Sperm Haters

[dave's thing]

After chatting with a woman today that confessed she did not like sperm in her mouth, I became curious if there were any similar people here on Lit?

If there is. I am also curious why

 

[Islander55]

I suspect you will find a number of women who do not care to have cum in their mouth. When I was younger, I would suck but finish them by hand. As I got older, I came to realize that it is not big deal to take the cum in my mouth and even down the gullet. Now cum is never going to replace my mocha latte but if the guy has been a good boy and likes it, I will finish him properly and swallow.

 

[dave's thing]

I suspect you will find a number of women who do not care to have cum in their mouth. When I was younger, I would suck but finish them by hand. As I got older, I came to realize that it is not big deal to take the cum in my mouth and even down the gullet. Now cum is never going to replace my mocha latte but if the guy has been a good boy and likes it, I will finish him properly and swallow.

I'm sure that you have to power to ensure they are good boys

 

[kissedcherry]

It is all in the head...

I think that all women would love to suck cock and enjoy having guys finish in their mouth if they were not trained to view sperm as yukky. The degree that our minds are molded my our parents and by society is extreme. Most people do not even know why they have aversions or attractions. For example, think of various things that people enjoy eating around the world. If you grow up in Japan eating raw fish will be natural and you will probably crave it just like a kid growing up in Texas will crave a nice steak.

Think about eggnog. It is RAW chicken ovum blended with some other ingredients. If a person grows up with eggnog it will seem natural and desirable to gulp down a glass of an animals raw ovum. Sperm is just the male counterpart to ovum. And human sperm should seem far more desirable than animal ovum.

If a girl grew up hearing mom and other adult women talking about how much they love the sensation of a man ejaculating into their mouth the girl would look forward to the event and not build up a negative feeling about it.

The first time a guy unloaded in my mouth I was very curious about what it would be like and had been wanting to try it. As it turned out feeling my mouth suddenly being flooded with warm sperm was thrilling. Seeing that the guy was in so much pleasure overload that he looked like he was in agony was also a thrill.

I think that here on Literotica the majority of women are not the average cross-section of society that is negative about sperm. I think that most of us find it a major turn on to give head. And when it comes to swallowing... I want it... it is al in the head. My head.

 

[Islander55]

I'm sure that you have to power to ensure they are good boys

Doesn't take much power. If a man is considerate of my needs then I am happy to return the favor. Also, I agree with Cherry, it is mostly a cultural thing and most women on Lit have probably have gotten beyond that.

 

[FL30]

After chatting with a woman today that confessed she did not like sperm in her mouth, I became curious if there were any similar people here on Lit?

If there is. I am also curious why

Since this is a sex site, you probably won't get a general feel about society as a whole. It will be a select part of society that is into sex and sexual acts probably more so than the general public so I doubt it will be as much of a negative here as it might be outside of Lit.

 

[ShaneoD]

I remember getting a handjob when I was younger, the girl panicked and pointed it away from her, which was directly at my face, when I came, I hated that.

 

[JerseyJade]

I think that all women would love to suck cock and enjoy having guys finish in their mouth if they were not trained to view sperm as yukky. The degree that our minds are molded my our parents and by society is extreme. Most people do not even know why they have aversions or attractions. For example, think of various things that people enjoy eating around the world. If you grow up in Japan eating raw fish will be natural and you will probably crave it just like a kid growing up in Texas will crave a nice steak.

This makes a lot of sense. Never really thought of it that way, but you might be right about that.

Think about eggnog. It is RAW chicken ovum blended with some other ingredients. If a person grows up with eggnog it will seem natural and desirable to gulp down a glass of an animals raw ovum. Sperm is just the male counterpart to ovum. And human sperm should seem far more desirable than animal ovum.

Eggnog is gross!

If a girl grew up hearing mom and other adult women talking about how much they love the sensation of a man ejaculating into their mouth the girl would look forward to the event and not build up a negative feeling about it.

Well if I overheard my mom talking about this with her friends or one of my Aunts, I would probably freak out. I would be like.. WTMI! But I did grow up hearing about this and sex in general from girls that were a little older than me which made me curious and anxious, so there was that.

The first time a guy unloaded in my mouth I was very curious about what it would be like and had been wanting to try it. As it turned out feeling my mouth suddenly being flooded with warm sperm was thrilling. Seeing that the guy was in so much pleasure overload that he looked like he was in agony was also a thrill.

This! Not just the first time, either... but every time I do that

 

[jehoram]

After chatting with a woman today that confessed she did not like sperm in her mouth, I became curious if there were any similar people here on Lit?

If there is. I am also curious why

There's sperm and there's sperm. Some of it tastes better than others. If her first experience with tasting sperm was with a guy whose sperm had picked up all the off-flavors of beer or artichoke or whatever he'd been eating, I wouldn't blame her for being leery about it.

I knew a girl who told me that she kept a bottle of ginger ale near here when she was blowing somebody, so she could wash the taste of any off-flavored sperm from her mouth. Unfortunately, she wasn't taking samples that day.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife won't allow me to cum in her mouth because of a bad experience in college. She was dating a guy and having sex with him regularly. One night, he pulled her face down to his cock and told her to just take it in. So she opened her mouth, and he pushed her face down, holding it there while he shot a huge load in her mouth. She almost threw up. She will take a cock in her mouth, but it has to pull out before ejaculating. She doesn't mind the taste of cum and will even lick it off my cock, but she doesn't want a load shot into her mouth.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

I don’t like the taste. I know people say “oh if he changes his diet it tastes better” but my dislike of the taste of semen has been pretty consistent over multiple partners through the years. I love the smell of cum, but hate the taste.

My husband doesn’t really care if I don’t swallow. He’d rather finish on my face or my tits anyway. I think some guys have been conditioned to think that it’s super important for their partners to swallow — like it’s some sort of rejection if you don’t.

 

[MatureChattyMann]

I'm more interested in mutual pleasure than where my cum happens to end up.

 

[Lady2020]

It's like anything else. Women have their likes and dislikes. It also may be a matter of the man not making the best of a situation.

 

[Sassyunicorn]

Sperm?

I'm going to be "that guy." Why are we calling cum/semen/ejaculate sperm? Sperm is only one component of that fluid. Makes this conversation sound a little juvenile.

Ok, let the flaming commence. Go easy on me, I normally don't let my cynical side show on Lit.

To add something to the thread other than inevitably starting an argument with hurt egos, I'm a guy that is slightly curious about sucking dick. If I ever do it, I might as well swallow, but the consistency of cum grosses me out when I think about it in my mouth. Even watching a woman swallow my cum fills me with gratitude for following through with something potentially so gag-inducing. The world owes a huge favor to anyone that makes this a better place by swallowing all these loads of cum.

THANK YOU!

 

[Islander55]

I have never noticed the consistency of cum in my mouth. If it is on my body, it is rather sticky and messy. In my mouth, it is just a warm fluid that goes down easily. Now I have only swallowed my husband and I can tell when he is ready. He likes to be deep in my mouth when he cums so there is minimal taste and down the hatch without conscious thought.

 

[Sassyunicorn]

I have never noticed the consistency of cum in my mouth. If it is on my body, it is rather sticky and messy. In my mouth, it is just a warm fluid that goes down easily. Now I have only swallowed my husband and I can tell when he is ready. He likes to be deep in my mouth when he cums so there is minimal taste and down the hatch without conscious thought.

You know, it makes sense that it would be a warm fluid that goes down easily. It becomes runny when it's inside other bodily orifices, so why would the mouth be any different. When I think about the consistency of it, I'm looking at it on skin or going down the drain.

 

[Hipshot1554]

For me, having my cock sucked to orgasm is the most intense of all, but having a woman do something she doesn't like would ruin in for me. It would be inconsiderate and rude to expect it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Hating goes both ways. Guys expect their partner to kiss them after they lick her pussy, but won’t kiss her after they cum in her mouth.

 

[Boondocker2]

Hating goes both ways. Guys expect their partner to kiss them after they lick her pussy, but won’t kiss her after they cum in her mouth.

I guess I am different. I will.

 

[ElijaRDC]

The only place I've ever hated it is in my eyes and hair... and now my hair is buzzed off, lol.

 

[DarkWhispers2U]

The partner never required me to swallow. I didn't take a load into my mouth for the first few years of our marriage. Then one day I decided to try it. Tasted awful. Barely forced it down then got an immediate stomach ache and threw up. Partner still doesn't ask or expect me to swallow.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I think sometimes it’s experience.

 

[sterculius]

I'm a guy, but I'm also a Cocksucker. I happen to like the taste and the texture of a man's ejaculate. I would be disappointed if a guy I was blowing opted not to cum in my mouth. I consider it my earned reward. My wife, on the other hand, doesn't like the taste of cum, never has, not mine nor her ex husband or any of her former boyfriends. She would blow them, as long as they agreed not to cum in her mouth.

 

[kissedcherry]

Let the guy make the choice.

I don’t like the taste. I know people say “oh if he changes his diet it tastes better” but my dislike of the taste of semen has been pretty consistent over multiple partners through the years. I love the smell of cum, but hate the taste.

My husband doesn’t really care if I don’t swallow. He’d rather finish on my face or my tits anyway. I think some guys have been conditioned to think that it’s super important for their partners to swallow — like it’s some sort of rejection if you don’t.

I think that pulling off a cock just before ejaculation and orgasm breaks the wonderment of the moment at the worst possible time. So I used to always have guys finish in my mouth and if they told me there were about to cum and thought I would want to know so I could pull off I would speed up and suck harder to make it clear that they were welcome to unload in my mouth. But a year ago my sister pointed out that some guys actually prefer to pull out and spray the face or tits. So if the whole point of a blow job is to pleasure a guy I have switched my approach and let guys know it is there choice.

 

[kissedcherry]

Thank you!

For me, having my cock sucked to orgasm is the most intense of all, but having a woman do something she doesn't like would ruin in for me. It would be inconsiderate and rude to expect it.

In this case I don't care and would want you to do whatever felt best. But in principle I think it important that both men and women honor each other and never force or pressure a lover to do anything they don't like. I don't enjoy anal and once I have explained that to a guy I don't understand why some keep asking for it. Why would they want to do something that they enjoy knowing that I don't? That kind of selfish thinking adds to negative feelings about sex.