Starter question.

[leeroy jenkins]

Just remember at one time or another anyone you meet in this lifestyle was in the same position as your in today. The other thing to remember is that we are all just trying to explore and find out what works or doesn't work for us individually.

 

[kittentamer]

LOL!

Those are not my particular goals but I totally understand wanting to make things happen sooner. Don't rush things, but stay open to the possibilities and I believe good things will come.

Fury

this is my prob. I want thing {NOW NOT LATER} lol,but it make things worse
I just have to slow down maybe i'll leaarn

 

[kastavall]

Personally i do not mind. I have waited 3 years just to get the spinners working and get into this. I can wait a year or two more to get my mistress. Long, lonely dull wait surely, but those who wait for someting good always wait in vain (No thats not right).

Basicely, Just forget the time. Continue with the boring work sleep eat eksistence and eventually you shall strike gold aye.

Right no more surfing for me my head is not working.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Personally i do not mind. I have waited 3 years just to get the spinners working and get into this. I can wait a year or two more to get my mistress. Long, lonely dull wait surely, but those who wait for someting good always wait in vain (No thats not right).

Basicely, Just forget the time. Continue with the boring work sleep eat eksistence and eventually you shall strike gold aye.

Right no more surfing for me my head is not working.

Kastaval your young so you should have many years to get started on the road, but becareful to not let to much time past. Its real easy to be older and look back with some regret about the years that you sorta wasted.

 

[kastavall]

You are offcourse correct. Wich is why i am going to the cafe with intro thingy in two weeks at the locales of the bdsm organisation of norway.

probably i am just gonna stand in a corner wondering what the hell i am doing there but it is a start right?.....

And it surely cannot be that hard to find a mistress willing to train a servant from the ground up. (here is for wishfull thinking).

Hmmmm gonna reek of smoke though. That is gonna keep them away. I gotta see and quit smokin already.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

You are offcourse correct. Wich is why i am going to the cafe with intro thingy in two weeks at the locales of the bdsm organisation of norway.

probably i am just gonna stand in a corner wondering what the hell i am doing there but it is a start right?.....

And it surely cannot be that hard to find a mistress willing to train a servant from the ground up. (here is for wishfull thinking).

Hmmmm gonna reek of smoke though. That is gonna keep them away. I gotta see and quit smokin already.

That is good news then. You know its ok to just sit there and not engage anyone in conversation. I am willing to bet that someone will come up to you and start a conversation just because you are new. As you go to more stuff people will see your interest in the lifestyle is real and that will help especially when you are seeking a mistress to serve. You might have to wait for your Mistress or maybe lighting will strike and you hit it off well with a Femdom and next thing you know your her slave and play toy.

 

[FurryFury]

this is my prob. I want thing {NOW NOT LATER} lol,but it make things worse
I just have to slow down maybe i'll leaarn

I totally understand!

Fury

 

[kastavall]

That is good news then. You know its ok to just sit there and not engage anyone in conversation. I am willing to bet that someone will come up to you and start a conversation just because you are new. As you go to more stuff people will see your interest in the lifestyle is real and that will help especially when you are seeking a mistress to serve. You might have to wait for your Mistress or maybe lighting will strike and you hit it off well with a Femdom and next thing you know your her slave and play toy.

Wonder how someone are gonna talk to me if i smell of cigarette smoke from 2 mile's away. Camel cigarettes arent known for beeing easy on the nose. And i smoke like a madman when nervous. And i am gonna be nervous

As for goin to more stuff. i need to sign up for that and for that i need money.
(Wonder if i can sit in the street with a cardboard sign reading "Help a submissive in need") hehe

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Wonder how someone are gonna talk to me if i smell of cigarette smoke from 2 mile's away. Camel cigarettes arent known for beeing easy on the nose. And i smoke like a madman when nervous. And i am gonna be nervous

As for goin to more stuff. i need to sign up for that and for that i need money.
(Wonder if i can sit in the street with a cardboard sign reading "Help a submissive in need") hehe

You could alway bring something to spray yourself with to help cover the smell on your cloths and some breath fresher for the other. Everybody was a newbie at sometime, I know I still am. Just take a deep breath and don't worry about it, I mean what is the worse that could happen?? You make a fool of yourself, I am sure you wouldn't be the first to do that.

Money is always an issue, to many wants and desire for what you make. If you like it enough then you will find a way to make it work.

 

[caela]

... Long, lonely dull wait surely...

It doesn't have to be. Just because you don't have a personal Mistress doesn't mean you won't meet those that will become friends and that you might perhaps be able to play with from time to time without having to be collared to them.

Granted casual play isn't for everyone but I've found it fairly liberating as a means of discovery about myself and a way of enjoying friends on a whole new level.

 

[Lady_In_Black]

Don't worry about the nerd thing, I'm very much into SW, computers, and have a fixation with LEDs that borders on a fetish (I found a LED lit corset and had to restrain myself from grabbing my purse).

I'm looking for a slave, and finding some one that could drag to a conventions, or work on computers with, do role play with, is something I would absolutely love! They are still normal people, and I am sure you could find some one with similar interests.