Starter Strapon Suggestions needed

[Nantob]

Ok, my partner and I have recently decided that we would like to try and experement with strapons. We would however like one that would give her pleasure at the same time by also having space for connecting one on it's inside.

We would like a harness that can have both changed for different sizes depending on our moods, etc.

Anyone any suggestions?

I live in the UK so one from a UK store would be easier if possible.

 

[chun_gong]

There are endless options, as I am sure you have seen. Something to consider is the exact type of stimulation that she would enjoy...is she looking for clit stimulation, vaginal penetration, anal penetration...combination?

Harneses come in all shapes and sizes. If it floats your boat, there are some that have both vaginal and anal penetration holes/plugs for the female wearing it in addition to the dildo. Oh and there are many to choose from that are adjustable for different sized dildos - no worries there.

Because quality and comfort are important and can vary greatly, I would suggest finding a place that you can see their supply. (Have you thought about what you would like to spend?) There are several good online order companies in the UK...actually, their stuff is more appealing and ummm creative than what I have been able to find in the States. (speaking generally) But, not seeing something first can lead to a let-down.

This isn't much in the way of answers, just some things to think about... PM me if you are interested in some links. Good luck!

 

[FurryFury]

You might try this one if you want her to have insertion into her ass or cunt while she fucks your ass.

http://shop.theadulthub.com/catalog/product/1006/519338/female ultra harness 2000.aspx

We got it. The two plugs are removable which I like in case he wants to wear it for DP or even to feel it up his ass ALL day.

However, I would give you this word of caution. Do not expect everything to go perfectly the first time. Do not make the "success" of the strap on play be based on her climax for that matter, yours. Most women do NOT come from having their cunt's filled. I know I don't.

Just enjoy experimenting and GO SLOW, lubing the rectum well and opening it slowly. Just try to have fun with it, without too many expectations.

Hope this helps,

Fury

 

[Chicklet]

I'm a big fan of Tantus brand toys. You might want to look into them.

Here's one I found

and here's a neat price comparison page

 

[tNs]

I love it!!! Have played with em' and they are well worth it!!!

 

[Proudsubinatl]

Quality is the key

Thanks

 

[SubNebGuy]

we have this one: http://goodvibes.com/item--i-1-9-XX-0512--m-08_26.html
the Strap it to me 'kit'.

I'm not a size queen, but I was afraid the dong that comes with it was too big, but it's actually just perfect for me.

But anyhow, my wife says that this harness really hits her, to the point she can almost cum herself.

It may just be the way it sits on her, or how she's fucking me, but I figured I'd offer it up.

 

[Etoile]

I get asked this question a lot, so I wrote this guide: http://snipurl.com/straponadvice

 

[Nantob]

Thanks for the help so far everyone, I'm looking at the links now. (Sorry it's taken ages for a reply I've been away).

In answer to a previous question, we'd like it if she could have both anal and vaginal "stimulation" while she screws me but the ability to take the anal out for her at least would be a plus as it wouldn't be welcome all the time.

If anyone has any further suggestions please just say

Thanks so far tho

 

[Netzach]

I use this configuration

Aslan leather rubber jock harness
Nexus dildo by vixen

if you want to do an assplug with easy access with that you can because the jock style doesn't go over the crack.

 

[Etoile]

I prefer a two-strap style harness too, but you can use a plug with a single-strap harness too. Check out the butt-plug harness, first one on this page (and second one too, that's in nylon).

 

[AHHSBITCH]

Ive Onloy Ever Had The Experience Of A Plain Store Bought, Combination Leather Front And Nylon With A Cyber Skin.....i Have To Say, I Dont Think I Would Want Anything Other Than A Cyber Skin, It Just Feels More Realistic Than A Silicone One.....maybe Its Just Me?

 

[Netzach]

They feel GREAT but they trap bacteria like no one's business. I always put a rubber on mine and no one else uses it.

We use cyberskin for oral dildo worship - my boy refuses to suck silicone and he's spoiled.

 

[AHHSBITCH]

YA i think with oral the closer to real life the better, deffinately. well, ill have to see about that, i mean we always used a condom and cleaned it afterwards. so you say you use a silicone? have you ever tried a "feeldoe" (im just hearing about this a couple days ago)

 

[Etoile]

YA i think with oral the closer to real life the better, deffinately. well, ill have to see about that, i mean we always used a condom and cleaned it afterwards. so you say you use a silicone? have you ever tried a "feeldoe" (im just hearing about this a couple days ago)

Look around both here and on the GLBT board for threads started by uptoplay2 - he is really into the Feeldoes, and you will find lots of info in his threads!

 

[au_man]

You might try this one if you want her to have insertion into her ass or cunt while she fucks your ass.

http://shop.theadulthub.com/catalog/product/1006/519338/female ultra harness 2000.aspx

We got it. The two plugs are removable which I like in case he wants to wear it for DP or even to feel it up his ass ALL day.

However, I would give you this word of caution. Do not expect everything to go perfectly the first time. Do not make the "success" of the strap on play be based on her climax for that matter, yours. Most women do NOT come from having their cunt's filled. I know I don't.

Just enjoy experimenting and GO SLOW, lubing the rectum well and opening it slowly. Just try to have fun with it, without too many expectations.

Hope this helps,

Fury

Great choice Fury.

Each woman is different I guess... My wife comes so fas and so often that she has begun wearing additional clothes to prolong our strap on sex to no avail.

She's O'd out long before she wants to stop...

Yes, rehashing posts from all the strap on threads...

 

[just a thing]

You might try this one if you want her to have insertion into her ass or cunt while she fucks your ass.

http://shop.theadulthub.com/catalog/product/1006/519338/female ultra harness 2000.aspx

We got it. The two plugs are removable which I like in case he wants to wear it for DP or even to feel it up his ass ALL day.

However, I would give you this word of caution. Do not expect everything to go perfectly the first time. Do not make the "success" of the strap on play be based on her climax for that matter, yours. Most women do NOT come from having their cunt's filled. I know I don't.

Just enjoy experimenting and GO SLOW, lubing the rectum well and opening it slowly. Just try to have fun with it, without too many expectations.

Hope this helps,

Fury

Now I'm going to have a picture of that lovely device in my head for the rest of the day.

 

[FurryFury]

Great choice Fury.

Each woman is different I guess... My wife comes so fas and so often that she has begun wearing additional clothes to prolong our strap on sex to no avail.

She's O'd out long before she wants to stop...

Yes, rehashing posts from all the strap on threads...

Wow! Thanks! I wish I had that same "problem" that your wife does!

LOL!

Fury

Now I'm going to have a picture of that lovely device in my head for the rest of the day.

*purrs* How lovely!

Fury

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Hi Nantob

If you're anywhere near London I'd just wander round Soho.

If you're not, wandering around Soho would make a great day trip for you and your wife. Even from Manchester London's only 3 hours on the train for a dirty overnight shopping spree

They have every conceivable toy and device - and every inconceivable one too!

Velvet

 

[27malefurladies]

Well now I am looking for an adult store with these products. Am in the area of South Bend Indiana anyone know of stores that aren't more than a days travel? Thanks

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

I'll post this in the other strap on thread as well, 27. In the IN, OH, MI area - and into NY- there is a major adult shop called The Lion's Den. In IN there are two stores, one in Hebron and one in Crothersville.

They offer a wide variety of buys, from dildos and videos to bondage gear and lubes, and everything in between. Just google "The Lion's Den" and click on the one that says 'adult'.

 

[27malefurladies]

I'll post this in the other strap on thread as well, 27. In the IN, OH, MI area - and into NY- there is a major adult shop called The Lion's Den. In IN there are two stores, one in Hebron and one in Crothersville.

They offer a wide variety of buys, from dildos and videos to bondage gear and lubes, and everything in between. Just google "The Lion's Den" and click on the one that says 'adult'.

I knew I could count on you Emma. Thank you

p.s. care to give me a tour of one of them.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

LOL, I forgot you were in MI. There's one in Sawyer, though I have no idea how near that is to you.

It's a lovely offer! I can certainly tell you what toys I have, but getting to you would be something I'd have to plan. And my plate is very full, LOL.

 

[Temptress_lee]

Wow maybe ordering one online is actually better. We have one porn shop in our town that I know of and I don't even remeber if they carry strap-ons,
much less ones that give the girl pleasure too.

 

[Etoile]

Oh yes absolutely, buying online is the best way to go. I recommend Babeland, Blowfish, or Good Vibrations.