Speaking of my weekend I have a question

[Weevil]

I had the weirdest moment and conundrum thrown to me over the weekend. How do you respond to your baby sisters(Well, she's 16 but it stands) question about things that, well, I was kind of hoping she wouldn't know or care to ask about. And what position does this put me in? Do I instruct her on the various ways she can defy the Pope and get myself excommunicated from the family officially? Don't girls have other girls they can ask? Well, I'm probably over-reacting. I mean, 16 year old girls don't have sex, right?????

Breath, Weevil, breath.

 

[Scruffy]

Scruffy thinks you should respond with care and love. She obviously thought you could help her.

 

[Adoratrice]

WHoaaaaaaaaaa


this threads has a whole new meaning once you read it right as "BabySister" and not "Baby SITTER"


and yes 16 year old girls have sex. Then they get pregnant and marry some jerk who treats them like shit for 5 years until they wake up and realize they don't need to take it from him anymore.


Do I sound bitter?

 

[Weevil]

WHoaaaaaaaaaa


this threads has a whole new meaning once you read it right as "BabySister" and not "Baby SITTER"

yes I imagine it would, hee hee.

But that's besides the point. Is a patented EBW chickening out the best answer?

And yes, you sound a little bitter. So I suppose I should say "Listen to JP the 2" on this one?

 

[lavender]

 

[Scruffy]

Nice try Ms.lavender but I read your post too quick!

 

[Guest]

Trojan Man sez:

"An ounce of prevention is worth 8 lbs. of baby."

 

[Laurel]

WHoaaaaaaaaaa


this threads has a whole new meaning once you read it right as "BabySister" and not "Baby SITTER"


and yes 16 year old girls have sex. Then they get pregnant and marry some jerk who treats them like shit for 5 years until they wake up and realize they don't need to take it from him anymore.


Do I sound bitter?

Maybe just a teeny eeny weeny bit...

 

[Adoratrice]

Trojan Man sez:

"An ounce of prevention is worth 8 lbs. of baby."

Amen...........Preach it brotha preach it!

 

[cymbidia]

I was having sex at 16 - as a matter of fact, i was already a practicing submissive at 16. contrary to some rather surprisingly bitter portrayals here (gods, Adoratrice, i'm so sorry), not every girl who does is worse off for it.

Answer her questions honestly, forthrightly, with as much factual info as you can pull up from your brain.

Don't be embarassed or treat her as if she's a child and shouldn't be asking these questions; you'll only send her seeking answers someplace else - and maybe those answers won't be as good as you can provide.

If you can't answer her the way you would like to answer her, make an appt for her at a Planned Parenthood clinic and go with her, a show of support.

If she's old enough to ask, then she deserves good answers.

cym <--- rl sex ed teacher to gazillions of 14 year olds

 

[Adoratrice]

Maybe just a teeny eeny weeny bit...

I'm over it now ....really.



only a few occasional flashbacks.


Cym is right.always be honest, she trusts you for a reason.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

yes they do have sex... my sister was one of the stupid 16 year olds... she didnt know anything about birth control, or std's (at least that i know of) and she's a bit dumb at times when it comes to common sense... be happy your sister is asking questions about it, mine didnt... and she's got a child now

 

[It'sasecret]

Yes, be VERY honest. Ask HER questions too. Find out what she already knows or what she has been misinformed about. If she says she is ready to have sex, take her to get condoms, birth conltol etc. Even if you disagree that she is ready, b/c she will do it anyway and she is better off being protected.


p.s. I read that as babysitter too!!! lol

oh by the way, just what did she ask you?

 

[Weevil]

Hmmmmm. So you're all in agreement then? A patented EBW chickening out is the way to go? Well thank christ. That takes a load off my mind.

 

[Weevil]

Yes, be VERY honest. Ask HER questions too. Find out what she already knows or what she has been misinformed about. If she says she is ready to have sex, take her to get condoms, birth conltol etc. Even if you disagree that she is ready, b/c she will do it anyway and she is better off being protected.


p.s. I read that as babysitter too!!! lol

oh by the way, just what did she ask you?

Hot Sniggity Damn!!! I've already gotten in trouble for making me not Catholic. Don't you realize how long drunk Irish folk hold a grudge!