Baztrachian
Ars est celare artem
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One of my recent stories was inspired by research I did on Ancestry.com on behalf of my first wife who was born in 1964, the youngest child of a big family.
Seems she had a lot of questions about her deceased mother's past and a lot of what her mom had talked about didn't add up.
So I went digging.
I found my former MIL's marriage certificate out of North Dakota and the date was six months before my MIL's oldest child was born.
I found a newspaper 'society' article from my MIL's hometown that announced her departure for college in the fall.
I found my deceased FIL's enlistment papers for WW2, his addresses in NYC, and then his approximate date of return to North Dakota.
He had kept his train tickets as mementos of his travels so we had them to refer to.
It didn't take a wizard to figure out he had met my MIL on the train and then something happened where she suddenly abandoned her college plans, lost contact with her family for about ten years, and started pumping out kids.
The point being that the actual facts about family can blow the shit out of the old family legends that so many people grow up with.
When I did my own journey of discovery I found out my father was adopted in 1923 and that my lineage was not at all the same as my father's adopted parents.
Lots of other bullshit I grew up hearing was revealed to be bullshit as I dug up actual facts.
No idea what my point is in sharing this. Just thought I'd share it.
Seems she had a lot of questions about her deceased mother's past and a lot of what her mom had talked about didn't add up.
So I went digging.
I found my former MIL's marriage certificate out of North Dakota and the date was six months before my MIL's oldest child was born.
I found a newspaper 'society' article from my MIL's hometown that announced her departure for college in the fall.
I found my deceased FIL's enlistment papers for WW2, his addresses in NYC, and then his approximate date of return to North Dakota.
He had kept his train tickets as mementos of his travels so we had them to refer to.
It didn't take a wizard to figure out he had met my MIL on the train and then something happened where she suddenly abandoned her college plans, lost contact with her family for about ten years, and started pumping out kids.
The point being that the actual facts about family can blow the shit out of the old family legends that so many people grow up with.
When I did my own journey of discovery I found out my father was adopted in 1923 and that my lineage was not at all the same as my father's adopted parents.
Lots of other bullshit I grew up hearing was revealed to be bullshit as I dug up actual facts.
No idea what my point is in sharing this. Just thought I'd share it.
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