Strange question about coffee shops being pickup joints

[Ahi_Viking]

OK, I thought I'd ask this here. We have a large Starbucks near my place. It's located on the edge of a pricey neighborhood. I go there often to meet friends and clients. One thing I've noticed over the years - there is an abundance of very beautiful milfs who show up and (why I'm asking) a lot of them seem to be looking for love. Is there some code I don't know about here? I have been approached and stared at by some really hot ladies there regularly- at a much higher rate than I experience elsewhere. So, do women tend to go to Starbucks to find love/sex? I know that's a strange question. But, even just recently, a hot brunette milf I know laughingly told me about how she seductively ate a banana at a Starbucks while a man stared at her wantonly.

Today I was there with a client and an incredible brunette zero'd in on me. Man, she was hot - big, round ass, tight jeans, high heels, tight top that her nipples were about to blast through. She took her time near our table repeatedly looking at my eyes, wandering by, etc. My client was even laughing about it. So, any ladies here ever pick a guy up at Starbucks?

Thanks...

 

[quietkinkz]

yes its a just like a bar in a way. theres people, drinks, and the opportunity to be social. might as well cast out ya (fishing)rod.

 

[rbone04]

Everywhere can be a pickup spot if you've got the balls.

 

[MaddysSecret]

Sure I have, and been hit on as well. Some coffee shops don't have the privacy some would want to hit on another, but to the bold go the rewards.

 

[Lazy_lay]

OK, I thought I'd ask this here. We have a large Starbucks near my place. It's located on the edge of a pricey neighborhood. I go there often to meet friends and clients. One thing I've noticed over the years - there is an abundance of very beautiful milfs who show up and (why I'm asking) a lot of them seem to be looking for love. Is there some code I don't know about here? I have been approached and stared at by some really hot ladies there regularly- at a much higher rate than I experience elsewhere. So, do women tend to go to Starbucks to find love/sex? I know that's a strange question. But, even just recently, a hot brunette milf I know laughingly told me about how she seductively ate a banana at a Starbucks while a man stared at her wantonly.

Today I was there with a client and an incredible brunette zero'd in on me. Man, she was hot - big, round ass, tight jeans, high heels, tight top that her nipples were about to blast through. She took her time near our table repeatedly looking at my eyes, wandering by, etc. My client was even laughing about it. So, any ladies here ever pick a guy up at Starbucks?

Thanks...

It makes perfect sense, women can easily go out during the day but many not so easy after dark. Also a lot of women wouldn't go in a bar alone.

 

[littlecordelera]

I walk into a Starbucks, get my coffee, and leave. I never even look at anyone else. Maybe I need to be a changin' ways!

 

[SandraMustard]

OK, I thought I'd ask this here. We have a large Starbucks near my place. It's located on the edge of a pricey neighborhood. I go there often to meet friends and clients. One thing I've noticed over the years - there is an abundance of very beautiful milfs who show up and (why I'm asking) a lot of them seem to be looking for love. Is there some code I don't know about here? I have been approached and stared at by some really hot ladies there regularly- at a much higher rate than I experience elsewhere. So, do women tend to go to Starbucks to find love/sex? I know that's a strange question. But, even just recently, a hot brunette milf I know laughingly told me about how she seductively ate a banana at a Starbucks while a man stared at her wantonly.

Today I was there with a client and an incredible brunette zero'd in on me. Man, she was hot - big, round ass, tight jeans, high heels, tight top that her nipples were about to blast through. She took her time near our table repeatedly looking at my eyes, wandering by, etc. My client was even laughing about it. So, any ladies here ever pick a guy up at Starbucks?

Thanks...

No, I don't drink coffee, but at the risk of giving away trade secrets, any shared interest provides pickup opportunities. Men just have to be alert (not obsessed with their interest) to get the signals. Here are some other venues:

Sports Bars (Buffalo Wild Wings etal) A woman who knows sports?
Antique car shows - if you're into gearheads
Biker rallies - if you're into leather (most are professionals like doctors, lawyers!)
The seashore - not all clam shells are in the water.
Bowling - Strike up a conversation about picking up spares.

I've never picked up any guys this way but I could have. NFL Sundays at BWW is a madhouse and I've chatted with friendly men. I did meet one of my lovers riding on a bike trail.

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I... honestly I have noticed in the past that the type of people you would find in Starbucks where I live are different too. The guys as well, while I've never been hit on because of the tiny amount of times I go there, they're so... well-dressed, and stuff. I don't really enjoy it by any means but just saying, I see what you're talking about and I agree, there is something about Starbucks that seems to draw these kinds of people.

 

[BonaFideBlonde]

I never have picked up a man at a Starbucks, but it is a likely location. I think your vibe is correct -- they are sending you signals. I like safe, decent locations like that. The library is one of my favorite places for that.

At my university, you had to show the right ID to get into the medical school library. Women were trying to get in there to pick up the med students all the time.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Cafes are great places to meet people. Just don't do it like you would at a bar. Soften your approach a bit and engage in some chit-chat. You have to build the attraction more slowly during the day; women especially will have their guard up.

As a general rule if you see a woman you like anywhere, say something to her. Heck I dated a girl I met at a Burger King!

 

[desiwife16]

I have done it for the fun of it.

 

[Jake1945]

I never thought of a coffee shop as a good pickup place. Most of the ones I frequent, the people are in and out and on their way somewhere. I agree with Sandra that places where you can share an interest are good for meeting people. One place that many do not think of but is a good place is a hiking club. I used to hike with the AMC and women usually outnumbered men 2 to 1 on the hikes. Since a hike is generally 3 or 4 hours with rest and lunch stops there is ample opportunity to converse with people. Since hikes are usually single files and it is easy to move forward or drop back to talk with someone of interest. I saw a number of dates arranged with single and married ladies. I do not know if they ended up in bed but my imagination likes to think so.