midnightsignal
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- Oct 30, 2025
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Santa didn’t deliver on the special someone I’ve been searching for.
The past couple of months here have left me puzzled. Are the ladies of Lit jaded due to past experiences with guys here, or are there just that few women on the site? Maybe I’m doing something wrong, but in all honesty I’m not sure how that’s possible given the short exchange of messages I’ve had with anyone. I feel the need to change up my profile one more time to attempt to influence a favorable outcome.
What I hope to find: A woman age 20-60, to exchange messages with. Nothing naughty from the get go, just a genuine “let’s talk and see if we connect “. I would really enjoy getting to know someone, and conversing just as we would with other friends. Fun stuff should be secondary. Just online only. Nothing in person.
I am married. Call it roommates or a more like friends situation. It is something that a lot of members here can identify with. I want someone to bring a smile, and a hint of excitement to things. I want us to vibe to the point that it’s more than a rush of dopamine.
I have had friends online before, a couple that hung around quite sometime, so I have a feel for how things go and understand that this should be fun, and that real life takes precedence.
I’m an average guy, I enjoy the outdoors and like to think I can carry on a fluid conversation. My interests vary greatly from sports to comics, to history. I don’t think we would have issue with finding some things in common.
Im not overbearing or off putting. I’m warm & unperturbed.
Trust me, my inbox has plenty of room if you would consider taking a chance to say hello. I hope we can talk soon!
The past couple of months here have left me puzzled. Are the ladies of Lit jaded due to past experiences with guys here, or are there just that few women on the site? Maybe I’m doing something wrong, but in all honesty I’m not sure how that’s possible given the short exchange of messages I’ve had with anyone. I feel the need to change up my profile one more time to attempt to influence a favorable outcome.
What I hope to find: A woman age 20-60, to exchange messages with. Nothing naughty from the get go, just a genuine “let’s talk and see if we connect “. I would really enjoy getting to know someone, and conversing just as we would with other friends. Fun stuff should be secondary. Just online only. Nothing in person.
I am married. Call it roommates or a more like friends situation. It is something that a lot of members here can identify with. I want someone to bring a smile, and a hint of excitement to things. I want us to vibe to the point that it’s more than a rush of dopamine.
I have had friends online before, a couple that hung around quite sometime, so I have a feel for how things go and understand that this should be fun, and that real life takes precedence.
I’m an average guy, I enjoy the outdoors and like to think I can carry on a fluid conversation. My interests vary greatly from sports to comics, to history. I don’t think we would have issue with finding some things in common.
Im not overbearing or off putting. I’m warm & unperturbed.
Trust me, my inbox has plenty of room if you would consider taking a chance to say hello. I hope we can talk soon!
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