Still waiting for that special Gift.

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Santa didn’t deliver on the special someone I’ve been searching for.

The past couple of months here have left me puzzled. Are the ladies of Lit jaded due to past experiences with guys here, or are there just that few women on the site? Maybe I’m doing something wrong, but in all honesty I’m not sure how that’s possible given the short exchange of messages I’ve had with anyone. I feel the need to change up my profile one more time to attempt to influence a favorable outcome.

What I hope to find: A woman age 20-60, to exchange messages with. Nothing naughty from the get go, just a genuine “let’s talk and see if we connect “. I would really enjoy getting to know someone, and conversing just as we would with other friends. Fun stuff should be secondary. Just online only. Nothing in person.

I am married. Call it roommates or a more like friends situation. It is something that a lot of members here can identify with. I want someone to bring a smile, and a hint of excitement to things. I want us to vibe to the point that it’s more than a rush of dopamine.

I have had friends online before, a couple that hung around quite sometime, so I have a feel for how things go and understand that this should be fun, and that real life takes precedence.

I’m an average guy, I enjoy the outdoors and like to think I can carry on a fluid conversation. My interests vary greatly from sports to comics, to history. I don’t think we would have issue with finding some things in common.

Im not overbearing or off putting. I’m warm & unperturbed.

Trust me, my inbox has plenty of room if you would consider taking a chance to say hello. I hope we can talk soon!
 
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The term pleasant distraction is defined as this; “an enjoyable activity or distraction that provides a break from routine or seriousness”. That is exactly what I hope to discover.

I’m 48, with a very redundant lifestyle. As most men will echo I’ve had an affinity for beautiful women for most of my life. I was slow to learn that just because my desire was there, that doesn’t always secure an equal affection. I was the dork who tried too hard, came on a little too strong, or cast his net into the wrong water at the wrong time.

Eventually, I got married, and as many may relate, life had its challenges, leading to a sense of disappointment over time due to various reasons. The very place I thought would be my paradise, became almost like a prison.

Sometimes I just would like to feel I’ve hit the jackpot.

I’m still the same guy who is looking for the sweetheart next door. I would enjoy some pizzazz in my predicament. I hope you’re up for a friend, daily exchanges and a lil” bit of fun. Strictly out of transparency I want you to know that I really hope to be on the receiving end of some pics, and I enjoy voice ( when the opportunity allows). These things would only come when you are ready.

So reach out, send a message, and let’s see if we enjoy each other’s company!
👠🔥
 
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