Stay Hard!

[Eastman2007]

I'm seeking help and suggestions from both men and women...

First let me start off by saying that I do not have problems getting hard, but there are those special nights when a man wants to go all night, literally...and then the night after and even the night after that. So here's my question for you guys--

Men...do you take or have you ever taken any pills to help with your erection and stamina? What was the name and would you recommend it? I'm not willing to take viagra or anything as strong since I do not have erectile dysfunction, nor do I want or need anything that will require me seeing a doctor. Just an over the counter pill which will give that extra boost when it matters. Any suggestions? Any special websites I should check out? any products which stand out?

Ladies, have your partner ever taken a such a pill? Care to give feedback on it?

Any tips and suggestions will be appreciated. Thanks.

 

[emraoz]

Watch porn after the first coming, getting it back up after the first time is the hardest, after that, just a bit of stimulation after doing it gets it back up no problem.

 

[Mr.G]

Pills

I take L-ARGININE, MACA and GINSENG. They provide the body with the ingredients needed for erections and sustained erections. As we age the chemicals necessary for erections becomes fairly rare in the body so it doesn't hurt to use those supplements.

L-Arginine breaks down into nitrous oxide by the bod and that is needed to relax the muscles limiting the arterial blood flow to vaso-congestive sacs along the penile shaft that fill with pressurized blood and produce the erection.

Maca and Ginseng are other compounds that help in the process.

As long as the chemicals needed are present there shouldn't be an issue with getting an erection but what many don't realize is the very complex series of cerebral commands and protocols that have to be met in order for the process to even begin. Again as we age we get set in our ways. People who have been alone for years and are turned on by stuff in their head - fantasies or porn -written eroticism or videos - all that stuff becomes the norm. When they meet up with a REAL LIVE naked woman the "programming" that controls erections has to be rebooted a bit. Being mentally turned on takes a bit of communication most of the time but it is doable.

Women need to know that most of the turn on is between our ears but there has to be that inter-connect. We can be enormously turned on but the brain doesn't see it as reality. Kinda hard to describe but I think that is the biggest problem with ED in older males. If there's nitrous oxide around the erection should follow as long as the brain is turned on too and as most women know that is pretty damn easy to do. The big pharmas try and sell us pills to take care of this but the side effects can be bad. I prefer supplements and enough communication so my woman knows what will work when it comes to turning on my head first.

As per Erica's post and just a note and a warning re: the L-ARGININE - there does seem to be a vwery positive side effect of this compound. It relaxes the arteries and makes it very difficult for plaque to adhere to the arterial walls. Circulation improves along with a natural lowering of the blood pressure again due to the arterial relaxant effect.

The one statistical note that I did read was that post cardiac arrest - if you've already HAD a heart attack there is a slightly increased risk of heart attack by those taking L-Arginine.

Just so you don't have to read everything to get the pluses and the negative effects.

 

[SweetErika]

First let me start off by saying that I do not have problems getting hard, but there are those special nights when a man wants to go all night, literally...and then the night after and even the night after that.

The question is, does your partner want to have intercourse for hours on end and multiple nights in a row?

'Cause that sounds terribly painful and boring to me and a lot of other women, from what I've heard. Quality wins over quantity every single time.

My point: there's no sense in spending time and money on anything if this isn't something your partner wants.

Any suggestions? Any special websites I should check out? any products which stand out?

I'd strongly suggest trying things that are backed by research and approved by your doctor. Just because it's natural and OTC doesn't mean it's safe, won't interact with any other medications, or is likely to be effective. Don't waste your money on special "male/sexual enhancement" formulations, and make sure you do your own research, rather than taking what any given website that sells stuff as the gospel.

A few things you should probably look into are:
- Zinc (most men are deficient)
- Selenium
- Good hydration
- Arginine/L-Arginine (Read Me)

Articles like this one give a pretty good overview of what's considered safe and backed by research. Google things like 'natural supplements erectile dysfunction' (yes, I know you don't have ED) for more.

Be exceedingly careful with things like herbs and those that can screw with your blood pressure. Also recognize that a lot of supplement manufacturers use the lowest quality ingredients they can get away with to increase their profit margins. For instance, whereas the flower of one plant might have been studied and shown to be effective, a supplement manufacturer might use the leaves of that plant, which don't do anything. We even see this with something as simple as calcium - calcium citrate is absorbed fairly well, whereas calcium carbonate (which is what's in most vitamins and calcium supplements) is not.

 

[fire_breeze]

The question is, does your partner want to have intercourse for hours on end and multiple nights in a row?

'Cause that sounds terribly painful and boring to me and a lot of other women, from what I've heard. Quality wins over quantity every single time.

My point: there's no sense in spending time and money on anything if this isn't something your partner wants.


I'd strongly suggest trying things that are backed by research and approved by your doctor. Just because it's natural and OTC doesn't mean it's safe, won't interact with any other medications, or is likely to be effective. Don't waste your money on special "male/sexual enhancement" formulations, and make sure you do your own research, rather than taking what any given website that sells stuff as the gospel.

A few things you should probably look into are:
- Zinc (most men are deficient)
- Selenium
- Good hydration
- Arginine/L-Arginine (Read Me)

Articles like this one give a pretty good overview of what's considered safe and backed by research. Google things like 'natural supplements erectile dysfunction' (yes, I know you don't have ED) for more.

Be exceedingly careful with things like herbs and those that can screw with your blood pressure. Also recognize that a lot of supplement manufacturers use the lowest quality ingredients they can get away with to increase their profit margins. For instance, whereas the flower of one plant might have been studied and shown to be effective, a supplement manufacturer might use the leaves of that plant, which don't do anything. We even see this with something as simple as calcium - calcium citrate is absorbed fairly well, whereas calcium carbonate (which is what's in most vitamins and calcium supplements) is not.

I'd like to add on that if you're on any meds, herbal supplements can interfere with the normal workings of the medication, even completely messing it up. Do your homework as Erika suggested, and do it carefully.

 

[Eastman2007]

First off, I want to say thank you to everyone who responded, I really appreciate it.

Mr. G, thank you very much for the advice and education. I will definitely look into the supplements you mentioned.

Erika, thank you for your well thought-out and very informative response. I may have exaggerated a tab bit regarding the 'all night' thing. My partner has a very, very healthy sexual appetite and I know for sure she will want to enjoy our planned time together, if it can be prolonged. We have both been planning our time together and I just want to be sure that I am prepared to handle the task at hand. As for the hours upon hours of fun, not to worry, foreplay will definitely be added into the equation.

fire breeze, thanks for the advice, I'm not on any meds so I don't have to worry too much about that.

I guess I was originally looking for a wonder pill to help me out, but based on the responses here I'll look into the natural route. Thanks again guys.

 

[SweetErika]

I guess I was originally looking for a wonder pill to help me out, but based on the responses here I'll look into the natural route. Thanks again guys.

What kind of safe, effective "wonder pill" could you possibly get without seeing a doctor and getting a prescription?

If there was such a thing, I'm sure we all would have heard about it ad nauseum by now.

 

[Reba67]

I don't think you need to be hard for hours and hours for a love making session to continue for hours and hours. Most women wouldn't be interested in hours and hours of thrusting, so there's lots you can do that is pleasing to both partners. Part of the fun, I think, is to re-encourage "the little guy" to get back up again when he's gone a bit flaccid.