Start a sadistic converstaion

[medman]

How do I start a Sadistic converstion online with a sub

 

[twysted73]

By learning her tastes in sadism. Learn her desires and interests. The more you know of her, the better you will be in meeting her deeper desires. If you're going to bring a fantasy of hers to life, it would be good to have as much knowladge of what she likes before you start. As with almost anything D/s related, it's all about the communication. Nes pas?

 

[medman]

Interested

OK I has been a challenge...she like big trucks, rifles and collars...she is looking for a 24/7 relatioonship, he parent were in the lifestyle and so was she with 2 masters...one long term and the other short

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[BiBunny]

If you need this much hand holding, you aren't ready to have "sadistic conversations" with a woman.

Seriously.

 

[Homburg]

If you need this much hand holding, you aren't ready to have "sadistic conversations" with a woman.

Ayup, CutieMouse speaks with Wise Wisdom.

 

[FurryFury]

Ayup, CutieMouse speaks with Wise Wisdom.

Indeed it is so.

I think the conversation might start something like this:

"So, I'd like to find out what your limits are . . ."

Cause really, you need to know that shit and the person before you do this sort of thing.

OTOH, if you want to come off like a HNG Asshat, it could start off something like this.

"You sniveling worm, you worthless cunt, kneel before ME THE MOST sadistic MASTER BLASTER on this planet."

LMFAO.

 

[Marquis]

OK I has been a challenge...she like big trucks, rifles and collars...she is looking for a 24/7 relatioonship, he parent were in the lifestyle and so was she with 2 masters...one long term and the other short

Dude, I will totally be your Cyrano.

Just tell me what she's saying and I'll tell you what to say.

Let's do this!

 

[DeservingBitch]

Dude, I will totally be your Cyrano.

Just tell me what she's saying and I'll tell you what to say.

Let's do this!

Haha. Cyrano was one of my favorite play when I was a kid. I always loved his pain-tainted arrogance. Now, you're giving it a SM flavor... hmmm... l like it.

 

[midwestyankee]

Dude, I will totally be your Cyrano.

Just tell me what she's saying and I'll tell you what to say.

Let's do this!

A la fin de l'envoi, je touche.



Perfect.

 

[intothewoods]

Dude, I will totally be your Cyrano.

Just tell me what she's saying and I'll tell you what to say.

Let's do this!

Lol. Wow, and they say it's hard to make friends here!

 

[Netzach]

Is this a sadisitic conversation?

 

[Homburg]

Dude, I will totally be your Cyrano.

Just tell me what she's saying and I'll tell you what to say.

Let's do this!

More TOV

 

[myinnerslut]

Is this a sadisitic conversation?

i think so

 

[twysted73]

Dude, I will totally be your Cyrano.

Just tell me what she's saying and I'll tell you what to say.

Let's do this!

Not to hijack since it seems to be an evil thing to do here, but I must digress a moment and say to you my fellow Floridian, that I enjoy your zest and zeal (not to mention humor) for Sadism. Hats off to you.

 

[medman]

Merci

I will take up your offer. Boy it is hard forum to become part of...

Dude, I will totally be your Cyrano.

Just tell me what she's saying and I'll tell you what to say.

Let's do this!

 

[medman]

Thoughts

If we want bdsm and the lifestyle to grow and become more acceptable by socaiety in general, we have to educate and mentor...My hat off to Cyrano for stepping up and helping me, I am interested and not hard core yet, but I know where my path is and all help is welcome......

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[JMohegan]

How do I start a Sadistic converstion online with a sub

I'll be honest with you here. No sarcasm, no foolin' around - my candid response is to say that I have no fucking idea.

How you get to know an electronic persona, well enough to understand what would inspire fear, angst, or genuine discomfort with just words on a screen, is beyond me. I don't know, and to be honest I really don't care.

The only thing I can say with any measure of confidence is that one critical element for success with sadism in general is arousal or satisfaction on the part of the Top.

Meaning: if you get off on the idea of inspiring fear, pain, or confusion, then pay close attention and figure out what triggers those responses in your partner.

If you don't get off on the idea of inspiring those reactions, then my advice would be to pick another way to interact with women, 'cause I honestly don't see this one working out over the long haul.



ETA: Apologies for the heterocentric language. Please substitute "men," or whatever works, for "women" in that last sentence, if necessary.

 

[Etoile]

Oh great, now Marquis is going to expect us to call him Cyrano...

 

[twysted73]

If we want bdsm and the lifestyle to grow and become more acceptable by socaiety in general, we have to educate and mentor...My hat off to Cyrano for stepping up and helping me, I am interested and not hard core yet, but I know where my path is and all help is welcome......

*feels a lil like chopped liver*

Danke mein herr.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I do not mean to question or disregard your desire to learn; I take issue with your methodology.

Cutie, you crack me up everytime. I really dig your style.

Oh - and to the OP: what she said.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Homburg]

If we want bdsm and the lifestyle to grow and become more acceptable by socaiety in general, we have to educate and mentor......

I disagree. All we have to do is wait. Given how mores change and slide, our day will come. And before it comes, it will be on its' knees and begging for permission.

 

[Marquis]

I appreciate the compliments guys but you're all making this way more complicated than it is.

Listen my good Christian, first you have to get her to agree to meet you for an online conversation at a specific time. If she isn't ready to do that we've got nada to work with, so I'm assuming she will. Then you show up 5 minutes after the agreed time and say:

You: There you are, I stepped away because I got tired of waiting.

and she'll say,

Her: Ummmm, I'm sorry, I was here at the time we agreed.

You: Nonsense. You were about five minutes late by my watch and I am a man of punctuality and I must admit I don't like to be corrected. I'm sure you don't want it to be a problem for us, so perhaps you'll agree to some simple corrective behavior upon this offense.

Her: Like what?

You: That will depend entirely on my mood and the amount of correction needed. You are, of course, always free to refuse this opportunity to show your respect.

Her: OK, I guess.

Then you change the subject, wait until the vanilla conversation is going well and then bait her into disagreeing with you. Say something preposterous you know she will contradict. Then you say,

You: I see. Well I'm so glad we discussed how to handle this earlier, so you won't think it strange that I would like you to hold your thighs together and place an ice cube from the freezer between them. I'll wait.

You should be good for a while after that, excuse yourself before she becomes bored and report back in the morning.