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ignorant_insomn

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Well here we go again. I am a 22 year old Dom living in Oregon, and apparently looking for subs "in all the wrong places", to quote another thread. I suppose I am a bit of an outsider, I have no formal training as a Dom, I've never been to a social BDSM event. But that's not to say I don't know what I want. I have very clear ideas about the kind of relationship I'm after. Mainly though, I suppose I stick out because the first thing I want to do when I speak with a sub/slave is get to know her. I want to find out about her psyche, her history, what makes her the person she is. I look for deep meaning with another person (even when they're on their hands and knees:) ). I'm an artist, musician, writer, so that inevitably means I am also a hopeless romantic. So if you love poetic types that swing guitars and read extensively, someone that could love you for all the fibers in your being, but also cherish tying you up and controlling you to whatever extent you deem necessary, then look no further.
I've been rummaging online through LE and CM for a couple years now, lurking in the background and watching the rest of the group, but I think it's time I stand up and say what I'm looking for, and see if anyone else stands with me...
 
I have found that the first hurdle in gaining what you want is knowing what you want ... and you have nailed it!

I would wish you the best of luck, but you will find your own luck. I am sure of it. :)
 
Try fetlife.com. There you can look for people in your area.
 
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