Still looking to discover myself with someone I can trust...

[GossamerLust]

Something you may or may not notice upon entering this thread is my lack of previous posts on Lit. I've been lurking the personals thread for awhile, hoping that one day I'll see the perfect thread that outlines exactly what I'd want in a person, but to be honest I'm not even sure what that is. I'll try to explain it here to the best of my ability.

First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now. Secondly, I need you to be 50 and under, while I'm attracted to older guys, I can only go so old before I feel like I'm talking to a father figure. I also am not simply looking for a boyfriend, or anything of the like, so whatever age or gender you are if you want to have a decent conversation feel free to drop me a PM, I just feel I should state my boundaries for intimacy.

What I'm looking for is someone who I can discover myself sexually with. I keep finding myself thinking in my head that I want a good fuck, logging on tinder on my iPhone, and quickly realizing screwing some random dude is just going to end up with me feeling like crap and probably having a completely unsatisfying experience. While I'm a completely open person sexually, I get very shy in person and I feel like I don't know enough about myself to really know how to get out of my shell. Obviously I'm getting a little far ahead of myself with the in person talk, seeing as we're on an Internet forum, but ultimately it would be nice to develop a bond with someone and engage in everything we will have talked about online in person.

Alright, so I feel like my rambling has sort of gotten me somewhere. I think it's about time I tell you the basics about myself, because I want to be talking to people who are attracted to me. Call me a narcissist but one thing I know turns me on to no end is being with a man who is hopelessly infatuated by me. Of course, I don't expect that from a bland wall of text describing myself, but we have to start somewhere.

Appearance:
I'm about 5'6" give or take an inch, and I'm extremely attracted to males taller than me. You don't have to be a giant, but I can tell you I'll probably lose interest if you're shorter than me. (Yes it's shallow.)
I have blue eyes that sometimes appear gray or green.
My hair is currently dyed purple and quite long.
I have smallish breasts (B cups?), a small waist, and a biggish butt for my size.
If you're into a huge rack I probably won't be your type, and I definitely sympathize, boobs are awesome.

Personality:
Hopefully you can get a glimpse into my personality from the tone in which this is written, but I'm a pretty to the point kind of person. I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 21 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet, so who am I to tell you. But, I'm definitely not outdoorsy. I'm a bit of an introvert, but I'm a social introvert. (what?) Mainly, I really am not a fan of a ton of stimulation (don't take that sexually at all, I mean mentally) so I stay indoors a lot and do things like play video games and talk to people on Skype. Not to say I don't love going out and being social, but it's the kind of thing that I'm completely satisfied with doing once a week, for example. I'm also allergic to seafood, I don't know why that is a defining mention for my personality, but I figure I should get it out here.

I figure you can learn a lot about my personality once we start conversing, please don't send me a half assed PM, I spent a decent chunk of time writing this and I'm probably only going to respond to people who catch my attention in some way. (That is to say, not PM's that are 1-2 sentences asking to cyber on some messenger or the other) Anyway, sorry if this was a huge wall of text and you can have a cookie if you got this far .

Edit: since it was asked, I'm from the United States .

 

[Porkwarrior]

You forgot to include a location in your half arsed wall of text.

 

[GossamerLust]

You forgot to include a location in your half arsed wall of text.

That was intentional... no need to be rude.

 

[KinkyBoyUK]

That was intentional... no need to be rude.

Forgive the intrusion, but the reason he may have asked over the location can be two fold. Firstly if you are continents away it does get in the way of any possible real life meet ups. (Which can be in some situations be good or bad). Secondly different time zones can get in the way of online conversations if you are both never online at the same time.

Separately I'm a bit confused over your age as you start off saying "First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now" but then later say "I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 19 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet".

 

[barefootgirl69]

Something you may or may not notice upon entering this thread is my lack of previous posts on Lit. I've been lurking the personals thread for awhile, hoping that one day I'll see the perfect thread that outlines exactly what I'd want in a person, but to be honest I'm not even sure what that is. I'll try to explain it here to the best of my ability.

First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now. Secondly, I need you to be 50 and under, while I'm attracted to older guys, I can only go so old before I feel like I'm talking to a father figure. I also am not simply looking for a boyfriend, or anything of the like, so whatever age or gender you are if you want to have a decent conversation feel free to drop me a PM, I just feel I should state my boundaries for intimacy.

What I'm looking for is someone who I can discover myself sexually with. I keep finding myself thinking in my head that I want a good fuck, logging on tinder on my iPhone, and quickly realizing screwing some random dude is just going to end up with me feeling like crap and probably having a completely unsatisfying experience. While I'm a completely open person sexually, I get very shy in person and I feel like I don't know enough about myself to really know how to get out of my shell. Obviously I'm getting a little far ahead of myself with the in person talk, seeing as we're on an Internet forum, but ultimately it would be nice to develop a bond with someone and engage in everything we will have talked about online in person.

Alright, so I feel like my rambling has sort of gotten me somewhere. I think it's about time I tell you the basics about myself, because I want to be talking to people who are attracted to me. Call me a narcissist but one thing I know turns me on to no end is being with a man who is hopelessly infatuated by me. Of course, I don't expect that from a bland wall of text describing myself, but we have to start somewhere.

Appearance:
I'm about 5'6" give or take an inch, and I'm extremely attracted to males taller than me. You don't have to be a giant, but I can tell you I'll probably lose interest if you're shorter than me. (Yes it's shallow.)
I have blue eyes that sometimes appear gray or green.
My hair is currently dyed purple and quite long.
I have smallish breasts (B cups?), a small waist, and a biggish butt for my size.
If you're into a huge rack I probably won't be your type, and I definitely sympathize, boobs are awesome.

Personality:
Hopefully you can get a glimpse into my personality from the tone in which this is written, but I'm a pretty to the point kind of person. I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 19 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet, so who am I to tell you. But, I'm definitely not outdoorsy. I'm a bit of an introvert, but I'm a social introvert. (what?) Mainly, I really am not a fan of a ton of stimulation (don't take that sexually at all, I mean mentally) so I stay indoors a lot and do things like play video games and talk to people on Skype. Not to say I don't love going out and being social, but it's the kind of thing that I'm completely satisfied with doing once a week, for example. I'm also allergic to seafood, I don't know why that is a defining mention for my personality, but I figure I should get it out here.

I figure you can learn a lot about my personality once we start conversing, please don't send me a half assed PM, I spent a decent chunk of time writing this and I'm probably only going to respond to people who catch my attention in some way. (That is to say, not PM's that are 1-2 sentences asking to cyber on some messenger or the other) Anyway, sorry if this was a huge wall of text and you can have a cookie if you got this far .

First you state you're 21, then you say 19... something sounds pretty strange....

 

[GossamerLust]

Forgive the intrusion, but the reason he may have asked over the location can be two fold. Firstly if you are continents away it does get in the way of any possible real life meet ups. (Which can be in some situations be good or bad). Secondly different time zones can get in the way of online conversations if you are both never online at the same time.

Separately I'm a bit confused over your age as you start off saying "First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now" but then later say "I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 19 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet".

Fair enough! I will include that I am in the United States in my main post, but don't have any intention of revealing further information until I know someone better.

To address your second confusion, that's my fault. If you look at my thread history you'll see I posted the same personal 2 years ago. I edited a few things to better fit myself now but I clearly missed one of the age bits.

 

[GossamerLust]

First you state you're 21, then you say 19... something sounds pretty strange....

Just addressed that in the post above! Editing/fixing it now.

 

[RuneBlade]

Yeah, good move. It'll be much less taxing on your soul to have those tinder experiences in your pm list here rather than your own bed. On the other hand, if you're looking to have some sex, and you're honest with yourself about that fact, then the easiest way is to find someone else looking for the same thing and have the sex.

You don't have to take home every jerk you meet on an online dating site.

 

[beingtrue2me]

Really none of my business......(like I've ever let that get in the way of a reply) but OP you're looking to find someone you can trust.......on a sex site? This dear is fantasy land. At best you will only see the parts of someone that they want you to see.

 

[RawHumor]

There are some decent guys on here... and you can chat men up a bit and see if you click before meeting up. Many people find crowds (or an abundance of social interaction) to be energy draining. You're not alone there.

If only you liked seafood.

 

[Manofsteel879]

Something you may or may not notice upon entering this thread is my lack of previous posts on Lit. I've been lurking the personals thread for awhile, hoping that one day I'll see the perfect thread that outlines exactly what I'd want in a person, but to be honest I'm not even sure what that is. I'll try to explain it here to the best of my ability.

First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now. Secondly, I need you to be 50 and under, while I'm attracted to older guys, I can only go so old before I feel like I'm talking to a father figure. I also am not simply looking for a boyfriend, or anything of the like, so whatever age or gender you are if you want to have a decent conversation feel free to drop me a PM, I just feel I should state my boundaries for intimacy.

What I'm looking for is someone who I can discover myself sexually with. I keep finding myself thinking in my head that I want a good fuck, logging on tinder on my iPhone, and quickly realizing screwing some random dude is just going to end up with me feeling like crap and probably having a completely unsatisfying experience. While I'm a completely open person sexually, I get very shy in person and I feel like I don't know enough about myself to really know how to get out of my shell. Obviously I'm getting a little far ahead of myself with the in person talk, seeing as we're on an Internet forum, but ultimately it would be nice to develop a bond with someone and engage in everything we will have talked about online in person.

Alright, so I feel like my rambling has sort of gotten me somewhere. I think it's about time I tell you the basics about myself, because I want to be talking to people who are attracted to me. Call me a narcissist but one thing I know turns me on to no end is being with a man who is hopelessly infatuated by me. Of course, I don't expect that from a bland wall of text describing myself, but we have to start somewhere.

Appearance:
I'm about 5'6" give or take an inch, and I'm extremely attracted to males taller than me. You don't have to be a giant, but I can tell you I'll probably lose interest if you're shorter than me. (Yes it's shallow.)
I have blue eyes that sometimes appear gray or green.
My hair is currently dyed purple and quite long.
I have smallish breasts (B cups?), a small waist, and a biggish butt for my size.
If you're into a huge rack I probably won't be your type, and I definitely sympathize, boobs are awesome.

Personality:
Hopefully you can get a glimpse into my personality from the tone in which this is written, but I'm a pretty to the point kind of person. I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 21 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet, so who am I to tell you. But, I'm definitely not outdoorsy. I'm a bit of an introvert, but I'm a social introvert. (what?) Mainly, I really am not a fan of a ton of stimulation (don't take that sexually at all, I mean mentally) so I stay indoors a lot and do things like play video games and talk to people on Skype. Not to say I don't love going out and being social, but it's the kind of thing that I'm completely satisfied with doing once a week, for example. I'm also allergic to seafood, I don't know why that is a defining mention for my personality, but I figure I should get it out here.

I figure you can learn a lot about my personality once we start conversing, please don't send me a half assed PM, I spent a decent chunk of time writing this and I'm probably only going to respond to people who catch my attention in some way. (That is to say, not PM's that are 1-2 sentences asking to cyber on some messenger or the other) Anyway, sorry if this was a huge wall of text and you can have a cookie if you got this far .

Edit: since it was asked, I'm from the United States .

Dont listen to some of these replies, about us guys. I know that I for one would love to talk with you... I'd be willing to take it however slow as you wanted, an earn your trust before we move into other topics that you wish to explore...I'll only strive to make you happy and comfortable... message me if you are interested, which I really hope you are, because your personality sounds amazing...

 

[cliteatingman]

Sent you a pm

Something you may or may not notice upon entering this thread is my lack of previous posts on Lit. I've been lurking the personals thread for awhile, hoping that one day I'll see the perfect thread that outlines exactly what I'd want in a person, but to be honest I'm not even sure what that is. I'll try to explain it here to the best of my ability.

First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now. Secondly, I need you to be 50 and under, while I'm attracted to older guys, I can only go so old before I feel like I'm talking to a father figure. I also am not simply looking for a boyfriend, or anything of the like, so whatever age or gender you are if you want to have a decent conversation feel free to drop me a PM, I just feel I should state my boundaries for intimacy.

What I'm looking for is someone who I can discover myself sexually with. I keep finding myself thinking in my head that I want a good fuck, logging on tinder on my iPhone, and quickly realizing screwing some random dude is just going to end up with me feeling like crap and probably having a completely unsatisfying experience. While I'm a completely open person sexually, I get very shy in person and I feel like I don't know enough about myself to really know how to get out of my shell. Obviously I'm getting a little far ahead of myself with the in person talk, seeing as we're on an Internet forum, but ultimately it would be nice to develop a bond with someone and engage in everything we will have talked about online in person.

Alright, so I feel like my rambling has sort of gotten me somewhere. I think it's about time I tell you the basics about myself, because I want to be talking to people who are attracted to me. Call me a narcissist but one thing I know turns me on to no end is being with a man who is hopelessly infatuated by me. Of course, I don't expect that from a bland wall of text describing myself, but we have to start somewhere.

Appearance:
I'm about 5'6" give or take an inch, and I'm extremely attracted to males taller than me. You don't have to be a giant, but I can tell you I'll probably lose interest if you're shorter than me. (Yes it's shallow.)
I have blue eyes that sometimes appear gray or green.
My hair is currently dyed purple and quite long.
I have smallish breasts (B cups?), a small waist, and a biggish butt for my size.
If you're into a huge rack I probably won't be your type, and I definitely sympathize, boobs are awesome.

Personality:
Hopefully you can get a glimpse into my personality from the tone in which this is written, but I'm a pretty to the point kind of person. I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 21 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet, so who am I to tell you. But, I'm definitely not outdoorsy. I'm a bit of an introvert, but I'm a social introvert. (what?) Mainly, I really am not a fan of a ton of stimulation (don't take that sexually at all, I mean mentally) so I stay indoors a lot and do things like play video games and talk to people on Skype. Not to say I don't love going out and being social, but it's the kind of thing that I'm completely satisfied with doing once a week, for example. I'm also allergic to seafood, I don't know why that is a defining mention for my personality, but I figure I should get it out here.

I figure you can learn a lot about my personality once we start conversing, please don't send me a half assed PM, I spent a decent chunk of time writing this and I'm probably only going to respond to people who catch my attention in some way. (That is to say, not PM's that are 1-2 sentences asking to cyber on some messenger or the other) Anyway, sorry if this was a huge wall of text and you can have a cookie if you got this far .

Edit: since it was asked, I'm from the United States .

 

[NoJo]

I'm too old for you -- actually that's not quite true. You're WAY to immature for me! However I have met in person with a few women here (usually initially in public places, or chaperoned of course) and met some nice people.

This place is good to meet people who feel that they have a sexual kink which is hard for people in their real life to understand.

I advise you to ignore those few desperate guys here who are locked into their fantasies, and check people's previous posts here. It will give you a very clear picture of just who they really are.

And to repeat, this is not, contrary to what some posters day, a terrible place to find people.


Lastly, I suggest NOT looking for a guy to become infatuated with you: Most guys can become infatuated really easily. But few of us can stick it more than a couple of weeks at the most, no matter how much of a Goddess we think you are when our dicks are in charge.

 

[GossamerLust]

I posted a personal with, yes, a vague idea of what I am looking for, but a pretty detailed description of myself. I'm sorry if you feel my post is wrong in some way but I respectfully ask those who are coming in to pick it a part to take a step back. I did not ask for proofreading .

 

[NoJo]

What I got from the post was that you like to post about yourself and that you want attention from a man. And your reason for looking for a man is to "discover yourself sexually". Which, again, is all You.


So basically a helluva lot of Ego there that needs continuous feeding.

There are people who might be into that, but I doubt if they'll do anything for you other than set you backwards on the road to happiness.

 

[GossamerLust]

What I got from the post was that you like to post about yourself and that you want attention from a man. And your reason for looking for a man is to "discover yourself sexually". Which, again, is all You.


So basically a helluva lot of Ego there that needs continuous feeding.

There are people who might be into that, but I doubt if they'll do anything for you other than set you backwards on the road to happiness.

"you like to post about yourself"
This forum is for personal ads, which is literally a personal advertisement of oneself. You're extremely condescending and I'd appreciate if you would post elsewhere, I completely understand if I am not what you're looking for but there's no reason to harass me as a result.

 

[CrossPT]

the only real question is ...
Do you prefer to play FPS or RTS ?
and allergic to seafood should be on the pros and cons....some people may be offended that you dont want to eat their butter dipped lobster.

 

[mathpro18]

I PMed you yesterday did you get it?

 

[KrescentWench]

KinkyBoyUK & BarefootGirl: The lady did say that she (and I quote) "spent a decent chunk of time writing this."

Now, maybe it's just me, but two years wending out that traipse through the wood of incertitude is what I would call a pretty decent chunk o' time! Though it probably would have taken me all of five minutes at her age, I do not recall ever being so young. (Looking back through the dark mists of time, seeing myself as a young tadpole at Toad Hall).

Forgive the intrusion, but the reason he may have asked over the location can be two fold. Firstly if you are continents away it does get in the way of any possible real life meet ups. (Which can be in some situations be good or bad). Secondly different time zones can get in the way of online conversations if you are both never online at the same time.

Separately I'm a bit confused over your age as you start off saying "First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now" but then later say "I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 19 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet".

barefootgirl69[/COLOR];81186576]First you state you're 21, then you say 19... something sounds pretty strange....

 

[GossamerLust]

KinkyBoyUK & BarefootGirl: The lady did say that she (and I quote) "spent a decent chunk of time writing this."

Now, maybe it's just me, but two years wending out that traipse through the wood of incertitude is what I would call a pretty decent chunk o' time! Though it probably would have taken me all of five minutes at her age, I do not recall ever being so young. (Looking back through the dark mists of time, seeing myself as a young tadpole at Toad Hall).

Oh wow! You're so much smarter and more mature than me . Thank you for taking the time to share that fact! I'm just here looking for some people to talk to, if you're going to be condescending please just leave. It's extremely frustrating and makes the website feel extremely unwelcoming.

 

[troubledone]

Something you may or may not notice upon entering this thread is my lack of previous posts on Lit. I've been lurking the personals thread for awhile, hoping that one day I'll see the perfect thread that outlines exactly what I'd want in a person, but to be honest I'm not even sure what that is. I'll try to explain it here to the best of my ability.

First and foremost, I'm 21. If that bothers you, you should leave now. Secondly, I need you to be 50 and under, while I'm attracted to older guys, I can only go so old before I feel like I'm talking to a father figure. I also am not simply looking for a boyfriend, or anything of the like, so whatever age or gender you are if you want to have a decent conversation feel free to drop me a PM, I just feel I should state my boundaries for intimacy.

What I'm looking for is someone who I can discover myself sexually with. I keep finding myself thinking in my head that I want a good fuck, logging on tinder on my iPhone, and quickly realizing screwing some random dude is just going to end up with me feeling like crap and probably having a completely unsatisfying experience. While I'm a completely open person sexually, I get very shy in person and I feel like I don't know enough about myself to really know how to get out of my shell. Obviously I'm getting a little far ahead of myself with the in person talk, seeing as we're on an Internet forum, but ultimately it would be nice to develop a bond with someone and engage in everything we will have talked about online in person.

Alright, so I feel like my rambling has sort of gotten me somewhere. I think it's about time I tell you the basics about myself, because I want to be talking to people who are attracted to me. Call me a narcissist but one thing I know turns me on to no end is being with a man who is hopelessly infatuated by me. Of course, I don't expect that from a bland wall of text describing myself, but we have to start somewhere.

Appearance:
I'm about 5'6" give or take an inch, and I'm extremely attracted to males taller than me. You don't have to be a giant, but I can tell you I'll probably lose interest if you're shorter than me. (Yes it's shallow.)
I have blue eyes that sometimes appear gray or green.
My hair is currently dyed purple and quite long.
I have smallish breasts (B cups?), a small waist, and a biggish butt for my size.
If you're into a huge rack I probably won't be your type, and I definitely sympathize, boobs are awesome.

Personality:
Hopefully you can get a glimpse into my personality from the tone in which this is written, but I'm a pretty to the point kind of person. I have a hard time explaining my personality because being the ripe age of 21 I really haven't truly discovered who I am yet, so who am I to tell you. But, I'm definitely not outdoorsy. I'm a bit of an introvert, but I'm a social introvert. (what?) Mainly, I really am not a fan of a ton of stimulation (don't take that sexually at all, I mean mentally) so I stay indoors a lot and do things like play video games and talk to people on Skype. Not to say I don't love going out and being social, but it's the kind of thing that I'm completely satisfied with doing once a week, for example. I'm also allergic to seafood, I don't know why that is a defining mention for my personality, but I figure I should get it out here.

I figure you can learn a lot about my personality once we start conversing, please don't send me a half assed PM, I spent a decent chunk of time writing this and I'm probably only going to respond to people who catch my attention in some way. (That is to say, not PM's that are 1-2 sentences asking to cyber on some messenger or the other) Anyway, sorry if this was a huge wall of text and you can have a cookie if you got this far .

Edit: since it was asked, I'm from the United States .

That is well written
I had to read it twice
Wish you good fuck in your search

 

[Jayw56]

oooh.. a cookie for getting that far. I'm in it for the chocolate chips.

I hope the search is working for you.

 

[KrescentWench]

Smarter; no. Ancient and immature, yeeeees! ;-) I'm just playing with you. I don't have a condescending bone in my body. If I did, you would be the second to know. I'm only a troll in looks! I promise! You have a lovely name, Gossamer, don't be frustrated and torn when people play with you! Be the diaphanous silk spun by spiders -- strong and beautiful. And take a moment to flex and roll with the adventures, as you search for your goals. It will make the path a lot less strewn with sharp pebbles. And you might catch a few friends along the way.

Oh wow! You're so much smarter and more mature than me . Thank you for taking the time to share that fact! I'm just here looking for some people to talk to, if you're going to be condescending please just leave. It's extremely frustrating and makes the website feel extremely unwelcoming.

 

[GossamerLust]

Still looking!

 

[cliteatingman]

Still looking!

Hit there