spotting an alpha male with friends around

[Bowedmale]

My wife and I were at a neighborhood party and we both spotted a guy that was 6 4” naturally muscular and a log in his shorts. He kept putting his hand in his pocket which hid his cock for a bit. It wasn’t so much as a bulge as you could tell a thick long cock was in his right pant leg. He was friends with several people at the party and exudes confidence and a bit of arrogance that turned us on and others off for very different reasons.

We were at a neighborhood party and was the exact opposite of being on vacation by the pool in a foreign land. If we had attempted any hint or communication that went wrong....it would not have good for our public persona.

Does anyone have a method of attempting communication that is subtle enough to suggest future entanglements without jeopardizing relationships with friends and neighbors. I wanted to figure out a way to know if he was bi or interested in my wife. But did not make any attempt besides staring at his crotch more than I should have.

 

[Scareltt]

That’s a tough spot to be in.

Not being there, and even if I was. I’m not sure I would have done anything. Other than watched him and more importantly listened. Maybe eye contact here and there. If that worked then fine, we might have a conversation. However not knowing him it would have been kept vanilla and neighborhood appropriate.

I have to live with these people all around me. I don’t really care about their judgments then wouldn’t or don’t bother me. However I don’t want them treating or judging the rest of my family. So I wouldn’t (at this point in time) get involved with someone that close. Plus in my head there would need to be a whole like vetting process. Then you add some of the rules my husband and I have in place.

I would say watch, but also listen. Find out if he is the right guy. Let him know little secrets. See if any of them come back to you through the grapevine.

Maybe something you like to do. “I enjoy a little cigar on a Sunday morning with my coffee and the newspaper (yes I still read one printed on paper sometimes) Smoking has enough of a stigma attached to it any more that it just might be tasty enough to get passed along.

But I would still be super careful.