can hold off that long.

We shall see.

Fury

 

[SophiaY]

Try to avoid those things with narrow, flimsy straps....the more substance and support, the better for creating the action you want. If possible, one that allows for a variety of different size dildoes is also good....and attractive can be a plus......I'm thinking on getting a lace up style one which compliments the curves of the female form,(another variation of it) is similar to a suspender belt design with width to offer support, and is size adjustable with 3 size dildo use available....also comes with suspenders to add to the look if you want to use them.

Catalina

There is no perfect harness. Almost all of them require some personal customizing, and most look and feel somewhat awkward. However, the corset harness comes close to being the most pleasing that I have experienced.
For the most part, it functions as it is supposed to, and it is very attractive.

 

[pinkstarfish]

No, but I like the little "up hook" on the shaft for a woman.

I just ordered a new one from the Doc Johnson Vac u Lock group. I went to a local sex toy store and felt the shafts first. They need to be soft but not floppy for what I want. They need to be firm enough to get them where I want them to go.

I'll report in once it arrives and I have a chance to use it. I am going to try to save these toys for my vacations. If I can hold off that long.

We shall see.

Fury

I was thinking something more like this.

http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/harnesses-2-strap/LR350200

or even this:

http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/harnesses-2-strap/LR330320

My husband likes them nice and thick.

Also, I haven't had much luck with vac-u-locks. I'd like to hear how it worked for you.

 

[FurryFury]

I was thinking something more like this.

http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/harnesses-2-strap/LR350200

or even this:

http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/harnesses-2-strap/LR330320

My husband likes them nice and thick.

Also, I haven't had much luck with vac-u-locks. I'd like to hear how it worked for you.

You haven't? Why? What goes wrong?

Fury

 

[benji43]

very sexy !

 

[Alt]

Duct tape!

 

[pinkstarfish]

You haven't? Why? What goes wrong?

Fury

No hip thrusting/cock control.

The dick flops downward, and a hand is usually needed to guide it the entire time which is very frustrating.

 

[pinkstarfish]

Duct tape!

If needed yes.

I've decided on this one:

http://www.stockroom.com/g/j239kyla.jpg

I like things around my waist rather than around my hips. I hope it works well!

 

[FurryFury]

No hip thrusting/cock control.

The dick flops downward, and a hand is usually needed to guide it the entire time which is very frustrating.

Rut Roo!


I don't like the sound of that.

The new toys are here though!

Hehehe!

Now I just need the energy to play with them.

Fury

 

[pinkstarfish]

As Alt mentioned, duct tape!

Have fun, I'd love to hear about it, and see!

 

[Alt]

If needed yes.


I like things around my waist rather than around my hips. I hope it works well!

That might give you more control for firmer thrusting. Let us know how well it works for you!

 

[SophiaY]

The lack of padding behind the base might be a problem.

(Those little technical details that seem to be left out of stories)

 

[FurryFury]

The lack of padding behind the base might be a problem.

(Those little technical details that seem to be left out of stories)

See those are the things people need to know.

Love your av btw!

Fury

 

[pinkstarfish]

SophiaY ~

I don't think that will be a problem with the above harness that I posted since the soft base of the dildo would be against the skin.

 

[SophiaY]

I don't think that will be a problem with the above harness that I posted since the soft base of the dildo would be against the skin.

(drawling very dryly) dear, you may find that it rubs you the wrong way...

 

[pinkstarfish]

In what area? What if I wore a corset under it?

 

[SophiaY]

(Amused at myself; not usually a provider of technical advice)

It depends on how flared and wide the base of the dildo is, where it rides. The edge of the base is most often where chaffing can occur.

There are alternatives, using a dildo such as the Nexus or Feeldoe with the harness. For those women who enjoy penetration, they can be very nice.

 

[pinkstarfish]

I figured if it's a soft material, it won't be a bother. Plus, I am planning on wearing it over something to insure comfort, like a corset.

I'll let you know when I finally get it.

 

[Missingmeds]

Sorry for the hijack of the thread but I really do need to leave a message for someone that posts in this thread.

Someone on this thread needs to empty their pm box. Someone else is trying to reply to you and can't because they keep getting a full box message.

Again, my apologies to you all for the hi-jack.

 

[subbie_333]

More strap-on info

Sorry to get in on this discussion a bit late, but, i just joined the site.

i make BDSM leather items, as well as a strap-on harness that i designed specifically for BBWs. You can see more about it at: http://www.cometsoftware.com/she/leather_catalog_strap-on_harness.htm

i have been working on a scaled down version for the average sized woman that can probably go down to a 30 inch waist (or, riding a bit lower down onto the hips). If anybody is interested, i can get those pics up on the site.

Also, i wrote an article about strap-on harnesses that answers a bunch of questions and explores different problems. Read it at: http://www.cometsoftware.com/she/articles/strap-on_harnesses.htm


subbie_333