Strap-on dildo advice needed

[help_me_Rhonda]

Is there a good all-purpose strap-on dildo for using on male or female?

Do you prefer the two or three strap?

What about the strap material- Nylon? Leather? Cloth?

Any and all advice appreciated!

 

[jomar]

Check out Stormy Leather...the terra firma is an awesome harness...leather is sexiest,but... And the "silky dildo" from good vibrations is excellent...don't know why they went blue, mine is flesh colored. Not a cheap setup, but you won't go wrong.

 

[oldkinky]

Check out Stormy Leather...the terra firma is an awesome harness...leather is sexiest,but... And the "silky dildo" from good vibrations is excellent...don't know why they went blue, mine is flesh colored. Not a cheap setup, but you won't go wrong.

We purchased a Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness with a pouch for a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while she does me. It also includes two small silicone dildos(Silk Small-7/8 by 4.5 inches- and Silk Medium-11/4 by 5.5 inches- made by Tantus). Both of these are small and easy to insert with lube(Wet Original). harness vibrator and me from prostate stimulation and the handjob.
We then purchased a new harness(Buzz Me Tender) which is a little more sturdy and has pouches for two vibrators. A harness with vibrators to stimulate her clitoris is very important.

We have graduated to new dildos. A word of caution about dildo size. The maximum dildo diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 1/2 or a little less, but up to 7 inches long or longer is fine. We much prefer silicone dildos. Some we enjoy are Vibrating Mistress(1 3/8 inch by 6 inches) made by Vixen Creations, Vibrating Leisure(1 1/4 by 7 inches) made by Tantus, Acute(Tantus)1.25 by 5 inches and curved, Compact (1 by 5.25 inches-made by Tantus,.

Our favorites are the Vibrating Leisure and Vibrating Mistress. My wife also likes to masturbate with the Mistress. I love watching her cum while using the Mistress. We also have the Vibrating Leo, but it is too large in diameter to be comfortable for me.

A recent addition is a double dildo. We use Nexus Jr. with a harness and we do each other at the same time. DW had her first squirting orgasm while we were doing each other.

Remember use lots and lots of lube. You can't use too much.

Some couples are concerned about creating a mess. If you have a BM an hour or two before sex things

 

[prostatecurious]

love rider anyone?

 

[DeceptiveSpeed]

My wife likes this:

http://www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=15BL11&lref=Cat_catalog70002_cat33831_BS_2

And uses these in it.

www.toolshedtoys.com/product_info.php/cPath/48_105/products_id/1445

She likes it. Uses it on both guys and girls with no problems.

Good luck!

 

[CBM514]

Feeldoe...strapless is great. Easy to use once you get used to it and far less hassle