spice up wife??

[bigger J]

Hello all!
This is my first post here so bare with me*L*
We have been married for 15+ years now.
I am not in my eyes a sex addict but I do
really like a hott round of good old SEX!!!!!!
Problem is my wife is not as up or open as I
am to the whole thing. I have tried what I
think might help/work but same thing..........
so what I am looking for is some advice or help
on this..things to try..what ever????????????
Thanks....

 

[peachykeen]

Well you know not knowing your wife, it's nearly impossible to say.

Is she under a lot of stress at work/super busy with kids etc?

Is she otherwise pretty conservative? Did she have a strong religious upbringing?

There are many factors to take into consideration.

 

[Jaded1]

Hi, BiggerJ.

Well, you're not giving me much to work with...

While it's true that with age a person's sex drive can change there is usually more to it than that. Believe me I'm not trying to hang you out to dry but sometimes it the little thing that we forget to do.

In order to have have a warm, caring, sensual, passionate, romantic lover you have to be one. When was the last time you took this woman out to dinner, the theater, out dancing, brought her flowers, just the two of you holding one another for hours, told her you loved her, etc. It doesn't have to cost a fortune she just may need to know that you still care and find her attractive. Most women feed on emotion and touching. Need to be told thier pretty.

If the love making wasn't hot, erotic, and sensual before it doesn't mean it's going to be now.

If you want a hot, erotic, and sensual love making then be the man in her fantasies....

Jaded1, CT

 

[MyMascara]

many factors

was your sex life better when you first started having sex with her? have you talked about it with her? the best thing you can do is make her feel loved, and make sure she has a killer orgasm as much as you can, and soon she'll feel a lot more sexual, promise!

 

[sheath]

You have made an excellent start...you posted on a sex board and you are looking for serious answers.

So...tell us more. We can help, really, we can!



S.

 

[SexyChele]

You have made an excellent start...you posted on a sex board and you are looking for serious answers.

So...tell us more. We can help, really, we can!



S.

Sheath - you are so bad! Or is that good?

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

In order to have have a warm, caring, sensual, passionate, romantic lover you have to be one.

If you want a hot, erotic, and sensual love making then be the man in her fantasies....

Jaded1, CT

OH MY!! Now here is a man talking sense! Hello Guys???? and yes, I suppose Girls too ; listen up!

-kym- returning to the foreground

 

[sheath]

Sheath - you are so bad! Or is that good?

Well, I just want to help, just like the rest of us...right?

***looks around innocently, secretly searching for the juicy detailed questions***





S.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Well, I just want to help, just like the rest of us...right?

***looks around innocently, secretly searching for the juicy detailed questions***





S.

Sheath, I can relate to that!! always here to help in any way I can; and........... I'm as innocent as you!


-kym- hiding the horns behind the wings