That would depend very much on where you live, but here in the UK and most likely, in the USA and Canada, in most major cities, there are clubs, saunas, pubs, bars and events where transwomen and crossdressers are accepted or even welcomed. Anyone who appreciates us is more than welcome too.
Finding these places should be quite easy with local listings. No doubt if you said whereabouts you live someone here could direct you to such a venue.