stories (or real-life encounters) between masculine, bi-curious guys?

[pleasetouchmenow]

Am I really the only person who thinks this is erotic? Why is it that the majority of the men I've met, no matter how sexually adventurous they are, find the idea of a MMF situation exciting ONLY if there's no chance of physical contact between the two men? After all, men totally get off on bisexual women, fantasize about it, act on it, write about it, etc., but if a woman should want to see two masculine (not effeminate) men touch each other sexually it's suddenly considered a gay male thing, whether it's real-life or just in stories.

Incidentally, I have nothing against gay males (some of my best friends are gay males), and nothing against effeminate men; just don't happen to be sexually attracted to either group, nor do think I'd be any good at writing about either group. But if women can be feminine, bisexual and accepted (and encouraged!), why can't men be masculine, bisexual, and accepted? Are men just too insecure or what?

I'd love some feedback; both from men and from women. I've submitted one story that contains just a bit of male on male contact, and I'm expecting that once it's been published I'm going to have to turn off comments to avoid reading lots of unpleasant stuff. If anyone out there has any interest in a story about two bi-curious, masculine men who have a threesome with a woman, I'd love to write one.

 

[WindDancerBlue]

I've asked several men who were very staunch no-gay-stuff types the following question:

If you were blindfolded, getting the best blowjob of your life, and five seconds before you cum, the blindfold is removed to reveal that it was another guy, could you finish?

Most men say no way they'd be able to cum (most consider going limp a real possibility.)

However, as far as the MMF, I also agree that since women are generally expected to participate together in a threesome, that men should consider the possibilities that (a) touching another guy doesn't make you gay, and (b) who knows better what feels good than another guy? I'm just kinda tired of the whole idea that one woman can have sex with two men who absolutely will creep out if they have any (ANY) physical contact.

Yes, I do find it erotic that a bi-curious man would be able to explore the situation without being labeled.

blue

 

[pleasetouchmenow]

Just as I feared...

Thanks for responding; I've had pretty much the same responses that you have when I've asked male friends. There's a part of me that wonders if they'd really, truly be turned off in a situation like that, or if it's the whole "ohmygod, this means I'm gay, everyone will find out" nonsense. I think that women are more able to enjoy physical sensations without worrying what or who is causing them; guys seem to get more caught up in what others will think of them. Oh well - their loss!

 

[WindDancerBlue]

Oh do tell then, (maybe in a private message if you wish) just what your fantasy MMF would entail, given two willing partners? What are you most curious to experience?

blue

 

[jushorny]

pleasetouchmenow I was wondering if your story got published, I'd love to read it

 

[pleasetouchmenow]

response to jushorny

hi there - 'fraid not. if you're hoping for heavy m/m action i'm afraid you'll be disappointed; it's predominantly straight w/just a touch of m/m. hope you like it when you read it anyway. should show up in the next day or two. think it has the word "master" in the title and think i categorized as bdsm; can't remember now.

please do NOT read the stupid daddy story that's also likely to pop up at the same time; i wasn't aware of the rules regarding incest stories and although i heartily endorse daddy/daugther ROLEPLAY i attempted to submit a story w/o specifying ages or the whole roleplay concept. the lame story i submitted in its place was a pathetic, watered-down version and i wish i could prevent it from showing up.

i'm new to the whole "thread" thing; i get the feeling i write too much. all the ones i've seen are short, sweet, and to the point (and full of those horrific little icons).

 

[pleasetouchmenow]

To WinDancerBlue

i'm actually just getting started on a MMF story with a fair amount of MM play that put into play most of my (as yet) unfulfilled MMF fantasies; haven't yet decided if i'm going to have it be a standalone story or work it into another, longer story.

 

[WindDancerBlue]

I doubt I'd be disappointed, as stories go where stories go. Write too much? LOL - I can't sign my name in less than 300 words!

Everyone seems to be pretty forgiving here (except Brinnie, who needs to be whirled into the vacuum of cyberspace for spamming a thousand rooms at once in my humble opinion....) and I agree. A little self-endorsement is fine, three screens of stuff is not.

Write on!

blue

 

[Colfax]

Hey guys, I'm a newbie.

It's weird that I happened to stumble along this very thread on my first day on these boards. I happen to fit the profile that you're describing, lol.

I'm about 6'4" 235 pounds. I'm a head-shaver, and I workout a lot. Although I've had my fair share of college-girl promiscuity, I am very bi-curious(Help me out with the terminology; I've messed around once or twice, am I now fully bi, or just curious? ).

I've been aroused by other men frequently, especially men of my physical stature. I would love to read a good MMF one, and might possibly start a little fantasy myself.

-Rob

 

[StoryTella]

There's a part of me that wonders if they'd really, truly be turned off in a situation like that, or if it's the whole "ohmygod, this means I'm gay, everyone will find out" nonsense.

I'd say its more of the latter than anything else. Men watch porn, and don't get turned off by watching the dicks of other men ... So I really can't imagine why it would turn someone off instantly when watching to men go at each other. Same with the blowjob ... a couple of seconds before you come it doesn't matter anymore, you are too far gone. There are only a few incidents I can imagine which would deflate you instantly, but realising the blowjob you are getting is from another guy doesn't seem to be likely to be one of it.

As for the "women are expected to engage in a threesome and men won't do it" ... ever asked any women if they'd like it to see two men together as much as we like seeing to chicks go at it? I doubt they'd want to see this as much as we do.

 

[pleasetouchmenow]

MMF stuff

Hey guys, I'm a newbie.

It's weird that I happened to stumble along this very thread on my first day on these boards. I happen to fit the profile that you're describing, lol.

I'm about 6'4" 235 pounds. I'm a head-shaver, and I workout a lot. Although I've had my fair share of college-girl promiscuity, I am very bi-curious(Help me out with the terminology; I've messed around once or twice, am I now fully bi, or just curious? ).

I've been aroused by other men frequently, especially men of my physical stature. I would love to read a good MMF one, and might possibly start a little fantasy myself.

-Rob

Hi Rob -

I'm a newbie as well, and have no idea as to the protocol for the whole "thread" thing.

Glad to hear that you're interested in the MMF idea, especially since you seem to be exactly the type I fantasize about. I like tall men who are in good shape; don't like short/effeminate/slender types, and the only real bi/bi-curious types I've been around are extremely unsexy, at least to me.

I've thrown in just a touch of MMF in a couple of my stories (hoping they'll turn up any day now - submitted them Tuesday); now that I know there's some interest I'm trying to write one that focuses more on the MM action. Still not sure how I'd classify it - probably group sex?

As for your sexual status, I really don't know what most people consider bi vs. bi-curious, but to me, a bi-curious guy is someone who's turned on at the possibility of something with another guy, someone who's maybe had an experience or two (like you), but someone who primarily sleeps with women. On the other hand, I consider myself bi, but I primarily sleep with men. I like women (a lot) but only end up with them in group situations, whether it's a threesome, partner swapping, or a free for all. I can appreciate the beauty of either a male or female body and can be sexually aroused by either one, under the right circumstances.

I'd love to hear more about your experiences or read a story if you decide to write one; maybe it'll be semi-autobiographical??

 

[pleasetouchmenow]

I'd say its more of the latter than anything else. Men watch porn, and don't get turned off by watching the dicks of other men ... So I really can't imagine why it would turn someone off instantly when watching to men go at each other. Same with the blowjob ... a couple of seconds before you come it doesn't matter anymore, you are too far gone. There are only a few incidents I can imagine which would deflate you instantly, but realising the blowjob you are getting is from another guy doesn't seem to be likely to be one of it.

As for the "women are expected to engage in a threesome and men won't do it" ... ever asked any women if they'd like it to see two men together as much as we like seeing to chicks go at it? I doubt they'd want to see this as much as we do.

I was thinking about the porn thing the other day (OK, I was watching a porn DVD while trying out a new toy). There's no way you can convince me that when they're just about to show a cumshot and they focus on a guy with his hand wrapped around his cock and he's pointing it at someone and his cock takes up 90 percent of the screen that a guy watching it would lose his hardon. I've never seen a guy watching porn who saw this, said "Oh, God, it's a cock," and suddenly went limp.

As for women wanting to see two men together, I was once involved in a few play sessions with a M/F couple; she confided to me when the guys weren't around that she thought it would be really hot to see some guy/guy action; when I told her I felt exactly the same way she talked to her partner about it. He apparently said he wasn't opposed to the idea; I spoke to my partner at the time and he just about went through the roof and promptly lost all interest in ever getting together with them again.

What have your experiences been with the MMF thing?

 

[WindDancerBlue]

Story,

My "definition" of the "bi/bi-curious" line is whether or not it's something more than curiosity. You don't have to BE bisexual just because you've had some experiences that are with the same gender. But that's just my perspective.

Yes, I do think more women than you suspect would like to see more male/male interaction, or to have a little involvement in a group.

My point was that too many "non-curious" men are absolutly morbidly opposed to even casual, non-sexual contact during a MMF, much less a little hands-on or more experimentation.

You guys WRITE!! Good stuff is good stuff. You write it, they will read.

blue

 

[jeri_lickwet]

Please have a look

I have posted several stories on lit. about this topic. I hope that you will have a looksie and see what you think.

http://english.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=40331&page=submissions

As always, I welcome any feedback about my stories.

Jeri.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

this did OK and got some good feedback. I don't recall any negative responses at all. The only drawback on MMF stuff is where to submit it. If it goes under 'gay male' you could get away with it. if it's in group sex, then some people may get pissed off.
Still, if you make it clear in the description it may be OK as well.
Good luck anyway.