I'm on the older side, married, dominant and experienced. I am seeking a submissive woman for an ongoing D/s relationship, hopefully of indefinite length measured possibly in years. I do not omit anyone from consideration, but I admit my preference is for someone well-educated with a career in business, academia, the arts, government or the non-profit world. Marital status does not matter, though if, like me, you are married to a vanilla or asexual spouse, that is one more aspect that can help establish a connection. Your age isn't that important, though I prefer someone older than 25. Literacy and imagination are important traits to possess, and I want to know you as someone other than a sub, for us communicate at times as "normal" people, long distance lovers finding release with the complementary psyche of the other, all without intruding on our respective real life marriages or relationships (if you are in one). Basically, it's about recreation, release and respect.