Starting role playing and dildo play

[Happyguy25]

I guess I have been using this site for most of my sexual advice. So far everyone ahs helped me deal with sexual issues in my closet, telling my longtime GF I had Bi fantasies, etc... So thanks to everyone who has helped me out.

I am continueing to explore my bisexual side. I started looking at dildo play on websites and want to try it. We have bought a cpl dildo's for me but only used it once. She said she enjoyed it and she was wet as hell but we haven't done it since. How do I hint to her I want her to take a more dominant bedroom role and play with the toys?

Also, My GF likes it when I talk dirty to her but it when I say it it seems so lame. I'm a pretty dynamic person in public with a very active personality but in the bedroom with her I can'y seem to get into it. Any ideas?

Thanks in advance for all the awesome advice.

 

[canadiancutie]

I guess I have been using this site for most of my sexual advice. So far everyone ahs helped me deal with sexual issues in my closet, telling my longtime GF I had Bi fantasies, etc... So thanks to everyone who has helped me out.

I am continueing to explore my bisexual side. I started looking at dildo play on websites and want to try it. We have bought a cpl dildo's for me but only used it once. She said she enjoyed it and she was wet as hell but we haven't done it since. How do I hint to her I want her to take a more dominant bedroom role and play with the toys?

Also, My GF likes it when I talk dirty to her but it when I say it it seems so lame. I'm a pretty dynamic person in public with a very active personality but in the bedroom with her I can'y seem to get into it. Any ideas?

Thanks in advance for all the awesome advice.

awww your screenname is so cute, I like you. Happy people are super. Sorry, I'm of little to no help, but good luck!!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Perhaps find a male sub/femdom story or two you like and show it to her, telling her how hot it made you feel, and why. It may be she just does not want to overstep boundaries she is unsure of, or is afraid she will stuff it up. As you will see in advice here repeatedly, communication is always a plus and necessary. Good luck with realising your fantasies.

Catalina