Thanks all, I didn't write the question that was in my head very well, I'll try again lol
Particularly looking for stories about judges who order counselling, or lawyers who promote or resist divorce, or counsellors who mentor people going through separation, and what that experience dies to their perceptions.
Kinda like a surgeon going through a hospital admission say, and what that does to their approach to patients going forward.
( reading dig two graves BTW, that looks like a gripping story, thanks)