Spouse's School Reunion: How do you react?

[Justfantasies]

Your spouse is going to a class reunion. It is likely that some of her early lovers will be there. What are your thoughts and fears?

 

[bobb_sledd]

Been there, done that. It's actually where I first met the guy who took her virginity.

 

[Justfantasies]

Been there, done that. It's actually where I first met the guy who took her virginity.

Did that excite you? Did it cum up in coversation?

 

[bobb_sledd]

I had known for a few years who had the pleasure of being her first. While I knew his sister in high school (unfortunately, not biblically), I had never met him. I'd have to admit that it excited me a bit. Nothing really came of it. When social media made an appearance, they connected and have stayed in touch ever since.

 

[Justfantasies]

I met the guy who took my wife’s virginity. Seemed like a nice guy. I have no problem with it. I took other guys wife’s virginity.

Fair enough

 

[Justfantasies]

Did you talk to him about it? Do you share about her now?

Yes my wife talks to her first guy too -- decades later

 

[Strixaluco]

Likely? Not too likely, I'd say. I was the first for my 1st ex. My 2nd hadn't dated any of his classmates. My late husband might have, he never told (but he avoided reunions anyway, and other cheery get-togethers). My current man definitely didn't date classmates.

Actually, in my old high school class there were only 2 couples. Others found their partners elsewhere - mine wasn't even in the same city. So, how likely is it really?

Instead, I warned my partner right in the beginning that I do go dancing from time to time, and may meet some of my exes there, even dance with them. Plenty of opportunities to be jealous if one is inclined to - and that's not something I'm willing to endure. My partner needs to trust me - I'm ready to trust him.

 

[Justfantasies]

Some men, at least, like being a little jealous. Gets the juices flowing

 

[Justfantasies]

Wow, please share more. so you compare notes about her? Any chance of getting them together for sex?

I don't talk to him -- she does. But I often talk to Cindy about the men she has fucked. Turn on for me

 

[Justfantasies]

Care to PM me and share more about her and her experiences?

happy to. but not sure exactly what you want to know? Cindy has been with about 25 men -- is that a lot?

 

[Justfantasies]

25 is a healthy amount. Does she go out alone to meet them? How do you feel when she returns home? Do you have sex immediately or does she clean up first? So much to know….

21 of them were before we met, the others when we were separated. She was super hot when she was young. Petite, real blonde . . . My first wife cheated a lot, but not Cindy, my current wife

 

[Justfantasies]

She sounds hot! What does she share about her past lovers?

everything

 

[Strixaluco]

happy to. but not sure exactly what you want to know? Cindy has been with about 25 men -- is that a lot?

I don't really know what I would consider "a lot". I don't care to think of it in general as I don't find the number a moral question - I'm mostly only interested in what suits me.

But I do know that's way more than most women, or even men. Even above average which is much higher as there is a minority being very active in this sense, pulling the average up.

 

[Justfantasies]

Some of us like experienced women

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm above the median myself, on the verge of average if I recall right, but most men in my history have only provided experience in how too many men now pretty much nothing about pleasuring women

 

[CuttingEdge]

My wife's past is just that, my wife's past. She cannot change it and neither can I so I do not waste much time thinking about it to be honest with you. I just really hone in on what I can change, and pay no attention to what I cannot. Its how I can always be calm no matter what is going on around me. I just focus my time and energy on what matters because I can change the outcome of THAT long-term.

The guy my wife lost her virginity too? I could give three shits less to be honest with you. I got so much more important stuff to work out.

To that end, they say to look in the past makes you depressed, and to look forward ahead in time, you get anxious, but to stay in the present is to be contented. It really is a solid piece of advice.

 

[Justfantasies]

I get turned on by when she has casual sex at college or soon after. Like most girls in her twenties she became very promiscuous after she lost her virginity

 

[Justfantasies]

1. When she fucked two guys on a trip to visit a boyfriend
2. She went on vacation with an Israeli guy and a German guy and they shared her
3. She let a colleague fuck her all weekend at a retreat. he was married

 

[bobb_sledd]

Did you talk to him about it? Do you share about her now?

He and I have spoken, he's actually a great guy, but not about him being her first.

 

[bobb_sledd]

Do you feel like telling him about her sex life now?

No

 

[gtnlynn]

I know all about my wife's past since we started dating when we were 15. She had lovers in college, and I urged her to go back for reunions. She had no interest, but she has reunited with college friends (all ladies) with no spouses allowed. We have attended almost all of her high school reunions with a few interesting interactions with guys who liked her.

 

[bobb_sledd]

Do you like sharing her sex life with others, possibly me?

Sorry, it's not mine to share.

 

[pumperguy191]

My wife has only had 1 class reunion since we've been together. I swear that she she showed a classmate her nipple piercing and titty tattoos. She denied it.

 

[Justfantasies]

Bump .....

 

[CliimaxForYou]

I don't talk to him -- she does. But I often talk to Cindy about the men she has fucked. Turn on for me

My ex-wife (20 years ago) recently told me that her current guy always asked how we did it and how I did her. Apparently he likes hearing the details of how I pounded her while they are making love.