Spice it up...

[blackbisket]

Hi all,

My girl and I seem to keep things the same when it comes to foreplay and sex ( pretty standard stuff really), dont get me wrong we have a good time.

Im just looking for new thing to add, they dont have to be crazy but I just love new ways to please my girl.

Maybe if you girl or guys here wouldnt mine sharing a little with me, that would help a brother out in terms of adding a little flavor to what we do

 

[thelovingsadist]

My advice would be to talk to her. Have a long thorough discussion about both of your fantasies and interests, and things you might want to try, or are curious about. Maybe using a toy on her, watching each other masturbate, buying a pair of handcuffs, watching porn together, practicing erotic massage, role play...or maybe you two will discover you like a few things that are a little wilder.

Just talk. Communication is key to any successful relationship, so communicate your interests (and be open to her communication about hers) and pick out something to do together.

 

[Beck31]

Also taking a trip together can help.

 

[fire_breeze]

Welcome to Lit.

The Blank Manual has a post exactly on this - you may wish to peruse the threads for ideas(click me)

 

[blackbisket]

Welcome to Lit.

The Blank Manual has a post exactly on this - you may wish to peruse the threads for ideas(click me)

Ill check it out thabks

 

[blackbisket]

As many of you know by know my girl amd I r both disabled, I just wanted to report back on the progress we made with spicing it uo...

We watched porn together , she used a cute little vibe as I used my hand, she only like to watch hot g/g action and im running low (ideas where to get some more hi-def scenes for her)?

Also shes is planning a surprise in veges in Jan.

thanks for that link fire

 

[NaturistLouise]

So Encouraging

This is so great that want to spice up your sex life within the marriage rather than cheating. We have been married 43 years so have lots of experience in adding spice. With young kids in the house, we used to work at getting away without them ..... To this day, hotel rooms mean hot sex to us.

Over the years, we have added massage, all-over oral including rimming, pee play, erotic lingerie, fun with food, various toys, sex outside (very hot), adult videos, adult theatres, sex shops, mild exhibitionism, sharing fantasies, reading sexy stories and mutual masturbation.

We have not included others in our sex lives but if that is something you both want, go for it. Likewise bondage, spanking, erotic piercings and enemas may be things you like.

 

[Sans Tache]

Excellent advice. We have enjoyed all the activities that you mention along with including other in our sex games. But this is an activity to seriously discuss before exploring...especially if you're younger. Trust, openmindedness
and the willingness to be non-judgemental are critical.

ps: Very appealing photos, Louise.

This is so great that want to spice up your sex life within the marriage rather than cheating. We have been married 43 years so have lots of experience in adding spice. With young kids in the house, we used to work at getting away without them ..... To this day, hotel rooms mean hot sex to us.

Over the years, we have added massage, all-over oral including rimming, pee play, erotic lingerie, fun with food, various toys, sex outside (very hot), adult videos, adult theatres, sex shops, mild exhibitionism, sharing fantasies, reading sexy stories and mutual masturbation.

We have not included others in our sex lives but if that is something you both want, go for it. Likewise bondage, spanking, erotic piercings and enemas may be things you like.

 

[blackbisket]

As many of you know by know my girl amd I r both disabled, I just wanted to report back on the progress we made with spicing it uo...

We watched porn together , she used a cute little vibe as I used my hand, she only like to watch hot g/g action and im running low (ideas where to get some more hi-def scenes for her)?

Also shes is planning a surprise in veges in Jan.

thanks for that link fire

Well like I said a found something that gets her going that changes things up and I want to keep that going, her love to watch really good looking girls go at it, so is their anyone that know of a good site or whatever where I can get more hi-def stuff to keep that going on?

 

[Sarsdad]

Try a torrent site like empornium. Tonnes of free porn, plenty of it HD.

 

[blackbisket]

Try a torrent site like empornium. Tonnes of free porn, plenty of it HD.

It says the site was overtaken though?

 

[Sarsdad]

The old empornium shut down around 2 years ago but earlier this year it started up again. Couldn't tell you if it's the same mob running it but it looks much the same. They've just done an upgrade to the site. I used it today. If you Google empornium it's the very top listing - has a .me extension. It hasn't got as much content as the original but still plenty. With Cheggit recently closing down, people are returning.