Story help needed from the female POV

[voluptuary_manque]

I'm working on a story where the younger of the female protagonists has moved from being a very straight, uptight professional to being a polyamorist. She has, in the process, married her long-time boyfriend who is now also part of the large group of players. However, at thirty she realizes that if she wants a large family (and she does!) the two of them need to get started right away. They will. However, once she is pregnant she begins to worry about diminishing sex appeal. (She hasn't found out how many of her playmates are die-hard preg-fetishists, yet ) Or will she? Is this a common feeling among women? I realize that our contingent here knows full well how much they turn on the preg/lac crowd but outside in the "real world", is it the same? What kinds of insecurities should she have? Or am I asking from the position of the wrong generation?

Thanx

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Now I'm by no means an expert, but...and I don't have a preg/lac fetish...I think pregnant women are just beautiful.

But from what I have gathered from the numerous women I have known and do know, they all, almost to a "T" think they are fat and ugly during certain times of their pregnancy. At least that is what they profess in public.

 

[cloudy]

I honestly didn't give a rat's ass if I had sex appeal or not while I was pregnant. If you'd have touched me with the intention of having sex, you would have drawn back a nub.

"Moody" doesn't even begin to describe it.

 

[matriarch]

I honestly didn't give a rat's ass if I had sex appeal or not while I was pregnant. If you'd have touched me with the intention of having sex, you would have drawn back a nub.

"Moody" doesn't even begin to describe it.

"...drawn back a nub..." ???????????????

I agree.
I was so ill during both my pregnancies, that most of the time all I wanted to do was die. On those rare and fleeting one or two hours a day when I wasn't throwing up, all I wanted to do was eat something while I could keep it down, and revel in the feeling of relative normalcy.

Sex? Wasn't even on the horizon!!

 

[Guest]

What cloudy and mat said.

During both pregnancies I was quite ill 24 hours a day - even lost weight - until I got past the sickness which was for me, weeks 8 through 16.

The middle months were okay, adjusting to exhaustion levels, making preparations, etc. And you're not huge then, it's still 'cute' pregnancy.

If was the last three months that the pregnancy hornies set in for me big time. Night and day.

So at the largest part of my pregnancy is when I wanted sex the most.

Who knew?

I don't know if that helps, VM. But I think your female protag will have other issues for a few months before how she feels about her changing shape.

 

[cloudy]

"...drawn back a nub..." ???????????????

Southern expression, I suppose. It means if he'd touched me with the intention of having sex, most of his fingers and hand would have been gone by the time he pulled away.

 

[Guest]

Southern expression, I suppose. It means if he'd touched me with the intention of having sex, most of his fingers and hand would have been gone by the time he pulled away.

You'd have bitten 'em off.

Or used of them thar Ginsu knives.

 

[cloudy]

You'd have bitten 'em off.

Or used of them thar Ginsu knives.

Indeed.

 

[tickledkitty]

I didn't feel that way at all. As a matter of fact, I felt much more sexual, almost as if I was blooming with it. I felt like it was seeping out of my pores. It was almost life changing in its intensity. I don't remember thinking about my physical appearance at all, other than having the desire to show off my amazing boobs and wishing they would stay that way.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Wonderful! So, as I suspected, the feelings during pregnancy vary greatly. I know that Hot Mama was quite sick during the first trimester with our two but she never expressed any greater lustiness in the second two. We weren't celibate but it wasn't life=orgy by any means.

Sooooo, using the comments here and the PM's I've gotten, I think I can concoct a reasonable path for her. Some modification of my original story ideas will have to be made but it will be merely a process of changing the order of things.

's to all. You have been graciously helpful.

Thanx a million,

 

[preggolover]

mmmm

Nothing sexier then a pregnant woman, in my opinion...