Speaking of Masturbation

[TN_Vixen]

I'd just like to say one thing. Back when I was growing up and being the good faithful, loyal Christian that I was (albeit, Presbyterian.. so we believe in everything in moderation)... and being in a clique of "good girls" masturbation was a taboo topic. It was never talked about, never admitted and considered "dirty" and "sluttish"... so I, for years, hid my secret passion to masturbate thinking that it was a sinful act punishable beyond my wildest imagination.

As I grew older I realized that the popular consensus was that masturbation was normal, however, I never really got beyond that initial shame and continued to deny, or hide my private self-pleasure. As a result, I've only once in my sexual life been able to orgasm in front of a partner by self-manipulation... and that wasn't even with my husband of 7 years!!

I'm sure that other women here have felt the same thing... I need VALIDATION! hehe.. c'mon girls, let me know. Even men, contribute please.

 

[Vlad]

Sorry TN-Vixen, this doesn't pertain to masturbation. When I saw TN, it reminded me of one time in a bar in Printer's Alley, Nashville, TN, a young lady from Peabody took a tissue out her purse and spanked my monkey under the table. There were people everywhere, but no one noticed. Haven't thought about that girl in a long time, she was a great piece of Tennessee ass....

Sorry, please continue..

Vlad

 

[MinkSoul]

Hmmm.... maybe you could use that, you know, "I'm a dirty little girl.....I'm such a dirty girl" and stroke yourself to freedom.

Or, at least, have more fun rubbin the nubbin...

 

[Sammyjo]

My mother was and still is a good one for promoting all these stupid myths.

Masturbation is bad...umm k
Virgins don't use tampons...umm k


I'm sure there is more, I just can't think right now...too busy worrying if I'm going to hell for all the masturbation and lying about my virginity....blah

 

[Cheyenne]

My mother was and still is a good one for promoting all these stupid myths.

Virgins don't use tampons...umm k

Really? My mom gave me tampons to use the very first time I got my period! Actually *blush*, she had to show me how to insert the first one because I was afraid to do it on my own.

 

[pandora]

I could never have any kind of self pleasure with my husband. He was always to stiff and formal, but then I ran into my present lover, and anything goes with him. I felt ashamed the first few times letting him watch me, but then I realized how much he was aroused by seeing me play with myself. Now when the mood is right for us both, we just lay back on the couch and go at it. I guess it really comes down to whom you feel really comfortable with or who can make you feel comfortable with yourself.

 

[Guest]

what worked for me

 

[Thumper]

Let's play...

Play away vixen! Play away! I love to watch my partner pleasure herself and I enjoy being watched (just had that opportunity 20 minutes ago)

Several years ago, I was working at a Pizza Hut part time as a driver. There was this waitress there who had a boyfriend that was in the local slammer. She and I began talking and it got around to sex (of course) and she said the only sex she had partaken in was masturbation when reading her boyfriend's letters. I guess they were very explicit. Anyway this discussion and her frankness about masturbating had me more than a little worked "up" She noticed (it is hard to hide if you wear tight fitting jeans, I will never go "baggy" LOL) and ran the tip of her finger along the length of my rather aroused cock. That surprised me but not as much as what she said ..."Can I see it?" That did it. Totally hard now...of course I said yes but not right behind the store. So we went around to a more secluded but well lit area and she then unbuttoned and unzipped my pants and eased my cock out. It was summer but the night air was cool and the warmth of her fingers intensified the feeling as she held me in the palm of her hand and just looked. She had a great touch, light and gentle...all she said after a moment was.."MMMM Nice, let's go somewhere less busy". I guess you could say I was putty in her hands but putty wouldn't be an apt description to say the least. We got in my car(a big ugly brown station wagon) and headed to the local elementary school parking lot and parked in a back corner. She then undid my pants and resumed her ministrations and then asked me to do it while she watched. This was a first for me but being so turned on I started slowly stroking myself..as always happens the precum soon covered my cock and the head glistened in the pale light. She talked to me the whole time telling me how much reading her boyfriends letters describing how he masturbated turned her on. She said watching me was making her pussy wet and that she wanted to fuck me but she couldn't since it was our first time(??? Go figure) and she thought I wouldn't respect her. Well any way I was kissing her neck while she was talking and careesing my thigh. She took her top off and allowed me to lick and suck on her nipples as I continued playing. I was holding off on coming so I could enjoy this more and in doing so I was now soaked in precum. She was getting into it and said "That looks good. I'd love to taste it" So I moved a little closer and said "You can if you want". The feeling of her tongue and lips almost sent me over the edge. She sucked the head for a few way too brief moments and then moved up to my ear and whispered "Next week I will take you all the way" and began kissing my neck..that was it! She sensed I was ready to come and said "Come on my tits baby" and I proceeded to do just that, I rubbed the head of my cock against her tiny hard pink nipple as my come spread over her breast and began running down her chest. She was surprised when I then took her nipple in my mouth and sucked on it. I then kissed her so she could taste it and took her hand and placed it on my still hard cock. Still kissing her she moaned softly as her fingers curled around the slick shaft and she felt it still throbbing from my orgasm. I was so turned on by this whole scene that I stayed hard and let her watch me again...but this time she took her pants off and let me watch her too...

Oh the memories this thread brought back....we did get together the next week...and she was just as adept with her tongue as with her hands.

Now I enjoy "performing" for my lovers...if they ask. i like being asked...don't know why...just do.

 

[Merelan]

I am asking!!!!! begging... pleading!!!!

 

[Silverlily]

Good lord, I forgot what I was going to say.

 

[Merelan]

Exactly my thoughts... Kitty... your his sweet lover.. make him go in detail about the next week...

 

[Thumper]

*actually*

Since today is payday..I was just getting ready to head out the door to get some new toys...

A reverb pedal and
a Bass chorus pedal and
a computer camera...

Was going to get one even before this thread...

Now I have motivation..

I think you have seen Merelan
Haven't you?

 

[Silverlily]

Re: *actually*

a computer camera...

Was going to get one even before this thread...

Now I have motivation..

mmmm, imagine the possiblities, we could video conference call!

 

[Thumper]

I wish I could get in touch....

so to speak...with her again.

Not only was she good with her hands...she was an accomplished fellatrix... and she enjoyed herself doing it. That to me is most important..attitude..only three times in my life has a woman been able to get me to come the first time she went down on me...she was number two

Most women need to learn how I enjoy it, she was just very attentive and tried different things and guaged my response..OK I need to think of something else now...

Hey how about them Bengals...I hear they're switching roles with the cheerleaders this week. Line is the girls will lose but they'll score more.

A linebacker in a skirt....took care of that problem...hehe

 

[Silverlily]

only three times in my life has a woman been able to get me to come the first time she went down on me...she was number two

Hmm, sounds like a challenge.

 

[Thumper]

*throwing down the gauntlet*

I can be a bit of a challenge...just ask my wife...

I have to go get dressed and run some errands...damnit I hate real life sometimes...LOL

Perhaps we can discuss some of lifes challenges some time Kitten...

 

[Silverlily]

WHAT?? You mean this whole time you weren't dressed??

Probably just as well I didn't know, I don't think I would have been able to type.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

I love to be naughty so to speak in front of my hubby he goes nuts because he can't play too...I even give him a taste just to get him going ...I'm such a bad little girl

 

[Thumper]

Use your imagination!

Of course I am not wearing anything...

That camera may be good for something after all...hmmmm

I have the whole house to myself for a couple of hours..and after playing this morning with the wife...why get dressed?

Maybe some cute female UPS driver will deliver something...

Hey! It happens. It says so right in all those Penthouse letters!

 

[Silverlily]

How quickly they forget...

I don't have to use my imagination, just my memory, which will bring us back on topic for this particular thread.

Excuse me, I need a minute.

 

[Thumper]

Just a minute??

Need any help?

Can I watch?

Damn damn damn...

I'd love to be a fly on her wall..or a bunny looking in the window hehehehehe

Or just listening in...

 

[Merelan]

Or the whisper of touch that caresses her soft thigh? or the gentle kiss on her naked shoulder? Or the murmer passing her open lips as she cums in her own rhythym?

Thumper, would you settle for being one of those?

 

[Thumper]

Who is gonna take care of this??

Now look what you have gone and done Merelan...

Now I need a minute...or 30....I like to make it last...

Think I might videotape it and leave it for the wife to "find"

 

[Merelan]

Lucky damn wife....
you are about to get mail...........

 

[Silverlily]

Hey, I want mail too.

(and a copy of that tape)