So I have been married to a wonderful gal for quite some time now and we have hit the comfortable plateau. We're not very kinky nor plan to be. Having said that I don't want to let the spark go out. Her birthday is coming up and I want to do something nice. The thing is we are not into a lot of weird stuff. Although one time we did do it in my cousin's ice fishing shack. Thanks in advance.
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GiggLeGasm
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Cake, ice cream, and a sentimental card are nice (and I don't understand why that's no longer appropriate)
do you mean "nice" or "sparky?"
do you mean "nice" or "sparky?"
Monica_112
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Buy her lingerie - classy, sexy lingerie or nightwear
An expensive date with a nice dinner and a ritzy hotel downtown might be a nice end to a day of pampering.
Even for ones that aren't that kinky, a midnight shag with the curtains open after a few drinks is always a rush, whether it's on the 1st floor or the 20th.
Even for ones that aren't that kinky, a midnight shag with the curtains open after a few drinks is always a rush, whether it's on the 1st floor or the 20th.
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Any kind of romantic gesture would be nice. I don't know anything about your wife, but that's what I like. Mister never buys me flowers. Though, to make up for it he got me two new plants for my "garden" which is somehow surviving.
Not kinky? Try a new position. For the birthday, I'd say make it about her. Whatever she likes and some fantastic oral sex (or whatever really gets her going).
I vote try a new restaurant in a cuisine she likes, maybe a small thoughtful gift, and top it of with enthusiastic sex.
Not kinky? Try a new position. For the birthday, I'd say make it about her. Whatever she likes and some fantastic oral sex (or whatever really gets her going).
I vote try a new restaurant in a cuisine she likes, maybe a small thoughtful gift, and top it of with enthusiastic sex.
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(This isn't kinky it's classy and sexy)
At the end of the evening give her one single perfect rose.
Take her to bed and trail the bloom all over her body--all those tender places you would usually kiss. (I don't really need to recite the map do I?)
That rumpled flower becomes a keepsake not only of her birthday but of your lovemaking (and your love) Later put the petals somewhere in the bedroom as a reminder.
At the end of the evening give her one single perfect rose.
Take her to bed and trail the bloom all over her body--all those tender places you would usually kiss. (I don't really need to recite the map do I?)
That rumpled flower becomes a keepsake not only of her birthday but of your lovemaking (and your love) Later put the petals somewhere in the bedroom as a reminder.
