still seeing that hot pathological liar

[henry0reilly]

not only still seeing her but wrote her a poem. It's not all that great as poetry. She wants me to try to track down her birth certificate for her. I strongly suspect it's an invented name, perhaps in an attempt to get a false ID. She seems to think that maybe the woman she has been calling mother all these years may in fact, be her Grandmother. Anyone reading this from near Tunica, Mississippi, please email me direct, henryreilly@netscape.net



I steal a line from the immortal bard,
Would not a rose, by any other name smell as sweet?
My Sugar isn’t even sure what her name is,
Sally Jean, Helen May, Sills, Mills, Jones,
Who cares? Not I.
I love to bury my face in her hair pie.
And when her screams of ecstasy subside,
I slide my manhood gently inside,
I ride her ‘til she screams again,
And we both explode in a flurry of passion.

2218 31Jan03


As I said, not all that great a poem but there it is. She finally got me to say that I loved her by not putting out tonight. Go figure.

Henry

 

[watergirl]

sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

y'know, you're gonna be hearing a lot of "told you so's," in a whle... I give it a few weeks, but I'm an optimist.

good luck with all that.. really.

 

[SexyChele]

Man, this woman is playing you like a finely strung instrument.

But then, you did come on here asking us advice, so evidently you chose to ignore it.

You are making your own bed, I hope you enjoy lying in it.

 

[TouChMeHeRE]

*cracks whip*

 

[LongWalkHome]

O Henry?

Went back and read your original thread and this one. Seems like the majority gave you good advice and though I can appreciate the longing of the flesh as much as the next male...

"Don't let your ten inches seeking pleasure send you down ten years of pain, unless you're a masochist!"

You're doing no good to either party and setting up a dangerous pattern as well.

My humble opinion Henry, cause you asked.

Ultimately you're responsible for your own actions and feelings despite the best advice given...

 

[sheath]

She finally got me to say that I loved her by not putting out tonight. Go figure.

Henry

Yeah, go figure...

These last few lines speak volumes. You are both playing each other. What good does that do? It seems to me that if she is a pathological liar, you cannot truly know her, so how can you truly love her? And saying those words simply because she didn't "put out" does something really horrible: it cheapens those words, the next time you say them to a woman who really deserves to hear them from you.

Henry, everybody has to grow up sometime, and now is the time. Get out of there before you wind up bringing a child into the equation. Get out of there before you get hurt. And most importantly, get out of there while you can still preserve your self-respect.

S.

 

[peachykeen]

Is this for real?

If it is, duuuuuuuuude. You need to get yourself together, man.




If not, brilliant satire, then.

 

[Lust Engine]

Re: Re: still seeing that hot pathological liar

Yeah, go figure...

These last few lines speak volumes. You are both playing each other. What good does that do? It seems to me that if she is a pathological liar, you cannot truly know her, so how can you truly love her? And saying those words simply because she didn't "put out" does something really horrible: it cheapens those words, the next time you say them to a woman who really deserves to hear them from you.

Henry, everybody has to grow up sometime, and now is the time. Get out of there before you wind up bringing a child into the equation. Get out of there before you get hurt. And most importantly, get out of there while you can still preserve your self-respect.

S.

As usual I'm in total agreement with sheath here. Your self respect is going down the shitter if you continue this stupidity. Years later, if not days- you're gonna look back and realize how much time you wasted here with this woman. You'll be kicking yourslef that much harder the longer you're involved in this cheap charade.

 

[Cakegirl]

I know you. I've met you 100 times during my life: men and women who get together with someone who they *know* is wrong for them, and then end up staying together for a long time because it's what they know. And when the relationship comes to its inevitable end, they're left with a skewiff view of the world, convinced that "all women are manipulative bitches" or "all men are bastards", claiming to be hard-done-by or wronged by the world, even though that's what they *chose*, despite (usually) everyone around them telling them from the start "don't go there".
Get out of the relationship, or just accept it when it all goes to hell that it was you're free will that got you there.
~Cakegirl

 

[henry0reilly]

Is this for real?

Get out of the relationship, or just accept it when it all goes to hell that it was you're free will that got you there.

Ultimately you're responsible for your own actions and feelings despite the best advice given...

Get out of there before you wind up bringing a child into the equation. Get out of there before you get hurt. And most importantly, get out of there while you can still preserve your self-respect.

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Yes, this is for real. I learned long ago that I am responsible for my own actions, especially the stupid ones. Her tubes are tied, I paid for an abortion once and have not, to the best of my knowledge, fornicated with a fertile woman since then. If I had any self-respect I wouldn't have gotten into this is the first place.

 

[entitled]

It's about damned time you went out and got yourself a little self-respect, then. And coming from someone who's been there that's saying something.

Now get off your ass, find yourself something decent, and quit pulling the bullshit games that are only going to drag you deeper into the dirt.

 

[Lust Engine]

If I had any self-respect I wouldn't have gotten into this is the first place.

Well, it's high fucking time you do get some self respect and starting RIGHT NOW wouldn't be a bad start. It's not like we're inherently born with it but we all possess it. You've just got to have the courage to call it forth & use it... so do it.

You make it seem so hard to do but it really isn't. I agree completely with Entitled... you're playing stupid bullshit games by doing this.

 

[sheath]

Yes, this is for real. I learned long ago that I am responsible for my own actions, especially the stupid ones. Her tubes are tied, I paid for an abortion once and have not, to the best of my knowledge, fornicated with a fertile woman since then. If I had any self-respect I wouldn't have gotten into this is the first place.

Saying that you have no self-respect might be true. But it is also a convenient smoke-screen of denial. If you are claiming that the "reason" you got into this was lack of self-respect, then you are taking that responsibility for those actions and blaming them on something no one can attack. That is a very good way to avoid owning up to the things you do. A convenient protection.

It goes like this: "Yeah, I'm responsible for this, but what do you expect? Somewhere along the way, this happened, that happened, and as a result, I have no self-respect, so acting like a child or being a jerk is to be expected."

Is that harsh? Good. It should be. It's time somebody slapped you upside the head and informed you that yes, you are expected to act a certain way in the real world. Losing self-respect because of this reason or that reason is NOT an excuse to get yourself into one bad situation after another.

You know, I like to consider myself a compassionate woman, and so I actually feel guilty for writing this to you, can you believe that shit? I'm sorry that I don't have any sympathy for your position. But I know how easy it is to fall into the pity trap and to blame your problems on absolutely ANYTHING but yourself.

It is great to be able to look at yourself in the mirror in the morning. It is sad to have to blame your actions on something else to get to that point.

S.

 

[SexyChele]

Methinks some one is jerking our collective chain on this one.

Not worth my time, not sure about the rest of you....

 

[henry0reilly]

chain jerking

Methinks some one is jerking our collective chain on this one.

Not worth my time, not sure about the rest of you....SexyChele

Yanking your chains? That would be a yes and a no, every word I have posted is the truth (except I changed the names in the lousy poem I wrote for her). Did I plan on following any of the advice? Probably not, but I couldn't very well tell anyone who knows me how incredibly foolish I am being with this woman. I am afflicted with what I call the "Knight in Shiny Armor Syndrome" when I meet a woman that appears in need of being rescued I hop on my charger and proceed to use my 8" lance and a little TLC to convince her that not all men are jerks. This plan has consistently failed to find me a suitable life partner, and yet I repeat the same mistake again with this one. I am certainly grateful to everyone who posted replies confirming my better judgment, unfortunately I can't even listen to myself.

Here is a poem I wrote at the beginning of a previously failed rescue attempt. The Amazon in question fell in love with me. I tell myself that I would not have proceeded if I had understood that the "old man" she said was in prison was not her husband, but a boyfriend of short duration. I thought she was just looking for some friendly exercise while her husband was unavailable. At one point I had to call 911 on her because she attempted to get me to come to her house by saying she had cut her arm open and then hung up. When police arrived she was in the shower with only a small cut near her wrist, presumably expecting me to arrive on my charger post haste.

Watering Hole

The Amazon lets loose her siren call,
ANYCOCK'LL DO!!
The males fidget nervously.
One of them approaches,
"Really?" he asks.
ANYCOCK'LL DO!! she repeats.
What else do you want?
Nothing, SHE LIES.
The other males snicker and elbow each other.
Suddenly the one realizes his danger,
Too late! She has him in a bear hug.
Later in her den, one of her offspring tries to interfere,
He opens the can of worms anyway.

10 Aug 2000

Note the "can of worms" in the last line. This type of woman is like flame to a moth for me. My apologies to anyone who feels they wasted their time giving advice in a lost cause.

Henry

 

[Lust Engine]

Re: chain jerking

Did I plan on following any of the advice? Probably not, but I couldn't very well tell anyone who knows me how incredibly foolish I am being with this woman. I am afflicted with what I call the "Knight in Shiny Armor Syndrome" when I meet a woman that appears in need of being rescued I hop on my charger and proceed to use my 8" lance and a little TLC to convince her that not all men are jerks. This plan has consistently failed to find me a suitable life partner, and yet I repeat the same mistake again with this one. I am certainly grateful to everyone who posted replies confirming my better judgment, unfortunately I can't even listen to myself.

At what point will you get off that stupid white steed & go off galloping to the rescue of fair maidens? She was trouble to begin with; you showing up didn't change her or the situation. You're NOT going to change her but instead you're looking to her for some reason to validate your existence. Stop looking to other people and their troubles to make yourself feel some sense of importance in this world. It absolutely diminishes what you are.

You don't even have enough of a fucking back bone here to bail yourself out. I'm hardly one to be this harsh on the boards here but if you don't want to take any shred of our advice, then you'll be your own victim. If you don't want to grow a spine & stand up for yourself then I guess nothing anyone here or anyone who cares for you matters. You'll spin hopelessly into oblivion with this person but that'll be by your choice. You're being self indulgent & selfish. You refuse to take responsibility for your own actions and yet you have this plaintive cry for help here.

I pity you & have offered my advice to help but not to the point that you're willing to do with this woman of yours.

 

[peachykeen]

timewaster.

energy suck.


Take responsibility for yourelf and shut the fuck up, whiner.



last time I open this thread, that's for sure.

 

[entitled]

HOW old are you claiming to be? It's simply pathetic when my toddlers take more responsibility for their actions than somebody that's old enough to do more than piss out of their penis.

Deal with it.

 

[English Lady]

Getting angry at someone for not taking your advice is not awfully constrctive in my mind.

We offer advice all the time and its not often followed,it is after all only advice. We cannot make another persons decisions for them.

We may disagree entirely with what they eventually decide to do but who are we to judge?

Henry, you know this relationship is bad for you, but yet you actively decide to carry on. Why do you want to be broken hearted?

You do the same thing over and over again, you pick these manipulitive types for a reason,its not coincidence.

You need to get some confidence in yourself, from yourself and not rely on the adoration of a damsel in distress to boost your confidence.

But as i have said, this is only my point of view and my advice, its your life mate, live it as you like!

 

[Noor]

Her tubes are tied, I paid for an abortion once and have not, to the best of my knowledge, fornicated with a fertile woman since then. If I had any self-respect I wouldn't have gotten into this is the first place. [/B]

If she is a pathological liar, how do you know her tubes are tied? I would use condoms, you can see them, or get yourself fixed, it is the only way to know for sure.

The problem with real pathological liars is that they seem to have no control over it, there is no agenda , nothing , lies just come out of their mouth.

One of her names wouldn't be Abigal, would it? just curious.