Starting out, need some help ...

[bella247]

Hello,

I've posted this thread almost a week ago and recieved many interesting offers in return. Thanks everyone who replyed and/or took the time to read it.

As life has it's turns and twists, I won't be able to access Literotica for the major part of the next two months, therefore PLEASE don't send any more PMs since I won't be able to read or answer them until the end of August.
Thanks for understanding.

I still decided to leave this thread on here in it's original form, if for nothing else, than as an encouragement for other's who might be having similar thoughts as me.

Well, have a great summer everyone!!!

Bella





Hello,

I am looking for someone to lead me slowly along the D/s path with patience and care. I have been looking into the matter for a while now through reading mainly but I also have to say that I have no experience at all. However, I think I do have submissive tendencies but I definitely can't get the help to explore them in real life, that's why I thought that starting out online might be a good and reasonable solution.

Please note: right now I am only interested in finding someone for an online relationship to learn more about the topic and experience my own reactions to it. I am not into humilation or any other extrems. So if you are looking for voyeurism via webcam or phone sex then please let's not waste eachother's time. For our both's sake.

As for personal information: I am a 22 year old caucasian female located outside of the US. If you have any questions, please feel free to PM me, if possible, since posting this is already enough for me and I have no intentions in bringing personal or intimate details to the public. Thank you.

Otherwise, in case my lack of experience and the above mentioned details didn't discourage you, any PMs are welcome and will be answered, one way or the other.

Thank you for taking the time to read this thread.

Bella

 

[Farblat_Ieem]

Howdy Bella

I want to say how attractive you're first post is. I"m sure you'll see lots of interest and wish you well in your exploration.

Most of all have fun!

 

[visionskate]

i wish i could help you but im a total newbie myself ..but i hope you do learn eventualy so maybe you could teach me lol

 

[welshman]

What do you envisage? have you found what you seek yet?

 

[bella247]

Getting started ...

A crucial question welshman, isn't it? ... If I knew the answer, I would have put it into the thread! lol

But I am just about to get the feeling that I eventually will find it out, sooner or later.

If I have learned one thing from this thread then it was the fact that it is worth trying and would like to take the opportunity to thank everyone who took the time to read my thread and especially those who replied.

I would also like to encourage people whose situation might resemble my own in some aspects not to be too shy or afraid to ask for some help. You will most likely get flooded, insulted, looked down on, freaked out and teased but will meet just as many interesting and great people to learn from as you decide to take those first, shaky steps on your own way. It is a great adventure of discovery right from the beginning, though anything but easy, but I think it IS worth trying and as long as you make sure to be safe it can be very enjoyable and also a lot of fun!

So stay hopeful and try to smile! It is infectious.

Bella

 

[dgnr8469]

Hello Bella. I just wanted to tell you that I throughly enjoyed reading your post. It takes a good deal of courage to not only admit your desires, but also want to explore them. For that I applaud you.

If you would like to chat sometime (about BDSM or anything else) feel free to contact me via PM, email, or instant messenger. My contact data is in my profile.

Best wishes...